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susah nak lepaskan first love

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Post time 8-3-2015 08:16 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts |Read mode
assalamualaikum...
rsnya ni post yg kedua aku pasal cinta...ni ja tmpt yg aku bleh luah kn..
aku bru berkawan dgn perempuan ni...dlm 7bulan..tp dia first love aku..ms knl dlu mmg aku rs orng paling bahagia skali..tp dia jenis mood x tentu..tp aku sabar dgn dia...kdang tu gaduh2 kecil...tu perkara biasa..tp skrng dah rs mcm lain..smlm last whtsap dia mnta aku bg dia ruang...dia rs aku sgt jauh dgn dia skrng x mcm dlu bahagia bersama aku.dia maaf sbb salah dia bt aku mcm tu..sbb dlu dia yg nk aku...tp skrng dia pun x pasti...aku masih sayng dia...first time jmpa dia aku prgi rmh dia..kena jmpa family dlu..family dia ok dgn aku...sblm aku knl dia dah dah putus dgn ex dia...skrng mmg x dak apa..tp dia sllu compare aku dgn ex..ada lebih aku dr ex dia..ada kurang aku...bila dia cuba dkt dgn aku dia rs mcm selesa..aku jenis suka ambik thu smua psal dia...tp dia jenis rahsia sbb x mampu nk luah kn kat aku...dia kata aku x dak aura sebagai pendengar mcm ex dia dlu tu bt dia simpan byk rahsia dgn aku..skrng dia mnta aku ruang..tp aku serabut skrng..krja pun x tenang..dia janji dia akn cr aku bila dia pikir btul2..yg bt aku takut jwpan dr diaa...aku cuba pertahankan hubungan ni...aku nk kita orng mulakan yg bru...

walaupun aku thu jwapan dr korang smua untk lps kn dia xpa aku terima..tp aku lega dpt luah kat sini..

tq.
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Post time 8-3-2015 08:23 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Same LA kite...tp aku ppuan..dia suruh BG masa.. BG masa n bg ruang tu maksudnya mereka dah Ade pilihan lain  ke TT?
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2015 08:26 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
bkn ada pilihan lain..bg dia ms untk pikir btul2 psal hubungan kami..dia ckp kita kena cuba jauh   kn diri...dia mnta maaf kat aku sbb bt aku mcm tu..kdng mmg salah aku kot..sbb dia x bahagia..tp aku dah impi kn hidup bersama dgn dia...aku syng dia sgt..
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Post time 8-3-2015 08:37 PM | Show all posts
buat perengan dulu..

baru aku komen
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Post time 8-3-2015 08:47 PM | Show all posts
Dia dah bg hint yg dia rasa hampa x sesuai bersama ... kalau dia compare ang masa jd suami lg pedih kut ...

dia dah baik dgn ex ka ...
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2015 08:56 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
alieyrina replied at 8-3-2015 08:47 PM
Dia dah bg hint yg dia rasa hampa x sesuai bersama ... kalau dia compare ang masa jd suami lg pedih  ...

mmg ada jugak dia bg hint..tp dia ok blik..tu aku ckp mood dia x tentu..x dia x baik dgn ex dia..tp aku rs dia rindu waktu tu..dia ckp bahagia..aku sedih bila ckp tu..dlu kita hppy tp sejak skrng jd mcm ni..
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Post time 8-3-2015 09:15 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Bg aku kalo dia perangai gitu main2 tarik tali dia dah Ade org lain.. Same LA mcm aku gk..nangis mmg nangis tp redho jela..cinta xleh d paksa.. Dr PD terus buang masa mengharap PD yg xpasti g LA cr kawan ppuan yg lain..yg pandai menghargai kasih syg KO tu.. SBB tu pon yg aku dok buat.. Sedih woooo..but I feel u ... No doubt..
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2015 09:39 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
miabebe replied at 8-3-2015 09:15 PM
Bg aku kalo dia perangai gitu main2 tarik tali dia dah Ade org lain.. Same LA mcm aku gk..nangis mmg ...

serius dia x dah orng lain..tp kasih sayng dia kat aku dah berkurang..dia pun x thu knp dia rs mcm tu...mungkin salah aku jugak dia rs mcm tu..tp aku x thu salah aku kat mn..tp aku prnh tnya dia klau kita dah x dak apa2 ex dia dtng blik dia terima x...dia ckp dia terima sbb dia rs bahagia dlu...sbb dia masih hidup masa silam hubungan kami mcm ni..
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Post time 8-3-2015 09:42 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by miabebe at 8-3-2015 09:45 PM
nizam49 replied at 8-3-2015 09:39 PM
serius dia x dah orng lain..tp kasih sayng dia kat aku dah berkurang..dia pun x thu knp dia rs mcm ...


Kalo dah xde org lain..ex dia pon xde..ape masalah gf ko tu lg? Dia ade sakit yg dia rahsia kn ke? Masalah keluarga ke? Masalah kewangan ke? Mane ko tau dia xde org lain?
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Post time 8-3-2015 10:01 PM | Show all posts
Edited by asfna at 8-3-2015 10:02 PM

been there, done that..masa aku clash ngan ex-bf (a.k.a first love) memang cam org giler. semua ex-bf pas first love aku compare kan. nk cari cam dia gak. last2 jump my husband. pun aku compare kan. tp yg aku respect ngan my husband, dia tak kesah aku nak citer a-z pasal ife aku, my first love. dia nak tau semua. and dia sangat sabar ngan perangai aku dari couple sampai la da brape tahun kahwin. we never hide anything from each other. even masa ngan dia pun aku still try lupakan my first love. (amik masa 10 tahun nk lupakan dia).

my point is, sometimes it hurts to let go someone that we really love and thought we going to spend the rest of our life with the person we love. but kadang2 ada hikmah setiap apa yg terjadi. maybe she is not the one for you or maybe she is. apa pun result yang dia bagi kat u kelak,kene terima dengan hati yang terbuka. it'strue, love hurts esp if she is your first love but if she means for then she will be with you. kalau tak, no matter how hard you try she will never with you and it hurts you more.

memang la orang akan cakap banyak lagi pompuan kat luar tu, true. but to me it's not about that. it's about someone that can cherish you, be there for u, willing to sacrifice for you, senang citer wanted u to be in her life as much you want her to be in your life.

buat sembahyang istikarah, bagi dia ruang, bagi dia masa. love is beautiful, which angle we look in love will change the perception of love. just my opinion.

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 Author| Post time 8-3-2015 10:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
miabebe replied at 8-3-2015 09:42 PM
Kalo dah xde org lain..ex dia pon xde..ape masalah gf ko tu lg? Dia ade sakit yg dia rahsia kn k ...

ntah aku pun x thu..aku cuba push diaa...masalah keluarga rs mmg x dak..aku dgn dia jauh..dia study johor..aku krja shah alam...jmpa pun 1bulan sekali mcm tu...tu sbb dia rs kiorng makin jauh...mood dia pun x thu...tp bkn msalah bg aku..tu aku ckp dia masih hidup dlm kenangan lm..
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Post time 8-3-2015 10:09 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by miabebe at 8-3-2015 10:10 PM
nizam49 replied at 8-3-2015 10:04 PM
ntah aku pun x thu..aku cuba push diaa...masalah keluarga rs mmg x dak..aku dgn dia jauh..dia stud ...


Tp sebagai sorg ppuan la kn..hati aku kuat mengatakan dia ade pilihan lain..kalo ppuan normal kn ..bila ppuan tu suka kn laki tu dia nk 24jam contact nk 24jam bersama..tu pandangan aku la..

Salah kah pandangan aku ini..
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Post time 8-3-2015 10:10 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Knp dia ngn ex putus?
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Post time 8-3-2015 10:13 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
asfna replied at 8-3-2015 10:01 PM
been there, done that..masa aku clash ngan ex-bf (a.k.a first love) memang cam org giler. semua ex-b ...

Ni miabebe stuju hmm hmm
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Post time 8-3-2015 10:20 PM | Show all posts
Ganda 23! Boom! Boom!
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Post time 8-3-2015 10:29 PM | Show all posts
bunyi macam rebound..aku rasa gf kau belom move on ni..bunyi kasaqnya, mungkin kau hanya persinggahan sementara dia..
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2015 10:30 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
asfna replied at 8-3-2015 10:01 PM
been there, done that..masa aku clash ngan ex-bf (a.k.a first love) memang cam org giler. semua ex-b ...

yes..kau pun sama kn..compare kn orng sblm dgn lps...tp aku x kisah..dia pun ada crita kat aku..serius aku mmg byk sabar dgn dia..klau orng yg x sabar rs dah lm angkat kaki...tp sbb sayng kn dia aku tetap juga...aku pun takut nk terima jwpan tu...inshaallah aku cuba fhm kn dia..
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2015 10:34 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
miabebe replied at 8-3-2015 10:09 PM
Tp sebagai sorg ppuan la kn..hati aku kuat mengatakan dia ade pilihan lain..kalo ppuan normal kn ...

ntah mungkin tu cara kau..dia lain..dia nk ada ms untk dia sndiri..kdng aku mlm ja dgn dia..sbb aku krja siang..mlm plak kdng dia study..so masa kitaorng mmg x lama dlm sehari..serius dia x dak orng lain..dia bkn jenis mcm tu aku knl dia..
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2015 10:36 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tiramisuu replied at 8-3-2015 10:10 PM
Knp dia ngn ex putus?

sbb ex dia ego tggi..asyik nk dia ja btul dia x than..tp mungkin ex dia lebih caring dgn dia dr aku...
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 Author| Post time 8-3-2015 10:38 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
missDollie replied at 8-3-2015 10:29 PM
bunyi macam rebound..aku rasa gf kau belom move on ni..bunyi kasaqnya, mungkin kau hanya persinggaha ...

aku prnh suara kn..aku ni tmpt dia hilang kn sunyi ke..dia ckp ms dia knl aku dia x sunyi pun..dia mmg suka aku..tp rs tu makin pudar..
dia x nk aku sakit hati..tp sbb aku push dia..tu dia ckp jugak..
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