Boleh ker kawan baik jadi couple kite???

eidazura

Originally posted by sLapshock at 2-3-2008 08:40
Seriously, its not really a good idea to bring a relationship to a next level after being long as a close friend.

What is good is, have sex with each other while be in a close friend, as that, ...

Salam semua...

Ermmm...ini dah lari dari etika persahabatan dan pergaulan nie....:@

zyanzi

ok je rasenye x jadi masalah
selalunye jodoh ade depan mate
cume kita je tak nampak
lagi senang sbb kite dah tau perangai dia

eidazura

Originally posted by zyanzi at 5-3-2008 19:39
ok je rasenye x jadi masalah
selalunye jodoh ade depan mate
cume kita je tak nampak
lagi senang sbb kite dah tau perangai dia

Kekdg dah jodoh mmg x bleh nak kata apa...tp klu dah kenal sgt pun perangai member tu....lg susah per nak accept kn...

anakbugis

boleh.... suami aku adalah kawan baik aku dulu.  masa aku masih dengan ex aku, jadi pendengar setia ketika aku ada problem dengan ex... lama-lama perasaan tu timbul... putus dengan ex, kahwin dengan dia... anak dah 2 dah nak masuk 3 la ni... cun kan!!!

dilaOHdila

banyak yang jadi kawan baik ni akhirnya jadi Kekasih
Jatuh cinta tu tak kira mana
Kalau perasaan tu dah suka lebih2 lagi kita sudah mengenal hati budinya
lambat laun perasaan itu akan datang sendiri jika hati dah berkenan

eidazura

Originally posted by anakbugis at 8-3-2008 17:42
boleh.... suami aku adalah kawan baik aku dulu.  masa aku masih dengan ex aku, jadi pendengar setia ketika aku ada problem dengan ex... lama-lama perasaan tu timbul... putus dengan ex, kahwin den ...

Klu la sumenya semudah nie...

eidazura

Originally posted by dilaOHdila at 8-3-2008 20:43
banyak yang jadi kawan baik ni akhirnya jadi Kekasih
Jatuh cinta tu tak kira mana
Kalau perasaan tu dah suka lebih2 lagi kita sudah mengenal hati budinya
lambat laun perasaan i ...

ermm...suka memang de...tp berkenan ...???x sampai lg kot....so de x tips2 utk memupuk perasaan berkenan tue...???

ultra78

'Let's just be friends' - ayat yang paling digeruni lelaki...

ischae

boy and girl are opposite sex to each other and can never be just friends or best friends, without any special feelings

once dah jadi couple, bila clash, things can never be like before..janggal sangat nak gelak2 gurau2 mcm dulu

yixin

...Tak boleh! ;) kawan tetap kawan..kalo nak lebih2..saya rejek terus dia...kejam kan..ekekeke

eidazura

Originally posted by ischae at 16-3-2008 13:16
boy and girl are opposite sex to each other and can never be just friends or best friends, without any special feelings

once dah jadi couple, bila clash, things can never be like before..j ...

Salam maulidur rasul...

ermm...mcm tu sekali....ermm...

eidazura

Originally posted by ultra78 at 16-3-2008 12:49
'Let's just be friends' - ayat yang paling digeruni lelaki...

Yer ker???bkn bile ditanya...."Abg bile nak masuk meminang???"

eidazura

Originally posted by yixin at 16-3-2008 18:19

...Tak boleh! ;) kawan tetap kawan..kalo nak lebih2..saya rejek terus dia...kejam kan..ekekeke

Memang kejam...pe la mu nie yixin...
Sian diaorg....

my_sara

based on my experience..

the pros:
u accept him/her as what s/he is and vice versa. sbb u dah kenal sbg kawan prior to courting. takde la nak cover/control ape2. kalau before couple pon die tak segan nak kentut dpn u, it won't bother you that much during courting la kan..

u know his friend, and you're comfortable with his friend. and so does him, he won't mind going out with your friend. bila duk berbincang tu, mcm bincang dgn kawan. bila ada problem tu..he would listen/treat you as a friend. he'll tell you wht he thinks as a friend, but stimes, ade gak lelaki yg cuma cakap ape yg pmpn tu nak dgr, not the whole truth.

unfortunately;
when you've crossed the line, there's no turning back. if u already take him as bf/lover, when it's over, it's hard to move on. and it's hard to start a new relationship. sbb you'll always comparing him to the new guy. kdg2 bkn compare your ex as previous bf.. but comparing in terms of ex-friend. usually, lelaki cool je kalau nk berkawan balik (so was my ex). tp agak susah la (utk pmpn).. sbb you once love him more than a friend. and it's hard to be his good friend again without thinking the past (during courting). i guess the hardest thing was.. losing the good friend part of him.. rather than losing the 'bf' part of him. faham tak?

conclusion
tapi, kalau the relationship is a success, kirenya double bonus la..if you feel you're ready to lose a good friend, then go on. bf come and go, true friend remains.

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by eidazura at 14-2-2008 03:50 PM
Knock...knock...

Salam sume...

Sy nak tanye bleh ke member baik (sure ler guy...x kn pompuan lak) jd couple kite...
So far sy byk berdepan ngan problem nie...tetiba je tgh baik2 bersaha ...

in my view..kawan baik tu ler the best kalo di buat couple sampai jinjang pelamin ..ni pendapat saya lah ok?

asalkan seme nya dari hati yang ikhlas..

maksud depa tu macam ikut kata hati depa..mula2 hati rasa kawan jek..lama2 hati depa tu rasa seronok dan mula berkembang cam munger tu aaa kendian mula berharapan..so kalo depa dua tak tepok tangan sebelah..kira bagus la kut..kalo cuma stay kawan jek bagus la kasik tau awal2..but menten kawan..kekadang mende ni develop lambat..tapi tu oang kata bio lambat ase selamat..

wsalammm

mrs.iris

bley,npe plak x bley,.

retnoel

rasanya ok..lagipun cam tak rasa feel better n comfortable coz dia dah kenal perangai sebenar kite n vice versa..lagipun org cam haku susah kenal trus2 jadi kapel...sbb haku ne blur banyak .. lagipun aku rasa kalo kawan yang naik taraf jadi kapel ne..mmg mula2 rasa kekok..tapi yang penting aku dah dia buleh berkomunikasi dalam bnyk perkara..bukan soal perasaan ajer .. kira kapel dalam bersahabat la.. dan aku rasa aku lebih selesa dgn cara ittew..