dh clash, but he still call me 'sayang'

sya05 · Post time 1-1-2009 10:27 AM

plz help me, not sure wat to do

we both agreed to clash, but he still insist to call me with 'sayang'...'dear'....
already remind him tat not to call me with tat name again,but mcm masuk 'telinga kiri kuar telinga kanan' aje

[if dh ade topic nie, can merge or delete..tq]

cik_kambing · Post time 1-1-2009 11:07 AM

Originally posted by sya05 at 1-1-2009 10:27 AM
plz help me, not sure wat to do
we both agreed to clash, but he still insist to call me with 'sayang'...'dear'....
already remind him tat not to call me with tat name again,but mcm masuk 'te ...

mebi dah terbiasa kot..benda2 ginih perlu masa. kot

hehe

anonymous5050 · Post time 1-1-2009 11:10 AM

eee....gelinye lelaki ni.....dh clash pggl 'sayang' lg......

sori2..........peace2...no war...

namia00 · Post time 1-1-2009 11:34 AM

u rasa pe bila dia still call u cmtu? u tak marah dia kot.. kalo i warning je da clash jgn nk call manje2 lagik... so hurt ler..

ada 2 kemungkinan..

1 - dia sengaja nk sakitkan hati u

2 - dia masih mencintai u.

what about u ?

sya05 · Post time 1-1-2009 11:42 AM

'terbiasa'? means ngan semua xgf dia pun mybe still panggil 'sayang'?
lelaki kan...em....

Originally posted by cik_kambing at 1-1-2009 11:07 AM

mebi dah terbiasa kot..benda2 ginih perlu masa. kot hehe

sya05 · Post time 1-1-2009 11:47 AM

Originally posted by anonymous5050 at 1-1-2009 11:10 AM
eee....gelinye lelaki ni.....dh clash pggl 'sayang' lg......

sori2..........peace2...no war...

tue la, tak tau cmna nk beritau lg.... sya tya gak.. kenapa msh panggil mcm tu..kan dh bbrp kali ingtkn jgn panggil mcm tu...
jwpn dia so somple...coz still sayang kat sya..kami clash pun sbb dia yg decided nk clash... {mslh komitment n etc yg sukar nk dpjelaskn}

sya05 · Post time 1-1-2009 11:51 AM

Originally posted by namia00 at 1-1-2009 11:34 AM
u rasa pe bila dia still call u cmtu? u tak marah dia kot.. kalo i warning je da clash jgn nk call manje2 lagik... so hurt ler..

ada 2 kemungkinan..

1 - dia sengaja nk sakitkan hati u

2 ...

yup, probably either one.... he did mention he still syg kat sya ... but if dh clash tu, he should respect ar keputusn tu...
& it's true .. so hurt to forget someone u luv...

nursha · Post time 1-1-2009 12:48 PM

Dah terbiasa la tu..
ambik mase nak ubah...
bukan senang,klu dah terbiasa pgl...

sya05 · Post time 1-1-2009 01:04 PM

Originally posted by nursha at 1-1-2009 12:48 PM
Dah terbiasa la tu..
ambik mase nak ubah...
bukan senang,klu dah terbiasa pgl...

emm..mungkin
[ 4 guys out there, plz appreciate girls beside u.. don't juz say she's ur gf, but never treat her @ cheer her up..
don't myesal hya slps she's not at your side anymore....]

chocolatewaffle · Post time 1-1-2009 01:18 PM

Actually, he needs time not to call you with name2 manje korang pernah gune tu. I've been in this situation before.

Memang susah time baru clash tu nak stop calling each other dengan name manje. Die tanye aku, die tak boleh terus guna 'awak saya' ngan saye, die perlukan mase at least sebulan. Aku pun same gak, susah nak stop panggil die ngan name manje kitorang gune. Ye la, kitorang clash pun bukan sebab atas keinginan kitorang, cume mak die tak restu

(lau nak tau problem aku, bace kat sini ---> http://mforum4.cari.com.my/viewthread.php?tid=389592 )

Bende macam ni perlukan masa, yes, sakit gak bile panggil panggilan tu tapi dah tak bersama gi.

Tapi eventually, korang akan rase okay ... and bile kau rase dah tibe waktunye untuk stop panggil panggilan manje ni, just stop la

All of this depends on how far your strength is to accept the fact yang korang dah tak bercouple lagi.

Good luck! :victory:

fad_rash · Post time 1-1-2009 01:18 PM

Pada fad, mungkin bg dia perkataan sayang tu hanya mainan di bibir dia je.. jgn mudah terpedaya..
dh dia yg decided nak pts.. Dia saje nk bg u terus ingat kat dia.. lupakan je...anggap itu hanya gurauan..pedulikan dia n mulakan hidup baru...

[ Last edited by fad_rash at 1-1-2009 01:21 PM ]

nursha · Post time 1-1-2009 01:22 PM

Yup,pesanan berguna utk sume llki kat luar..
Bg sesetgh llki...panggilan sayang ni,x bawe mksd pape..
hnye sekadar panggilan je..
even,dgn mmbe ppuan dorang pun,kadang2 dorang pgl sayang..
so..jgn mudah terpedaye la ye..

sya05 · Post time 1-1-2009 01:35 PM

Originally posted by fad_rash at 1-1-2009 01:18 PM
Pada fad, mungkin bg dia perkataan sayang tu hanya mainan di bibir dia je.. jgn mudah terpedaya..
dh dia yg decided nak pts.. Dia saje nk bg u terus ingat kat dia.. lupakan je...anggap itu hanya ...

yes, tat's wat i feel fad.. i feel dia cuma nk bg sya terus ingt kat dia... kata nk lepas..tp in meantime tak mau bg lepas...
jiwa sya gak yg hurt.... [ dh putus, tp semua yg dia buat seolah-olah kami still loving couple...]

fad_rash · Post time 1-1-2009 01:42 PM

Sbr sha... U jgn lyn dia. Buat x tau je... Kalau dia panggil u mcm tu...jgn dimarah...u buat bodo je.. keraskan hati tu n jgn mdh mengalah pd dia.. Dia saje nk seksa ht u. supaya u pk psl dia n kucarkacirkan perasaan u...Pada fad dia ego..:@
U must strong...Mulakan hdp baru...jauhkan dari dia...n buktikan pd dia u blh hdp n dapat yg lebih baik.. dia mmg x memahami perasaan u.... Caiyo2...i sokong u....:victory:

sya05 · Post time 1-1-2009 01:44 PM

not sure abt tat..
but fyi, ms memula couple...he ask me to keep it secret.....don't let anyone know that both of us are loving couple...
[ mulanyer sya setuju je, but after few months, sya baru perasan & ttya..why he ask to keep it secret ]

sampai la ni...... kekawn seorg pun tak penah tau kami penah bcouple n putus....

i wonder le, why guys ask to keep it secret? wat's their intention?

chocolatewaffle · Post time 1-1-2009 01:58 PM

Originally posted by sya05 at 1-1-2009 13:44
not sure abt tat..
but fyi, ms memula couple...he ask me to keep it secret.....don't let anyone know that both of us are loving couple...
[ mulanyer sya setuju je, but after few months, sya ba ...

Ntahnye, ex aku pun camtu gak.
Die kate, taknak la heboh2. Nanti kalau dah break, malu..? Erks ...

sya05 · Post time 1-1-2009 02:41 PM

ooo.... mcm tu ker?
at least chocolatewaffle's dpt gak reason frm ur ex rahsiakn hbgn korang..

but sya until todate x dpt jwpn dr dia...[ paer guna nk jwpn lagi kan... dh putus dh pun...]

life must go on!!!! tq to all for ur support & opinion

otakotak · Post time 1-1-2009 02:59 PM

wat buduh sudey....

klu xder prasaan dah pggl baby pown wa xder mende dah

nursha · Post time 1-1-2009 03:15 PM

y keep d secret???

Erm...byk rezennye..
maybe,die x nak kecoh2..
x suke org tau..personal matter die..

maybe jugak..die ade yg lain..(bkn nak niat buruk,tp..kene ati2)
kalau x,nape die nak rahsiakan kan..
tp,hanye awak je tau,die camne..
so,awak ley judge die jenis yg camne.

Pape pun..kite x ley nak judge die camtu je..
hnye bf awak yg tau sbb nye..
tnye la die..