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Edited by Decaffeinated at 22-6-2022 12:05 PM
Moral policed to death or being a woman in Malaysia
Erna Mahyuni
Wed, 22 June 2022, 8:37 am
Malay Mail
JUNE 22 — Recently a news agency got deserved flak for badly photoshopping a hijab onto a photo used for a celebrity obituary.
It was a comical picture — it looked as though someone with absolutely no graphic design skills had attempted to draw on a hijab for the photo.
Of course there was an outcry; some said it was disrespectful while others said it was unnecessary when there were a few photos floating around of her with a covered head.
There, however, seems to be no rhyme or reason as to the need to censor a dead person’s hair.
My simple assertion is that if you wouldn’t do that to them when alive, you have no reason to do it when they’re dead.
It is a disturbing trend in Malaysia where women are constantly being asked about their clothing choices and then criticised for them.
Your dress is too tight, you aren’t covering enough, isn’t that indecent?
Even singer Yuna has had to deal with non-stop comments on her choice of dress to the point she has said she receives way more flak on her wardrobe from Malaysians than anywhere else.
Women face objectification all the time as can be seen just by reading online profiles written about them, especially when written by men. — Reuters pic
It is considered acceptable for local newspapers to write neverending stories on whether a celebrity has chosen to cover up, not cover up or reversed a decision to do either.
What is also sad is that prior to the aforementioned celebrity’s death, there were fawning articles praising her for her apparent weight loss.
It is tiring and tiresome that women can never escape the scrutiny of their looks or wardrobe.
Malaysian singer Shila Amzah once complained that the local press were more interested in writing about her personal life than about her music — it was a valid critique and yet she ended up being blackballed by the media.
She had to publicly apologise for her statement when I think, really, all those media people offended by what she said should have been the ones to ask her for forgiveness.
As the Malay saying goes, siapa makan lada, dialah terasa pedas (whoever eats the chilli, should feel the heat).
Women face objectification all the time as can be seen just by reading online profiles written about them, especially when written by men.
Few do not mention their figure or looks in some way, sometimes dedicating entire paragraphs to their attractiveness but men do not face as much attention to the curve of their waists.
I know some people complain about people being “too PC” or “woke” when really, isn’t it right and proper to demand that people evolve with the times?
In the old days, casually racist jokes were common and no one thought to question a popular toothpaste brand being named after a racist slur.
If that toothpaste brand could have a makeover, why can’t we also embrace enlightenment and not be so concerned about what a woman wears, alive or dead?
To stop women complaining about mistreatment and sexism, the solution is not to shut them up but to stop the misogyny.
Until that happens, I’m sorry that you will just have to put up with all the (rightfully) angry feminists and maybe ask yourself if you too aren’t part of the problem.
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Gambar kak Dib ke? Tapi memang ada gambar yg beliau pakai tudung kan.. bkn ditambah2 |
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Kat fb ramai yg tulis tutup aib..just nak tanya rambut tu termasuk dlm aib ke? Bukan aurat ke? |
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Nanti Tun Siti Hasmah meninggal, nak buat begini juga ka? |
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"others said it was unnecessary when there were a few photos floating around of her with a covered head."
Yup. Memang ada.
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My simple assertion is that if you wouldn’t do that to them when alive, you have no reason to do it when they’re dead.
... orang yang pakaikan tudung itu bila dah mati tu rasanya ada pandangan lain. .. sebab ada yang berpendapat bahawa gambar tak menutup aurat didunia itu, walaupun dah meninggal menyebabkan orang yang dah meninggal itu tersiksa...
jangan tanya lebih-lebih dengan aku sebab aku pun quote apa yang selalu aku baca. .. tersiksa mcm mana, kenapa masih tersiksa dengan sesuatu tinggalan mcm tu dsbnya.. jangan tanya i don't have answers
masa dia hidup dah ada usaha pun .. cuma usahanya itu bukan memakaikan tudung pada gambar, boleh tegur direct..
jangan tanya pendapat aku... aku pun pening, aku cuma cuba memahami situasi ini... 
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Nak mengata Vernama ke tu? |
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ada dalil yang sohih ka pasal tu?
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Shallow minded! Gambar hanya satu 'imej', baik utk yang hidup atau mati! Paling menyedihkan bila asyik memperkatakan/mengukur dosa pahala, aib dan lain2 hanya kerana cara berpakaian! What an idiot! Moron! |
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asamfish replied at 22-6-2022 12:33 PM
Shallow minded! Gambar hanya satu 'imej', baik utk yang hidup atau mati! Paling menyedihkan bila a ...
You go girlllz sis. |
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kalau sewaktu hidup, dia pun tahu dan sentiasa diberitahu untuk menutup kepala
dan pilihannya tidak menutup
mengapa sewaktu dah meninggal, kita yang hidup ni sibuk nak menutup kepala dia
ramai yang berkata kubur masing masing
biarlah dia dengan penciptaNya
kita yang hidup ambil iktibar
apa yang perlu dilaksanakan sewaktu masih bernafas, laksanakan
dah mati, baru nak laksanakan
dah terlambat |
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Kenapa tak pakaikan tudung pada gambar2 arwah ahso juga jika itu dapat meringankan seksaan beliau di neraka? Same concept kan.
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Kekdahnya, Kau dengan agama Kau. Aku dengan agama Aku. Yg pening2 nak pikir kafir buat apa. Pikir syurga neraka diri sendiri je la.
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Kita patut lantik menteri agama supaya masalah dpt dirujuk kepada beliau.
Atau lantik mufti untuk jadikan rujukan supaya umat islam xkecoh2 lagi nak tutup aurat dlm gambar org yg dah meninggal. |
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Tp dlm filem/drama xde pulak dorang nak kecoh2 tutup aurat pelakon yg dah meninggal tu?siap enjoy tengok lagi.
Contoh cite p.ramlee tu,ramai pelakon2 dlm tu yg dah meninggal |
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dua_chzy replied at 22-6-2022 12:18 PM
Nanti Tun Siti Hasmah meninggal, nak buat begini juga ka?
wow!..soalan level...kbat.... |
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Decaffeinated replied at 22-6-2022 12:49 PM
Kenapa tak pakaikan tudung pada gambar2 arwah ahso juga jika itu dapat meringankan seksaan beliau di ...
nt drng guling atas jln... |
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dua_chzy replied at 22-6-2022 12:18 PM
Nanti Tun Siti Hasmah meninggal, nak buat begini juga ka?
Ada je gambar Tun bertudung
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Kenapa ambik alih kerja tuhan |
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mojarean_X replied at 22-6-2022 01:12 PM
Ada je gambar Tun bertudung
Tapi mungkin... MUNGKIN depa tak berani bubuh gambar Tun Hasmah dengan gambar tudung sebab Che Det yg tak bagi beliau pakai tudung. Ada dalam interview mana tah, Tun Hasmah bgtau.  |
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