can ur best frend be ur husband

faraway1

Reply  faraway1

---oooohh ok....so one of the criteria yg awak need is to kenal his family backg ...
suffian79 Post at 10-10-2011 07:13 PM

i dont mind orang bagitau jika me buat salah,
tapi hanya dari orang yang kenal me betul
setakat baru berbual sepatah dua, lepas tu nak mengajar cam kenal me
betul... itu macam buat cita lawak aje....

me belajar ni dari my best friend

suffian79

Reply 81# faraway1

-yes i dont know u....and from a few replies it cannot justify to what i've talk about you....but ure asking for it, kita cite pasal best fren and then u talk about keeping a few things from ure best fren?...mesti la people (i) start judging u....

- actually awak nie nakkan 'hubby' awak jadi best fren ker atau memang best fren awak is ure hubby...ingat, dua tu adalah perkara yang berbeza...

- I pun kalau boleh nak wife I jadi best fren I, but as I mention before...

suffian79

and to be clear..i did not judge u, im just commenting on ure definition of a best fren

robotech

Suffian, just let go. Every person has their own definition of what best friend is.

ann_rose

...cari org lain la...ur besfren can't be ur hubby..but ur hubby can be ur bff...tak thrill la klu kawin ngan kawan baik...sbb nanti klu ada masalah nak citer ngan sape?....

artcrime

...cari org lain la...ur besfren can't be ur hubby..but ur hubby can be ur bff...tak thrill la klu k ...
ann_rose Post at 16-10-2011 16:52

    uih.. kalau da kawin.. jgn dok canang problem somi isteri kat orang.. lelagi lelaki.. why?

syaiton suke! senang nak menghasut.. ;) tu pasal nanti yg sedih tu pompuan tepuk2 peluk2.. pom! dapat anak satu lagi..
n satu lagi.. anda bukak aib rumah tangga anda.. dose besar tu.. memang tak dapat cium la bau sorga nanti~ jgn main2.. sbb cerita yg anda bakal canangkan tu berkait rapat dengan suami anda...

    tu pasal elok dpt hasben bestfren bestenemy bestineverything.. why? sbb kite tak takut nak cite any prob.. kalau dia buat salah pun kite da tau outcome dia jadi cam mana.. how he react n so on.. ;)

JohnnyDepp

boleh...but mindset kena tukar la...u need to respect your husband...he is not your friend anymore...he can be, but on a different level...

suffian79

so it back to square one....definition best fren tu sendiri...bff tends to somebody yang kita leh lepas segalanya..so husband kita will always be somebody yang kita kena respek..always up one level from us...boleh ker share everything with them?