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Hi guys/gals,
Well,well,well...what do we have here. I am having a problem here...i dunno, it's considered a problem but it's something bugging me in my heart and brain for some time now. I am in the situation where I am in dire need of love but not the same love. Have you watch Hitch? Will Smith is the actor and Eva Mendes is the actress. I am in that situation right now. I could get any women I want but do i really like her? love her?
Sometime i feel it is easier becoming single, free and i could do anything i want...but in the other hand i woudl like someone to love me everyday..weird huh? Marriage has come to my mind...but, do i want marriage? Sometime i see single women who fought for their freedom and single life says that their happy being single and whatever justification for their life. But are they really happy in life? I doubt that, even I, as a man is not happy being single...at least in a relationship with someone, even for a short time...
To me, love is very important. Without love my life would be chaotic. Humans needs love to survive. Women are made for men to beloved. But looking at my life and career, a short stint with someone is sufficient enough...how can i make this to a longer more fulfilling relationship?
Marriage is also important to me, i truly believe in marriage. Maybe i need some spiritual light to shine upon me, maybe i shoudl change the way i think of people and the surroundings. Sometime i ask myself, what do i need from her? Is she important to me? Does she complete me (borrowing from Tom Cruise)?
Is there anyone out there? |
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masalahnyer ko ni nak yga cantik2 aje... tip top body muke mata idung sumer ko nak PURRRRFECCCTTT....
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Balas #2 True-X\ catat
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maybe...maybe not...but we are all human beings, we are not perfect, that i can accept... |
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Is she important to me? Does she complete me (borrowing from Tom Cruise)?
lets think the other way round..why not u try to complete her 1st..
if u want to be happy, try to make her happy 1st..
believe in God..there must be someone for u out there..
waiting for u to grab her hand to spend the rest of her life with u.. |
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Reply #1 ifanonline's post
pesal i rasa bersalah ek? 
sometimes org kate what u want is not what u need.
love is sharing a part of you with another person/thing
marriage is the commitment to share everything with another person/thing (thus comes compromise, sacrifice etc..etc..)
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A phase. If you can't feel it just let it be. |
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aaaaa.... aku yg pompuan ni pon rase cam ko gak .... sbb tu susah nak settle down lagik sampai skang ... tatau ape yg di carik sebenarnye .... |
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Balas #4 hazlina84\ catat
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the problem is, i always make a woman happy...she is happy with me...but when I make her happy, i don't feel happy or satisfied...feels like something is missing with me, and not with her...i don't blame her for this... |
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Balas #8 rurushu\ catat
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I know what i want, but do i truly need it? Is it a long term or short term commitment? |
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hi red
sharing is caring...thats what they say...to be honest, i think i have shared, cared, loved, sacrifiec, etc... |
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The more you meet people, the more differences you will notice. Sometime i think it is because of my values, mentality and environment is somewhat in constant change that I feel commitment is needed but unneccessary. Like i said, i want love but for how long? Momentarily? For a long time? |
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mungkin boleh tinggal segala rutin yg pernah/selalu ko buat/fikir....
cari sesuatu yg baru/fresh
supaya boleh rasa kelainan.... x la bosan/statik pd sesuatu...
cth kalau ko suka tgk pompuan seksi pakai skirt sampai nampak spenda....
now ko tukar la pulak kepada pompuan yg lebih sopan sikit...yg x pakai skirt nampak spenda... |
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Balas #13 afja\ catat
haha..kelainan nampak spenda? Sexuality in love is important...it's true. maybe i need to look at things in a fresh way... |
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Reply #13 afja's post
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wehhhh....kawin tak hajak aku pun....huhhhh |
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1 thing i learnt - Never Expect anything...esp from anyone for anything. Live life for the moment.
so much things surprises me after i hold these words true to myself.
it helps experiencing process, to see everything in new perspectives...
try la |
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"To me, love is very important. Without love my life would be chaotic. Humans needs love to survive. Women are made for men to beloved. But looking at my life and career, a short stint with someone is sufficient enough...how can i make this to a longer more fulfilling relationship?"
hehe ko ni masih tidak mahu komitmen yang menyusahkan...
yes! you should change the way you think of people and the surroundings...
why?love is not only fulfilling each other's need/lust...love also is a responsibility...
once you hooked with the responsibility...jangan senang2 nak quit sesuka hati ye...
itu laa cabaran bercinta...menerima kelemahan dan kelebihan satu individu...
sebab tu ramai benar bercerai sekarang...
sebab bercinta...tapi tamau bertanggungjawab...sebab rasa boleh hidup kalau takda pasangan...
herm...manusia sekarang...tak tahu pengertian 'SYUKUR' kot?
agama kurang...seni bercinta pun kurang...
manusia diutuskan keatas muka bumi ni sebagai khalifah...bukan sebagai kaki joli...dan bukan menjadi selfish...
kite diutuskan dgn tanggungjawab....
maka laksanakan tanggungjawab tu bersungguh2...termasuklah bertanggungjawab dalam bercinta...jgn laah fikirkan happiness yang konon2 tak muncul...kalau niat ko betul...percayalah kebahagiaan akan muncul.... |
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Reply #1 ifanonline's post
stop asking and stop thinking...
start acting n taking risk...
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 17-6-2009 02:12 PM
变色卡
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