Why men hear 'yes' when women mean 'no'

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Reading the signals right!

Ever wondered why things go wrong during amorous and passionate bedroom trysts?

Well, a new study has given the answer, by finding that men frequently misread signals from women that they want to slow down and women are often indirect in saying what they mean.

According to UC Davis communication professor Michael Motley, faulty male introspection may explain why men so often misinterpret women's indirect messages to stop or slow down the escalation of sexual intimacy.

"When she says 'It's getting late,' he may hear 'So let's skip the preliminaries,'" Motley said.

"The problem is that he is interpreting what she said by trying to imagine what he would mean -- and the only reason he can imagine saying 'It's getting late' while making out is to mean 'Let's speed things up挃 he added.

Motley calls it the "introspection" explanation.

"Males' inferred meanings for women's indirect sexual resistance messages are more similar to the meanings males would have intended by those same messages than to the meanings women intend,

raudah

interesthing....huhuhuhuhuhu

pujanclay

im not maried yet...but it will be a good guide for me to change no to yes

bzzts

pompan nih banyak sgt kasi scrambled signal. pastu kalo org salah baca, pandai plak marah2. ciyom kang...

raudah

Originally posted by bzzts at 30-4-2008 07:36 PM
pompan nih banyak sgt kasi scrambled signal. pastu kalo org salah baca, pandai plak marah2. ciyom kang...

cetttttttttttttttttttt ade pulakk....kene amik tahu tu sume

Ass

len kali ckp direct je la...x la nyusah kn orng....

kalo da salah, majuk la pulok....

bzzts

Originally posted by raudah at 30-4-2008 07:39 PM

cetttttttttttttttttttt ade pulakk....kene amik tahu tu sume

aku memang le tau. saje je nak point kat sini pasal scrambled signal tuh.

pujanclay

aku kadang2 fenin ngan pom nih..mulut slalu ckp lain..tp hati ckp lain...
xleh ke ckp terus terang...

kalau rindu katakan rindu
tidak hamba lari ke seberang
kalu mahu katakan mahu
kan senang terus terang

donbotak

betul..............

kalau suka ckp je suke..............
kalau cinta ckp je cinta...........

raudah

Originally posted by bzzts at 30-4-2008 07:54 PM

aku memang le tau. saje je nak point kat sini pasal scrambled signal tuh.

cetttttttttt gedik loooooo

raudah

Originally posted by Ass at 30-4-2008 07:52 PM
len kali ckp direct je la...x la nyusah kn orng....

kalo da salah, majuk la pulok....

bukan ke tu sifat pempuan..takkan laki nak majok kot

pujanclay

aah
its better that way kan
xpayah la nak send signal yg macam2...biar kat menatang gemuk DIGI dah la signal2 nih

raudah

Originally posted by pujanclay at 30-4-2008 07:54 PM
aku kadang2 fenin ngan pom nih..mulut slalu ckp lain..tp hati ckp lain...
xleh ke ckp terus terang...

kalau rindu katakan rindu
tidak hamba lari ke seberang
kalu mahu katakan mahu
ka ...

tak sume hati untuk dibicara....

raudah

Originally posted by donbotak at 30-4-2008 08:01 PM
betul..............

kalau suka ckp je suke..............
kalau cinta ckp je cinta...........

awek tu giler kott

donbotak

Originally posted by raudah at 30-4-2008 08:04 PM

awek tu giler kott

cinta tu yg giler kot..................awek tu ok.....

bzzts

Originally posted by raudah at 30-4-2008 08:01 PM

cetttttttttt gedik loooooo

most of the time, pompuan cakap "NO" sebab nak suruh laki pujuk dia suh kata "YES".
ayat pendek = jual mahal

raudah

Originally posted by donbotak at 30-4-2008 08:07 PM


cinta tu yg giler kot..................awek tu ok.....

cinta gilerr....mmmm....mayb

raudah

Originally posted by bzzts at 30-4-2008 08:10 PM

most of the time, pompuan cakap "NO" sebab nak suruh laki pujuk dia suh kata "YES".
ayat pendek = jual mahal

ye keeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

cettttttttt wa nak cuba laa

pujanclay

yes
aku setuju...sj je nak ngada2..tp best arr pujuk pom ni dari no smpi ckp yes...
tul x odah?

bzzts

yes, oh yes...