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camne nak tau org tu jodoh kita ek..?

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Post time 18-5-2009 05:39 PM | Show all posts |Read mode
emm..diha konpius..nak letak kt board PP ke kt sini...last2 i decided to letak sini la...

diha br putus tunang januari lepas..sape yg penah bc mmg tau la...tp skrg ni diha da completetly recovered..  alhamdulillah..selepas hampir 5 bulan...

emm early april aritu..diha ada bekenalan ngn  sorg laki ni..kami kwn2 bls2 msg kt satu forum ni..diha ada la tgk gmba dia..n sebab dia ni dulu satu sekolah ngn diha dulu..(kami tak kenal each other)so, ktorg byk la bhn nk diborakkan. diha takde hati pun kat dia..dlm pd tu..diha ada kwn ngn dua org lelaki gak..n sama gak..takde ape2 perasaaan...diha kwn je..

sampai la satu hari tu tergerak hati nak buat solat istikharah..ye la..sebab diha pk diha tgh kwn ngn lelaki..so diha pun wat...n mlm tu diha mimpi kan dak lelaki yg  satu sekolah tu..tp diha pelik..diha takde phone no dia pun...takla rapat sgt..bls msg gitu2 je kt forum tu..

pastu entah cane..terjumpa kt ym..n dia ajak jumpa..n sume berlaku ngn sgt senang sekali..pastu diha pun tak tau nape...hati diha ni mcm dibuka selapang2 nya...
diha cam bleh terima dia, even tergerak dihati..kalu ini jodoh aku pun takpe..

dr segi rupa mmg la dia tak sehensem ex tunang..tp dr sudut lain..dia da memenuhi kriteria..beriman..itu yg sgt penting..diha da selidik latar belakang dia..

cume skrg kami berkwn..n jauh kt sudut ht..diha harap..ni la jodoh..tp pengalaman lepas..buat diha takut..

soalan diha....: cane korg ngan suami / isteri korang dulu? cane perasaan? yakin ke ngn pilihan korg? dulu ms diha ngn ex..diha ada perasaan was2 utk kawin..tp kali ni..diha lak yg rasa excited..and alhamdulillah..so far..diha nmpk cam berminat ngn diha..ape yg dia ckp la..wallahualam..
korang yakin tak? penah wat istikharah tak? ada tak dpt petunjuk pape?  tolong ek..

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Post time 18-5-2009 05:52 PM | Show all posts
kalu dah kawin ngan org tu..jodoh ko la tu..
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Post time 18-5-2009 05:59 PM | Show all posts
oklah dik diha....sini akak nak cite pasal pengalaman akak sikit....
ms akak first time jumpa hubby akak skrg ni...akak benci meluat dgn dia...dah beratus kali gaklah dia col n ajak akak kuar...tp akak byk bg alasan...x mo...hmpir setahun gaklah .ms tu belum jumpa lagi 2 mata....cuma ckp by phone je... at last...akak pun tergeraklah hati nak jumpa...so jumpalah kita org... ms jumpa tu..akak masih lagi jual mahal...tetapi dlm hati...tiba2 je terdetik...inilah jodoh aku..
        serius dik....x lama lepas tu kita kwan...n break selama setahun...after raya 2000...kita jumpa lagi...tu pun sebab akak ingat no phone dia...no phone org lain haram nak ingat..pahtu jumpa..n dia ajak kawin..n akhirnya...kami kawin...dan bahagia sampai sekarang..
    ape yg akak nak bgthu kat sini....bisikan hati yg pertama terlintas tu akan menjadi kenyataan tau...itu akak punya pengalamanlah..org lain akak x taulah..so..akak harap dik diha ni...terus bahagia...klu betul dia tu jodoh diha...terima je seadanya k..adios.....
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Post time 18-5-2009 06:22 PM | Show all posts
salam diha..
benda yg sama penah terlintas dlm ati shya gak..shya xsmpai thap tunang tp spend 8 years couple..but end up xkwen pun..wasting time kan..1st guy,5thun..2nd guy 3thun..penat je..after break ngan yg 5thun tue..shya couple ngan yg 3thun tue..tp parents xsuka..so shya try buka ati utk org lain..tapi xterbuka..nk kta btul2 nk kwen ngan yg 3thun tue..x gak..mmg duk cari org lain..smpai la shya keje kat tmpat skrg..time shya masuk keje situ, shya still ngan mamat yg kami dh couple 3 thun tue..tp hubungan ktorg not so gud..bf shya skrg dh lama masuk ngajar situ..dia duk usha dh lama tp xberani nk kco sbb org ckp shya dh berpunya..tp 1 day, dia berani diri gak ckp nk kwan..shya trus terbuka ati..wlpun sblm nie dh try kwn kat2 10 org..tapi ngan dia, xyah dia ngayat truk2..shya dh angau..pdhal b4 tau kewujudan dia kat sek tue tp xpnah peduli..hahaha..xde perasaan lnsung..dlm 2 weeks, kmi dh ble ckp psal kwen..terdetik diati, klu aku lpaskan dia..aku xkan jumpa lg org sebaik dia..n org ckp klu jodoh kita, sumenya berjalan smooth ja..
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Post time 18-5-2009 06:39 PM | Show all posts
agreed... memandangkan sume da cete, n my story pon lbh krg jer
x pe r x cete... but i share the same experience as u all... huhu
kdg cm x caye lak, dgn die. sume cm mudah lak.. huhu
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Post time 18-5-2009 08:20 PM | Show all posts
kalu segalanya berjalan mudah tu maybe jodoh la ek?.... ok jdkan  panduan
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Post time 18-5-2009 08:59 PM | Show all posts
TUMPANG BACA.........
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Post time 18-5-2009 09:51 PM | Show all posts
Ok.Noted...
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Post time 19-5-2009 09:10 AM | Show all posts
tumpang baca jugaks.....
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Post time 19-5-2009 09:55 AM | Show all posts
maksudnye kalo kite still ade rase ragu2 tu maknanya dia bukan jodoh kita?
sbb sy ade gak solat istikharah tp tak dpt pape petunjuk pun...
kkdg rase mcm nk putus tp  tak de kekuatan...
still lagi mencari  kalo jumpe lagi baik
huhu
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Post time 19-5-2009 10:47 AM | Show all posts
takutlah...aku rasa mcm dah tak rasa aper2 perasaan kat tunang aku ...aku tak der org lain...

tapi aku tak tahu lah dia...


aku tak tau naper
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Post time 19-5-2009 11:01 AM | Show all posts
bila terasa ade magnet.....................
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Post time 19-5-2009 11:54 AM | Show all posts

Balas #12 itik_magic\ catat

macam ner nak rasa ada nya tarikan magnet?

pasang magnet cas.....1 kat pasangan kita ...1 lagi kat kita?


macam tu ker tik?


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Post time 19-5-2009 01:02 PM | Show all posts

Balas #11 six_heart\ catat

aku kkdg rase cm ni gak...
tu yg aku takut nk declare pape...

pe yg mnyebabkn ko rase takde pape?
dia jrg contact ko?
dia ade buat silap?
atau ciri2 yg ada pd dia tak memenuhi ciri2 yg ko nak?

aku kalo dia ade yg spt di atas aku leh jd takde perasaan...
tp bile org tu dpt pujuk atau rase mcm hubungan tu mcm nk putus
aku lak yg sedih...ntah ..aku pun tak fhm pe yg aku rase....
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Post time 19-5-2009 02:32 PM | Show all posts

Balas #13 six_heart\ catat

bila ade rasa benci................ni kalu kekutuban sama.....

bila ade rasa sayang..................ni kalu kekutuban berlainan.....
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 Author| Post time 19-5-2009 05:25 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by toknek at 18-5-2009 17:59
oklah dik diha....sini akak nak cite pasal pengalaman akak sikit....
ms akak first time jumpa hubby akak skrg ni...akak benci meluat dgn dia...dah beratus kali gaklah d ...



emm..thanks sgt...diha pun rasa pelik..'jodoh aku ni kot'..diha tak tau nape..terngiang2 dlm otak ni..
dgn ex tunang...sampai ke sudah mmg diha was2 sgt2..diha terfikir..ni ke jodoh aku.. but still diha teruskan juga..sampai dia minta putus..

emm.. diha da kuar ngn ramai gak lelaki..tp biasanya 1st date diha da reject..huhu..(patutla kene reject dgn tunang ek.. )..bukan ape..byk yg tak kena..dr segi pemilihan movie yg nk tgk..cr makan, cr jalan..ada je yg tak kene..dgn ex diha pun cemtu..tp sebab dia encem..cepat sket r cair..heheh..

bila diha kuar ngn dak ni..diha tak tau nape..lapang selapang2 nye hati diha ni...mkn, jln dia pun takla menambat hati diha pun..smpai skrrg diha tak tau nape diha terbuka hati terima dia..i just can't explain...

ini ke tandanya dia jodoh?..emm...meh la kita syer2..
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 Author| Post time 19-5-2009 05:29 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by six_heart at 19-5-2009 10:47
takutlah...aku rasa mcm dah tak rasa aper2 perasaan kat tunang aku ...aku tak der org lain...

tapi aku tak tahu lah dia...


aku tak tau naper



emm..tanda2 hubungan bermasalah....diha dulu selalu mcm ni..tp sudahnya diha yg ditinggalkan..wlupun pd mulanya kita rasa kita takde perasaan..tp kalu kata penceraian tu dtg dr mulut dia...perghhhh..mmg sakit...sakit sgt2....
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 Author| Post time 19-5-2009 05:32 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by apple_honey at 19-5-2009 09:55
maksudnye kalo kite still ade rase ragu2 tu maknanya dia bukan jodoh kita?
sbb sy ade gak solat istikharah tp tak dpt pape petunjuk pun...
kkdg rase mcm nk putus tp  tak de kekuatan...
stil ...



dulu diha rasa mcm ni..serius..ragu2 sgt2...diha tanya ngn kwn2..tp diorg sume ckp hati tenang n lapang je terima tunang sebagai bakal suami...diha byk kali wat istikharah..tp tak penah jumpa pape..mungkin tu la petunjuknya..
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Post time 19-5-2009 08:43 PM | Show all posts
kekadang org yg tk disangka pun bleh jd jodoh
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Post time 20-5-2009 01:09 PM | Show all posts
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atau ada rasa cam kene karen...
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