masalah pompuan

hanif86 · Post time 29-6-2011 08:07 AM

salam. nk tnya..perempuan ni kalau dia mengadu apa perlu aku buat? aku ni laki mmg suke setelkan problem apa yg di amengadu tu..tp ader org ckp pompuan suruh kita dgr je masalah dia.tp takkan la aku nk dgr pasang telinga je.apa ayat yg perlu aku ckp kalau time tunang aku ni mengadu? plis help me

jojie · Post time 29-6-2011 08:17 AM

ko iyakan apa yg tunang ko cakap.. walaupon benda itu tak relevan, supaya dia tak rasa down... bila dia dah nampak cool kau cakapla apa yg patut dia buat...then ko btulkan apa yg tk relevannya...
kadang2 ader jew nk bf dia bertindak tp tunggula kalau kali2 or ketiga terjadii
itu pendapat aku la

hitamputih · Post time 29-6-2011 08:20 AM

welkam to the club bro! hahahah

ikutkan buku men from mars.... mmg gitu. kita plak duk pikiaq apasal laaa menda camni pun jadik masalah...buang je laa nasik tu.. (cth)

cam aku, aku akan cuba ikut step.
- dia ngadu
sokong dari segi emosi, kalau dia ckp pasal kawan opis dia gilak, ckp je "gilak nyer pompuan tu!"
- dia ngadu lagi
ckp lak " cian ye , sabar ek... nnti dia boring laa jadik gilak"
- dia ngadu lagi
mula selitkan nasihat , "mmg le dia gilak, tak patut dia wat camtu, dah dah jgn kawan ngan dia dah"
- dia ngadu lagi (aku kopi pes ayat ni, pemalas nyer aku!)
ulang ke point num 1

unless benda yg di ngadu kan tu high risk ( risk kepada nyawa, iman, hubungan) , aku akan bertindak terus.

SriAdila · Post time 29-6-2011 09:09 AM

KO JADIK JER DIRI KO...KO NAK JAWAB DAN NAK RESPON MCMMANA PUN...JADI DIRI SENDIRI ITU LEBIH BAIK..NI KALAU KO BERPURA2..HATI KATA LAIN,LIDAH JAWAB LAIN..LAMA2 TUNANG KO PUN CUAK..TAMBAH2 LEPAS KAHWIN..DIA DH MULA LEH COMPARE PERANGAI KO SEBELUM NI LAIN..SKRG NI LAIN..LAGILAH DIA HILANG RESPEK KAT KO..

jADI ..KALAU BERLAKU TIME TU..KO PK JER LA MANA YANG LOGIK..KO RASA BETUL..KO CAKAP BETUL2...KALAU KO RASA SALAH...KO TERANGKAN KAT DIA ELOK2.aKU RASA DIA AKAN LEBIH HORMATKAN KO.

chesterpening · Post time 29-6-2011 09:23 AM

eiii lelaki mmg pikir nk solve problem jer.. walhal ladies ni bercerite jek.. bknnye ngadu suh bagi nasihat. we just want u guys to lend ur ears. n to learn the art of listening.

tolonnnnn ler btau kat bf aku mende yg same...

hitamputih · Post time 29-6-2011 09:31 AM

take a break :

Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.

Why men do not write advice columns!

Dear Walter:

I hope you can help me. The other day, I set off for work, leaving my husband in the house watching the TV as usual. I hadn't gone more than a mile down the road when my engine conked out and the car shuddered to a halt. I walked back home to get my husband's help. When I got home I couldn't believe my eyes. He was in our bedroom with the neighbor lady. I am 32, my
husband is 34, and we have been married for twelve years.

When I confronted him, he broke down and admitted that they had been having an affair for the past six months. I told him to stop or I would leave him. He was let go from his job six months ago and he says he has been feeling
increasingly depressed and worthless. I love him very much, but ever since I gave him the ultimatum he has become increasingly distant. He won't go to counseling and I'm afraid I can't get through to him anymore. Can you please help?

Sincerely, Sheila

Dear Sheila:

A car stalling after being driven a short distance can be caused by a variety of faults with the engine. Start by checking that there is no debris in the fuel line. If it is clear, check the vacuum pipes and hoses on the intake manifold and also check all grounding wires. If none of these approaches solves the problem, it could be that the fuel pump itself is faulty, causing low delivery pressure to the carburator.

Hope this helps.

Sincerely, Walter

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hanif86 · Post time 29-6-2011 09:54 AM

oh tq semua...tk kdg3 pompuan ni bende kecik pun (bg kita lelaki) nk nangis or besar2 kan..aku tiap2 minggu terutamanya time dia PMS mmg salu je dgr msalh dia..masalah kawn dia la..masalah kucing dia la..masalah gemok dia la(padahal aku tgk kurus je)..kire kita as lelaki dgr je la ye? pastu nk ckp apa? ok..ok.. ke nk ckp sabar je la sabar je la? aku risau dia boring asyik sebut sabar la sabar la

hitamputih · Post time 29-6-2011 10:40 AM

Reply 7# hanif86

be a good listener. bunyi mudah, tp susah... teman dia borak.. apapun
tahniah buat TT sbb ada sense utk menjadi suami/teman yang baik...

lasagnaklcc · Post time 29-6-2011 11:09 AM

Besar masalah TT ni

You better make her feeling superior...just pujuk...jgn mengeluarkan pendapat atau nasihat bertentangan dari apa dia ckp.

All the best

Sagoo · Post time 29-6-2011 11:36 AM

ko menguap 3-4 kali.....buat mate kuyu...trus dia diam

fetty1985 · Post time 29-6-2011 11:57 AM

biasalah kaum perempuan nie,jiwa dia lembut,mdh tersentuh hati...jadilah pendengar yg baik,
mgkn dia tak de tmpt utk luahkan mslh di,jd jadilah diri sndiri,be positif...awk kira oklah ye...nak jgk dgr...ada sestngah org tu...buat dekk...je....he,he

zaiha · Post time 29-6-2011 12:27 PM

emm x semesti tt tidak menjadi pendengar n penasihat yg baik membuatkan femfuan ni
boring/bosan yg penting ada kriteria lain yg menguatkan atu menbuatkan si dia ikhlas dan
kekal bersama tt........