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Kenapa perlu bercinta ?

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Post time 6-12-2017 09:01 AM | Show all posts |Read mode
Hidup sentiasa ada dua pilihan. Dan pilihan yang kau ambil pasti takdirnya berbeza-beza.

Korang, lebih prefer single tapi sunyi atau couple/kahwin.. Mungkin bahagia, tapi hakikatnya banyak dugaan. Dan kena terima segala kemungkinan untuk dikecewakan atau terluka.

Kadang rasa pelik, kenapa orang sekarang terlalu kejarkan perkahwinan. Umur bawah aku yang baru belasan tahun pun dah ramai yang tunang. And aku yang di sini masih single terasa aww.

Aku single sebab aku memang taknak ade apa2 kaitan dengan cinta. Aku still muda. Tapi bila tengok orang sekeliling, yang tak habis2 cerita pasal cinta, pasal bahagia nya berkapel. I be like, tolonglah hidup masing2 kot. Ingat bahagia tu datang waktu kauorng bercinta jeke? nyampah ok dengan orang mcm ni. Lagi2 yang tanya,

Kau tak bosan ke single memanjang. Jangan jual mahal sangat nanti takde sapa yang nak. Come on Allah dah tetapkan jodoh kita sapa. Dia nak atau taknak aku, tetap akan bersama dgn aku jugak nanti.

Tapi buat masa sekarang, why not fokus pada kerjaya atau benda2 yang lebih penting lagi. Atau fokus pada akhirat. Aku yakin, kau fokus pada akhirat, dunia mesti kau akan pandang kerdil.

Tolonglah, hidup bukan sekadar untuk bahagia kemudian dilukakan. Ada banyak lagi tujuan kita hidup. Yang paling penting, hidup untuk membawa bekalan buat kehidupan bahagia yang kekal abadi di akhirat kelak.




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Post time 6-12-2017 09:24 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Sampai masa jodoh  tt  sampai nanti kawin la
Chill2 udeh dengan mulot2 orang tu.
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Post time 6-12-2017 09:36 AM | Show all posts
ala biar le apa org nk ckp yg penting u bahagia
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Post time 6-12-2017 10:41 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You know what you want, and how you want to live. Different people with different perspective. Biarlah dorang hidup dengan jalan yg dorang pilih. Agree to disagree jah. Tak perlu ko bangkang segala tindakan dorang sebab aim hidup setiap org tu berbeza. Asalkan bahagia tu ko yg rasa. Your life, you decide what you want to be.
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Post time 6-12-2017 12:09 PM | Show all posts
doubleA replied at 6-12-2017 10:41 AM
You know what you want, and how you want to live. Different people with different perspective. Biarl ...

bestnya komen ni! nah bunga

100% agree with you, kita tak boleh paksa semua orang suka apa yang kita suka or apa yang kita nak, kita pun ada benda yang kita tak suka kan. So, asalkan masih dalam landasan yang betul di sisi agama dan moral, do what you love and be happy
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Post time 6-12-2017 12:23 PM | Show all posts
iamteana123 replied at 6-12-2017 12:09 PM
bestnya komen ni! nah bunga

100% agree with you, kita tak boleh paksa semua orang suka ...

thanks
yes, tak perlu condemn pendapat orang lain hanya sebab kita tak fikir macam tu. semua org berhak tentukan hidup dan bahagia sendiri. I would say I pun jenis prioritize things and I know what I want in life. Jadi peduli la siapa cakap apapun sebab hidup kita dan sesiapa pun takkan sama jalannya, susah senang kita juga tanggung. So, buat la apa yg rasa betul, happy dan menjana pahala utk akhirat.


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Post time 6-12-2017 01:08 PM | Show all posts
Edited by Minami2013 at 6-12-2017 01:10 PM


Women are happier being single than men are, because being in a relationship is harder work for women, new research suggests.

According to a study by data analysts Mintel, 61 per cent of single women are happy being single, versus 49 per cent of single men.

The survey also found that 75 per cent of single women have not actively looked for a relationship in the last year, compared to 65 per cent of single men.

“There’s evidence that women spend longer on domestic tasks than men and I think they also do more emotional work - so they still do more housework and cooking and things as well as more emotional labour,” Professor Emily Grundy, of the University of Essex, told The Telegraph.

From spending more time and money on upkeep of your appearance, doing more chores and putting more effort into resolving problems or arguments, being in a heterosexual relationship typically involves a lot of effort for a woman.

What’s more, women are simply happier being single than men are. We’re better at socialising by ourselves and are more likely to have close friends we feel we can turn to in times of need.


“Women tend to be better at having alternative social networks and other confidantes whereas men tend to rely quite heavily on their wives for that and have fewer other social ties,” Dr Grundy explains.

“Certainly there’s a common finding from a lot of studies that women who don’t have a partner tend to do more social activities and more friends compared to women with partners whereas with men it’s the reverse - men without a partner tend to do much less of that.

“So it may be that women have a wider range of alternatives,” she said.

There’s also the fact that the stigma of being a single woman is gradually changing.

The concept of spinsters and bachelors is on the way out, and society is finally realising that yes, many single women aren’t in relationships because they’re actually happy being independent, doing whatever they want with their time, and they don’t actually need anyone else.
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Post time 6-12-2017 01:54 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by noraidil_06 at 6-12-2017 01:57 PM
Minami2013 replied at 6-12-2017 01:08 PM
Women are happier being single than men are, because being in a relationship is harder work for wo ...


I think kajian ni bersesuaian dgn gaya hidup n budaya si pengkaji. Where they dont mind sex out of wedlock.

I believe be it man or woman,  mahu disayangi,  desire for intimate relationship which is prohibited by our religion n adat budaya.

Having said that,  single ke plural ke ade pro n cons. Its how u lead ur life make the difference
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Post time 6-12-2017 03:39 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kenapa perlu bercinta


sebab bercinta tu best
rugi lah kalau tak bercinta


tapi kawen tu lagi best
dan rugilah kalau tak kawen

Allah maha bolak balekkan hati manusia
sekarang adik rasa bercinta tu xbest tapi nanti bila Allah campakkan rasa nak bercinta tu dalam hati masa tu mungkin kena usaha la mencari cinta atau sesiapa untuk dicintai

yang utama nya cintai diri sendiri dahulu
kerana org yg tak mencintai dirinya sendiri mana mungkin mencintai orang lain
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Post time 6-12-2017 03:42 PM | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 6-12-2017 01:54 PM
I think kajian ni bersesuaian dgn gaya hidup n budaya si pengkaji. Where they dont mind sex out  ...

Emmm, in term of sex maybe perempuan nafsu nya bukan macam lelaki... which is masih boleh control... tapi lebih kpd perlu shoulder to cry on... because i ada kwn perempuan yg kahwin for the sake of tak nak title andartu & unfortunately the guy she married with tak boleh nak bagi nafkah batin due to health problem... dan now takut pulak dgn title janda if divorce...so harung je la die...
I nampak kwn2 yg stay single happy je ngan xtvt masing2 & yg dah kawin ni lebih kpd responsibility...perempuan yg kena work hard to maintain the marriage... including me ... Cth penampilan kena cantik2 utk suami, bergaul mesra dgn mertua ipar duai etc..

Walau yg single ni ada cabaran tersendiri kita tak nafikan... so i kind of agree yg single maybe lebih happy...


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Post time 6-12-2017 03:53 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Minami2013 replied at 6-12-2017 03:42 PM
Emmm, in term of sex maybe perempuan nafsu nya bukan macam lelaki... which is masih boleh control. ...

Sedih la kawin sbb takut persepsi org. Lg sedih bila terkawin dgn jantan dayus yg x blh perform.
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Post time 6-12-2017 04:24 PM | Show all posts
no need worry, kita perlu bercinta supaya hidup kita akan lebih bermakna dan lebih bermotivasi , cuma carilah yang boleh memberikan cinta yang sejati atau pun paling tak cinta yang x menyusahkan dikemudian hari. Meantime chill je dik
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Post time 6-12-2017 06:22 PM | Show all posts
hahaha...alah benda ni pun aku rasa. just jangan kisah je dengan mulut orang. abaikan je pemikiran orang. senang!
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Post time 6-12-2017 07:37 PM | Show all posts
kenapa bercinta bila kesudahannya pasrah
kerana bila dilamun indah tak terkata
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Post time 6-12-2017 09:54 PM | Show all posts
Edited by emily.topaz at 6-12-2017 09:56 PM

When you meet someone yang you selesa berkawan, dari situ dtg nya sayang & you mungkin inginkan lebih dr itu. Bila kita tak jumpe org yg berkenaan, bukan sbb memilih or not. Dah takda chemistry nak buat mcm mana kan. Jadi kita memlih utk sendiri

Single or taken ada bahagia & sedih nya. Takde nye kalo taken memanjang bahagia. Single memanjang sunyi. It depends on how you appreciate your life.
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Post time 7-12-2017 01:51 AM | Show all posts
sbb itu movie2 drama2 novel2 malaysia asik2 chenta asik2 chentaa dari zaman dulu sampai sekarang, tak de kerja lain org malaysia ni. padahal ramai ja bercerai rumah tangga perantakan skandal sana sini. hidup asik melayan perasaan aja. baik pi macing ka tanam sayur tonton movie ka ada paedah
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Post time 8-12-2017 11:08 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ninja boy replied at 7-12-2017 01:51 AM
sbb itu movie2 drama2 novel2 malaysia asik2 chenta asik2 chentaa dari zaman dulu sampai sekarang, ta ...

itu bukti bahawasanya cinta itu indah
bahagia itu susah
maka lahirlah fantasi yang menjadikan movie dan novel sebagai manifestasi
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Post time 8-12-2017 06:19 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ninja boy replied at 7-12-2017 01:51 AM
sbb itu movie2 drama2 novel2 malaysia asik2 chenta asik2 chentaa dari zaman dulu sampai sekarang, ta ...

Bersepah je novel msia yg bukan cinta
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Post time 8-12-2017 10:26 PM | Show all posts
so apa yg hg nk sampaikan dik?
apa masalah/issue kat sini
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Post time 8-12-2017 11:00 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Bercinta mmg seronok dek..rasa di awangan je doplopat jam.rugi kalau xnk bercinta..tp bercinta x semestinya end up ngan perkahwinan.anggap je satu pengalaman baru yg mungkin xkn kau lupakan.biarlah depa nk seronok in love.kalau kau rasa bahagia je single xde masalah pon kan.buang sikit sifat dengki tu.
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