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Control Freak, Are You?
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Another interesting yet part of of a lovers problem...your partner is a control freak...pasangan anda suka mengawal anda...
lelaki dan wanita ada sifat control ni...asyik call pasangan 24 jam, tanya buat ape, dah makan belum, tengah berak ke dan sebagainya...
maybe forumers can share their experiences if you have any...positive or negative being a control freak... |
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bnda yg TT terangkan ni mcm tingkahlaku pasangan yg insecure je,
aku dok byangkan kalo control freak tu orng yg suka take charge, semua benda dia nak control |
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bnda yg TT terangkan ni mcm tingkahlaku pasangan yg insecure je,
aku dok byangkan kalo control fr ...
H4dRi Post at 7-6-2012 15:24 
itu yg aku buka thread ni...control freak...is it good? or is it bad? maybe sesetengah individual suka mengawal...dan sentengah pula tidak... |
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Reply 3# ifanonline
bergantung pada pasangan, kalau pasangannya seorang yg dominan, kategori alpha mmng x bgus, mcm api bertemu api,
tp kalau pasangannya jnis suka bergantung harap, tdak dominan, kategori beta, gamma seme, maka xde ,masalah, aman aja konsepnya |
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Post Last Edit by ifanonline at 7-6-2012 15:52
just to give an example, one of my friend...a dude...such a control freak...bought a handphone for his girl, and a personal number...and he makes sure that the girl brings along the phone where ever she goes...he don't allow his gf to give out the phone number to anybody...only he could call that number...its a one line dedicated to him....but in the end, the girl broke up with him...but the funny thing is, the guy ask for the handphone back!!
how sick and controlling is that? |
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Reply ifanonline
bergantung pada pasangan, kalau pasangannya seorang yg dominan, kategori ...
H4dRi Post at 7-6-2012 15:49
Ohhh apakah alpha beta ittew? I thot kt dlm hirarki wolf jah ada alpha & beta ni...... |
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setiap hari tanya dah makan ke, kat mana, buat apa tak semesti control freak..selalunya soalan2 tu sekadar berbasa basi dan tanda ingatan.maybe lain org lain cara tapi kalau aku,aku tak kisah je kalau org tanya aku makan apa, buat apa,kat mana etc etc..tu tanda org tu ingat kat aku....
yg jd control freak tu bila keluar soalan extra spt"u makan apa?kat mana?dgn lelaki ke perempuan??berdua ke ramai2?dah abis makan terus balik, jgn merayau mana2" dan soalan2 extra lain yg mmg berbau control.. |
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sye xkisah..rase disygi..tp klo mlampau smpai setiap 15min ke, tu xsuke.. |
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control freak adalah sangat berbeza dengan kebanyakan pasangan yang bertanya dah mkkn belum, nk tido kol bape dan soalan2 normal lain....
control freak mmg real mengontrol...kalau tau awek keluar dengan kwn2..every 10 minutes call tanya kat mana..siap call kwn2 nk make sure betul dia keluar ke tak...kalau gf tak angkat phone..mmg call non stop sampai berpuluh2 miscall...
one word..rimas... |
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aku suka kena kontrol..tapi sape nk kontrol aku? |
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Reply 9# siputsedut
sipuk..yeah....betul.....mcm ex bf aku...tiap kali aku kuar ngn kengkawan, tiap kali tu lah dia akn cr pasal utk cari point gaduh ngn aku.jeles kot..padahal kuar ngn kwn2 pompuan pn nk control..
skrg bila dia xde..aku rs rindu sgt mcm dulu2 bila dh xde sape yg nk control aku.... |
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Reply siputsedut
sipuk..yeah....betul.....mcm ex bf aku...tiap kali aku kuar ngn kengkawan, t ...
kerepek_sedap Post at 9-6-2012 21:08
suka ke dikontrol kepek?  |
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Reply 12# siputsedut
suka dowh..baru la rs ada org syg...... |
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itu tandanya,gf/bf care pada kite....tp jgn la call,msj tiap 5 min....kadang2 rasa bsn dan rimas jgk...dah mcm kena control even belum ade ikatan yg sah pun..... |
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Reply siputsedut
sipuk..yeah....betul.....mcm ex bf aku...tiap kali aku kuar ngn kengkawan, t ...
kerepek_sedap Post at 9-6-2012 21:08
control salah...tak control pun salah..ye tak?
manusia itu tidak sempurna... |
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If me... i just call my bf every 2 hours...its not about i yang nak control him...mana dia nak pergi or what he's doin... but.. he's the one who control me... that's why i need punch in punch out..bak kata my friend every 2 hours...
Actually...im not very sure siapa yang ada masalah rasa insecure nie.. but to me... i just called sebab nak bagi tahu..what am doing and if am going anywhere... and with who..sbbnya..kalau i tak bagi tau dia..dia akan start bising to me..and telling me that am so stubborn and just wanna do things my own.. I rasa maybe he's the one yang rasa insecure kot.. sbb kalau i tak call...dia yang akan call..and asked.. |
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For me macam problem jugaklah..bukan apa..actually..am a single mother and i dah biasa independent.. every where and anywhere that i wanted to go..if i rasa nak pergi..i just take my handbag and go.. so do with kalau nak pergi out station memana with ma son... but.. since happened macam nie..everything have to plan..sakit kepala jugak kadang... |
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For me macam problem jugaklah..bukan apa..actually..am a single mother and i dah biasa independent.. ...
LeyyaHanna Post at 19-6-2012 11:26 
i understand...the challenges of being a single mom is great, especially in asian society...your priorities is different compared to the single ladies...you've been there, done that kind of mentally sometimes will scare the guys away...but i think single moms are more controlling? don't u think? |
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Reply 18# ifanonline
No..i don't think so... what i can see..normally yang anak dara nie ( single) yang more controlling compared to us... sebab single mum nie..kebanyakkannya ada anak with us..and we've being busy with carrier... anak lagi..and diri sendiri... But not sure about otherslah...
Even most of my friend yang single mom nie pun.. memang very independent...and we just do things our own... besarkan anak.. tapi yang ada sifat nak control bf tu maybe the feel unsecure lah agaknyer kot..and that's why things happened... or maybe bf yang diorang dapat jenis yang susah nak caya... lolz.. |
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Reply ifanonline
No..i don't think so... what i can see..normally yang anak dara nie ( single ...
LeyyaHanna Post at 19-6-2012 11:35
but biologically speaking, guys are more controlling than women...however, ade jugak le a few ladies yg control freak... |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 7-6-2012 02:27 PM
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