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Wanita Cantik, Single 30an dan Marathon/Run
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blackwidowbae replied at 23-4-2016 08:28 PM
Makcik buta Google~~
u blh cek kat justrunlah.com kat situ blh tgk running event calendar..blh try masuk short distance dulu ke..then dh biasa bru masuk marathon |
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>>>So cliche statement "nak atheletic, handsome n kaya" ... Ingat perempuan umur 30s ni desperate???
Emerald dear,
Sorry kalau terasa, bukan niat saya nak sakitkan hati awak.
>>>This is my favourite answer when i received this kind of typical question..
Please ask Allah.. he knows what's the best for me
Come on... jangan pulak cakap tak berusaha atau memilih sangat..that so lame.. Well, I curious too.. orang yg suke bertanya soalan2 mcm ni.. n come out with "ko memilih sangat ke? , tulah nak handsome, kaya jek" .. Pernah tak this people terfikir, semua tu aturan Allah, ade jodoh cepat, ade jodoh nye lambat, ade yg jodoh tak panjang, ade yg berjodoh tapi bercerai berai... ade yang esok nak kahwin harini mati..
This is what typical Malays do best - using external, unknown power as an excuse for everything.
>>>some women suka marathon, some women suka baking... it just a lifestyle.. mcm lelaki la.. some guys suke tgk football match je, some guys suke gym n some are keyboard warrior.. lol
Siapa tu keyboard warrior? I ke? Hahaha...
Tak kot, sebab ni bukan thread troll.
I jarang masuk forum dan kebetulan hari ni off-day, jadi sempat buat posting.
Can't wait for tomorrow ada byk nice derrière kat gym.
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papadomku replied at 26-4-2016 07:57 PM
u blh cek kat justrunlah.com kat situ blh tgk running event calendar..blh try masuk short distance ...
Wahhhhhh thanks uolls, really appreciate it!! |
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Salam semua,
Kat tempat kerja, I ada perasan satu benda.
1. Single ladies
2. Umur 30 dan ke atas
3. Semua cantik (at least 7/10 and above)
4. Body nice
5. Suka masuk marathon/half-marathon/run.
I kenal at least 3 orang yg camtu.
Nak tanya wanita seperti di atas.
Kenapa korang single lagi?
Standard korang tinggi ye - nak lelaki yg athletic, handsome & kaya?
Ke korang masuk marathon dgn harapan nak cari life partner kat situ? Ada yg jumpa dan dah kahwin ke?
Korang rasa kalau tak masuk marathon/run, chances korang akan lebih tinggi kot sebab expectation utk life partner tak tinggi sangat.
Siapa boleh jawab.
I am so curious...
From all criteria above, ada la sort of kena dgn diri..
I am marathon runner, single, almost 30..
cantik ke x tu, i dont know..hahaa 
so, i guess i can give my opinion too rite..
for me, i join not for cari jodoh..
Actual reason, sbb nk release stress. U know, bila dah penat lari
balik rest and no need to think about segala keserabutan, thats a relief..
and gud thing, dapat exercise too..
mb ada yang kata join event mcm tu, running here and there possibility to know other people tu ada,
but trust me, no one bother walaupun thousand of people join it..
bila u run, aim just to complete the run and cross the finish line.
About high standard ke x tu, ntah la..
cari partner its not about handsome, kaya, athletic ke hape..
kalau dapat tu, gud la.. Advantage kan..
But, selalunya when pompan dah reach 30, mostly dah achieve success or their own target
dah ada their own money, asets, hmm mcm dah capai satisfaction of life..
masa tu, cari jodoh was not a priority anymore,
sebab tu ramai pompan yang involved in run, travel, hiking dll
but yup, not all..
lain org, lain cara pembawaan diri..
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Edited by emerald-jade at 27-4-2016 11:15 AM
Hehehe.. no worry.. tak terasa pun... eh i bukan troll you tau... Sorry ye kalau terasa..
In my case, 3 hari lagi i nak kahwin.. Insya Allah.. kahwin at the age of 34.. jodoh i lambat sampai (I wasnt seriously looking for fulltime commitment sebelum ni), but its worth to wait.. i da capai most of hal duniawi.. pusing keliling dunia, ade rumah i sendiri, excellent career, bawak my parents ke mekah.. all in i complete all mission sebelum i kahwin.. i believe the theory u win some and u lose some.. cantik sebenarnya Allah punye planning..
why i kahwin lambat... i nak kejar my dreams.. i have big dreams.. masa lepas graduated mmg i berazam nak be somebody, boleh naik kapal terbang tu anytime tgk dunia..i cant buy those without my own effort, kerja keras sendiri to be what i am now.. I berazam nak ubah taraf hidup i sendiri..
So for those single woman out there, 30s.. if u single single.. chase ur dreams (kalau yang belum) .. live with proud.. its never too late.. find ur own self happiness.
tapi biasala kita dlm lingkungan masyarakat yang kahwin umur 20s, so bile perempuan lambat kahwin... orang sekeliling sibuk nak ambil tahu..
"Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah nasib suatu kaum kecuali kaum itu sendiri yang mengubah apa apa yang pada diri mereka "
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fefeeling perasan chanteks.. nak reply gak. 
i am 30s, single again and runner...
i have always been active frm school n mmg sokmo wat workouts kat rumah, either normal workouts atau ikut dvd. i am very particular of how do i look; its personal satisfaction. in my 30s baru start berjinak ngan gym.. but limited time nak join sports, i start running. normally i join running events dlm 2-3 event sebulan, kekadang sampai 4event.. ikut kadar extra RM yg boleh dikorbankan. mahal la events skrg.. tak kurang dgn yg asyik postpone ngan cancel sesuka ati lagik. dari running semata2.. skrg masuk obstacle race; SPARTAN. completed my spartan sprint (5km 20obstacles), spartan super (13km 30 obstacles) and registered for spartan beast (20km 40obstacles). hampir2 nak masuk warrior trail tapi ditakutkan oleh my friend pasal pacat/lintah kat semenyih tu.. last2 xmasuk. huhu..
psl kawen.. ntah. belum ada lg yg mengena semua specifications kot.
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I ada one friend yg newly single, started to join marathon n all ni few years back. Since dia divorced, dia all out gunakan weekends dia utk aktiviti2 berfaedah mcmni. And she managed to get her body back mcm zaman skolah2 dulu. Dulu time ada husband, she let herself go and now she did it all out. Good for her!
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aku pun pelik kenapa ko punye level of curiousity begitu tinggi untuk tau the reason behind ketiga2 list yg ko sebut tu. Cantik, nice body and being single why? sama jgk mcm ko tny cantik, nice body but divorced? need to elaborate more?. Jgn igt kenapa ppuan cmni, camtu untuk mendapatkan perhatian lelaki jer.. join marathon sb nak maintain fitness ataupun mmg minat bukan nak grab attention sesiapa. cantik n single xkn xde laki nak ye dak tapi jelas kt sni lelaki not of their utmost priority at that moment. Byk benda penting yg ppuan nak kejar dalam hidup selain lelaki. org cantik dan educated biasanya mcmtu because they nothing to lose.
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From all criteria above, ada la sort of kena dgn diri..
I am marathon runner, single, almost 30..
Bila you cakap u marathon runner, you lari full marathon ke?I always admire those who could finish a full marathon.
cantik ke x tu, i dont know..hahaa
so, i guess i can give my opinion too rite..
Actually, semua org cantik dan I tak kisah pun sebenarnya siapa yg nak reply.
Cuma I x nak org sentap dalam ni je.
for me, i join not for cari jodoh..
Actual reason, sbb nk release stress. U know, bila dah penat lari
balik rest and no need to think about segala keserabutan, thats a relief..
and gud thing, dapat exercise too..
mb ada yang kata join event mcm tu, running here and there possibility to know other people tu ada,
but trust me, no one bother walaupun thousand of people join it..
bila u run, aim just to complete the run and cross the finish line.
Jadi you masuk dalam category "competitive runner", runner yg participate sebab nak compete.
Tapi korang rasa ada tak kemungkinan wujud category "social runner"?
About high standard ke x tu, ntah la..
cari partner its not about handsome, kaya, athletic ke hape..
kalau dapat tu, gud la.. Advantage kan..
But, selalunya when pompan dah reach 30, mostly dah achieve success or their own target
dah ada their own money, asets, hmm mcm dah capai satisfaction of life..
masa tu, cari jodoh was not a priority anymore,
sebab tu ramai pompan yang involved in run, travel, hiking dll
but yup, not all..
lain org, lain cara pembawaan diri..
TQ for sharing.
My wisdom has increased by few points after reading your post.
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Hehehe.. no worry.. tak terasa pun... eh i bukan troll you tau... Sorry ye kalau terasa..
In my case, 3 hari lagi i nak kahwin.. Insya Allah.. kahwin at the age of 34.. jodoh i lambat sampai (I wasnt seriously looking for fulltime commitment sebelum ni), but its worth to wait.. i da capai most of hal duniawi.. pusing keliling dunia, ade rumah i sendiri, excellent career, bawak my parents ke mekah.. all in i complete all mission sebelum i kahwin.. i believe the theory u win some and u lose some.. cantik sebenarnya Allah punye planning..
Congratulations!!!!
Wow, awak ni mmg dedicated forumner ye.
Lagi 3 hari nak kahwin, masih sempat buat posting.
Hahaha. We are all happy for you.
why i kahwin lambat... i nak kejar my dreams.. i have big dreams.. masa lepas graduated mmg i berazam nak be somebody, boleh naik kapal terbang tu anytime tgk dunia..i cant buy those without my own effort, kerja keras sendiri to be what i am now.. I berazam nak ubah taraf hidup i sendiri..
So for those single woman out there, 30s.. if u single single.. chase ur dreams (kalau yang belum) .. live with proud.. its never too late.. find ur own self happiness.
tapi biasala kita dlm lingkungan masyarakat yang kahwin umur 20s, so bile perempuan lambat kahwin... orang sekeliling sibuk nak ambil tahu..
You dream big and make big sacrifices in life.
In return, you get big results.
This is how we should approach our life.
Awesome!!
"Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah nasib suatu kaum kecuali kaum itu sendiri yang mengubah apa apa yang pada diri mereka "
Haha ni benda apa pulak?
Org Melayu dari kecik cuma diajar utk lihat dunia dari satu perspektif dan tak pernah diajar utk tgk dunia dari perspektif yg berbeza.
Sebab tu pemikiran org Melayu kena belenggu sampai skrg.
Pernah terfikir tak kenapa kat universiti-universiti tempatan, tak pernah ada School of Philosophy?
Hahaha sebabnya, kalau org Melayu terdedah dgn falsafah Barat, terkejut Tok Arab tak boleh nak defend diorang punya doktrin.
Sayang betul ramai yg kenal Zakir Naik tapi tak kenal siapa tu Immanuel Kant, Bertrand Russell etc.
Tapi topik ni kita sambung kat tempat lain lak, bukan kat sini.
All the best for the future and have a blissful married life!
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Tuan Tanah tengah but survey utk thesis Master at PhD ker?
Jodoh bukan lagi top priority at that kind of age! others, be happy and live a healthy life (Physical, emotional and spiritual). Hiking, running getting fit is one of the way towards a healthy lifestyle. |
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Edited by munchkin at 29-4-2016 12:54 AM
bagus bersukan.
ada kawan aku dari kecik sejak join marathon rumahtangga tak dengar bunyik tup tup cerai. kawin pulak kebetulan dgn lelaki lari marathon. aku tengok sedih je anak2 tu. masa depa nikah, ex wife pi tunai umrah. anak anak lelaki tu dah besar gak.
kawan baik dia pulak kawin tak sampai setahun cerai and baru kawin lain baru baru ni.
yang sorang ni cerai. then kawin lain. then masuk marathon. aku tengok pic marathon dok bergesel situ sini jantan pompuan. fb husband habis gambar pompuan ni takde. life pun cam single mother. adrenaline junkie.
cerita atas tu ketiga tiga kawan. hmmmm
ada yang betul betul serius marathon. hmmm
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ai single, 30++, join running event gak (dlm 2 tahun dah)
ai masa 20s pernah bencinta n putus then obes (sad but true)
late 20s ai dapat wake up call to do sumting
ai start ngan workout2 gitu2 jah
6 bulan cenggitu ai dpt ubah figure n stamina mkn bagus ai start branikan dr msk running event
fes running event ai cuma amik 12km, ai nangis terharu bile hbs.
rase ade semangat, ai troskan lg running (back to back running pon penah)
bkn sbb ai msk nk mencari jodoh atau sunyi
cuma kalu yu sekali try yu berjaya, yu mesti nk cuba lg dan lg
nak2 lagi di usia 30's yu akan rase bertuah sbb dpt rs sumting yg yu bole buat brbanding kawan2 yu yg tak bpeluang mencuba.
dulu ai pon macam yu wondering tp bg ai be it single or married, 20's, 30's, 40's, 50's pon, the willingness dtg dr sendiri.
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aku rasa macam nak jawab je sbb aku ppuan single umo 31 dah.
nak kata cantik tu..aku rasa biasa2 je. tp ramai dok nak bkenalan dgn aku ni bdk2 yang jaaaauuuhhhh...lagi muda. aku target..biarla yg lebih kurg sebaya dgn aku. bukan ape..umo aku dah 31..kang mereput lagi nak tunggu dia abis blaja..nak cari keje bagai. bkn kisah pasal duit..tp alamatnya nak tggu org muda meminang aku..kena tggu aku umo 40 la camtu
bila aku ckp aku single..ramai tak caye. semua..SEMUA ingat aku tipu. serius..aku dari dulu lagi jodoh susah nak lekat. dlm 2-3 bln je break. apsal korg tak caye aku sgt? aku setia kot. so xde laki yg btul2 nak kat aku. smua takat main2..aku ni nak cari calon utk dibuat suami. tp ramai yg offer stakat nak skandal2. nak buat ape? aku nak cari pahala..bkn buat dosa
aku xde la minat marathon. tp join zumba gi gym tu ada la jugak. dah berusia kan? so kena la jaga kesihatan. dah berumur ni berat cepat naik. kita ni masih lagi anak dara..so mesti la kena jaga badan kan? 1 lagi..dari sedih memikir pasal jodoh..diri tak laku..ada faedahnya join benda2 camni. release stress jap. nak bersosial dgn kawan2 dgn cara sihat..bkn melepak tak tentu pasal |
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I kenal walaupun tak berapa rapat dgn sorang yang umur mid to late 30ies, berwajah cantik tapi badan memang debab. Besar kemungkinan kalau dia tak ambik berat (pun intended) dengan kesihatan dia, I rasa dia boleh ada masalah dengan lutut sebab bahagian atas badan dia memang tak seimbang dengan badan dia.
I noticed dia start berlari sejak cinta dia ditolak. Memang gila2 ambil bahagian dlm setiap event kat KL atau luar daerah. Tak tahulah kenapa dia beria2 berlari samada nak jaga kesihatan / turunkan berat badan yang melampau ataupun nak terserempak dengan lelaki yg tolak cantik dia (lelaki ni a runner) di mana2 park atau marathon event. Ataupun boleh tayang dlm IG yang dia amalkan gaya hidup sihat gitu.
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 26-4-2016 07:57 PM
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(mcm ni pon boley la ye 
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