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Edited by ipes2 at 22-12-2018 10:39 AM
It is always better to say certain things out loud than to wait. Waiting causes yearning, missing, craving, increasing desire. Tiba-tiba, didapati, it is too late. Hampir semua lelaki cannot read a woman's mind or cannot read what are there between the lines.
In response to Syd's pleasant thread:
https://mforum.cari.com.my/forum ... tra=page%3D1&page=1
Ini cerita lama saya syd.
Bila dah beranak terserempak balik baru dia cerita kat saya. Pui!
Can you read my mind?
Do you know what it is you do to me?
Don't know who you are
Just a friend from another star.
Here I am, like a kid at the school
Holding hands with a god Im a fool
Will you look at me, quivering,
Like a little girl, shivering,
You can see right through me.
Can you read my mind?
Can you picture the things I'm thinking of?
Wondering why you are
All the wonderful things you are.
You can fly, you belong to the sky
You and I could belong to each other.
If you need a friend,
I'm the one to fly too
If you need, to be loved
Here I am,
Read my mind!
''Can You Read My Mind''
Maureen McGovern (1979)
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doc, sorry off topik....
dass score sy sebegini, perlu ke sy refer doctor/pakar saikologi...
Kemurungan/Depression:
20 (Sederhana/Moderate)
Keresahan/Anxiety:
26 (Sangat Teruk/Extremely Severe)
Stress:
32 (Teruk/Severe)
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kiyudi,
haha, ini maybe better dari melayan perasaan
berkenaan dgn DASS ni, ianya self administered sahaja
awak sendiri kan yg score?
jadi, ia banyak bergantung pada perasaan dan emosi org itu dikala itu
jika tgh kiyudi happy, score nya mungkin berbeza
jika kiyudi tiba2 jatuh sakit, stress levels nya mungkin berbeza
esoknya bila sembuh, stress nya berbeza, tapi anxiety score nya mungkin berbeza pulak (eg naik sebab MC dah habis, or turun sebb lega sakit dah sembuh)
psychiatrists tidak mengguna kan DASS score
tetapi ianya boleh lah kita guna untuk research purposes
dan juga untuk tengok keadaan kita
kiranya, boleh lah utk kita pantau dimana kita berada
keluarkan stress (yg severe tu) dari minda you
berterus terang dengan hati sendiri, lawan rasa segan dan malu, dan tulis dalam bilik sunyi masa alone, dalam kertas yg orang tak akan dapat tengok:
stressors nye, apakah ianya yg sebenarnya, mungkin ia begini:
1) duit bulanan tak cukup
2) duit simpanan kurang
3) aku sepatutnya lebih berjaya dari aku hari ini
4) sharon classmate aku lebih buruk dari aku tapi kaki ngampu
5) aku tension laki aku tak basuh pinggan
6) aku masih malu kena marah dgn bos minggu lepas
7) aku tak suka arah hidup aku
8) etc..
listkan, dan bila dah nmpk listnya, susun mana yg atas sekali
dan tanda: I can change this one (Can)
i cannot change this one (Cant)
yg u can, u plan caranya eg 1) no new clothes this month 4) ludah dalam coffee sharon 6) say good morning to boss everyday dgn senyum agar bos rasa ok this girl dan rasa ''OK'' itu lebih dari ''marah'' dia last week
if u cant, u accept 5) ok, lelaki semua tak suka basuh pinggan 7) inilah arah hidupku, lalui sekali lagi pun, ia mungkin mengarah kesini juga
good luck
beri pendapat awak tentang apa yg sy kata
(..dan memang awak off topic)
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nanges.
kena mengaji kitab lagu lama.
Oh, kuatlah kecekalan hatiku.
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tu hari mmg teringin nak tepek satu benda nih kat bod kesihatan tu.
tentang bancian ataupun apa benda yang mereka tertentu nih buat.
ukuran stress.
I volunteer buat test tu. Untuk daerah Petaling.
Nanti lah i kumpul material dan i buat thread tu.
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Edited by adila39 at 20-12-2018 11:08 AM
ni lagu soundtrack superman yg hero lama tu
i nak share mine, boleh ke.
way back college time. I am very quiet type..malu and buat hal sendiri. Then 1st sem. I kenal my senior ni. Dia ni garang...tapi brilliant. Tiap hari dia akan cari pasal dgn i. Dari tak suka jadi suka. Tapi i xberani nak bagitau since he is my senior and ramai jugak yg suka
Then i dapat call from him ajak minum. Memangla suka sangat! Still i tak bagitau dia i like him alot.
From date 1, to second and more...still i x cakap...then one day he called me again ajak tengok wayang.
I am super happy and nak tell him i like him..tunggu xde call x de berita pun. Atter two weeks dpt info dia meninggal kemalangan. Until today on may, i akan ingat and sedekahkan al fatihah.
Anything similar story mesti i akan teringat until now. sigh. |
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dulik apa off topic....
tq doc atas nasihat...nak cari coach
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beg coach kebest of luck
harap jumpa yg best
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terima kasih syd
ok jugak kan?
sy tak tahu pon ni theme Superman
dengar dari piring hitam kat umah masa kecik
abang punya
sy dengar dari 9/11 flight attendant yg mati, skolah dia dedicate a video in youtube for her
guna this song as background
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sy tak tahu pon ni lagu theme Superman
tak pernah tengok pon that movie
youtube video yg sy tgk ialah dari tribute
tribute dari Olynpic team dari high school
Leuzinger High School
sbb on eof their alumni, Barbara Jean Arestegui, was a flight attendant yang mati in one of the planes of the September 11.
youtube video tu guna lagu ni as its background
sy dgr lagu ni masa kecik2 dulu sbb ada dalam piring hitam abang saya
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coach emosi la doc....
bag coach pn cun gak....
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buka lah thread baru utk ingatan dan memory pada almarhum
that is a very sweet memory
and i am so truely sorry for your lost
dia tahu that he was loved by you
he might have read your mind 
jika tidak, masakan dia keluar dgn you byk kali
however, you should have told him that you ada perasaan pada nya
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buat la syd
mungkin berguna utk semua
nnt bila syd free, silakan
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ipes2 replied at 22-12-2018 10:37 AM
buat la syd
mungkin berguna utk semua
nnt bila syd free, silakan
Can u read my mind, Doc?
Lot of ideas (but lack of time);-
1) Pending of 2018 news compilation
2) Pending of thread related to HR issues, esp dismissal (yet to determine izzit wrongful dismissal ke apa) pasal staff Honda yg komen pasal kematian Adib.
3) Pending of thread related to beli rumah. Just to share my exp, advices to purchasers since m attached to Developer kan? Perangai2 purchasers, Loan Soli punya akal, bank etc.
4) Pending of thread pasal kesihatan ni semua.
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tu lah
time mmg isu
ngantuk dah sy huhu
slmt mlm syd
jgn dilupa amalan amalan malam
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ipes2 replied at 22-12-2018 11:03 AM
tu lah
time mmg isu
ngantuk dah sy huhu
Yer.
Selamat malam. Salam.
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Assalammu'alaikum n selamat sejahtera.
Yep, it's the theme song of Superman... the one with Christopher Reeve as the man of steel. Used to play it in the school orchestra in front of Selangor MB dulu2 zmn ikan bilis. 
Back to the topic...
Bila ada org mcm ni mai, boleh la bg jawapan kt bawah mengikut personaliti masing2. Tinggalkan spouse is not an option la kan. I assume we r all wise enough. Ok, here we go.
1. Buat2 tak dengar n tukar topik.
2. Bagi dia a lethal line so that dia tak berani sebut lagi. Contoh: Aku dah kahwin, kau nak rock aku punya boat apahal?! Mcm setan nak runtuhkan masjid punya perangai. Dah tau aku dah kahwin, move on la siaaa!
3. Ckp yg berikut dgn wajah yg tenang dan tone yg matang: Ada sebab semua ni terjadi. U will meet someone better than me. Allah is the best planner.
4. Buat muka kesian: Ahhh, so sweet. Kesian hang naa. Adik/kakak/abg/sepupu/jiran/nenek aku tak kahwin lagi, kau nak?
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I can read your mind
And I know your story
Part of celine dion's lyric
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Waalaikumussalam.
Saya tak tahu pon ianya Superman nyer theme.
Dengar masa kecik for a few years sebab abang ada cassette yg compilations nye songs, one of them was this one.
Iya? U main orchestra dulu?
Wow.
Sorry i didnt get your 1) to 4); referring to what exactly?
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