Andai Dia PERGI Dulu??

LostSoul · Post time 15-12-2007 01:09 PM

alahai doreen.. my family ni baka besar2.. i mmg nak maintain healthy la.. but i doubt i leh stay slim.. even skgpun chubby.. maybe kena jaga cholesterol n all la.. bab slim tu.. ekekek cam slim chance jek..

wifeorg · Post time 15-12-2007 03:05 PM

Originally posted by misy at 12-12-2007 08:46 PM
Satu pertanyaan buat wanita....jika ditakdirkan pasangan anda pergi dulu megadap Ilahi, terutama yg premature death atau mennggal sebab tragedi...apakah korang akan kawin lagi, atau tak....soalan ...

haku pasti akan kawin lagi...but kali ni haku cari yg berduit!

wifeorg · Post time 15-12-2007 03:07 PM

tapi betul losol....haku tgk nenek yg chubby tu cam lebih ceria and loving compared to nenek yg vogue, kurus. yg jenis kurus2 ni...cengih skit...tak cukup sugar in the blood kot?

LostSoul · Post time 15-12-2007 03:24 PM

kekeke.. agaknye kot.. nenek aku mmg chubby2.. tiap2 kali aku balik kg mesti aku cium dia.. bau wangi jek.. n dia jenih gelak ketawa jek walaupun atok dha takde..

misy · Post time 15-12-2007 03:33 PM

nenek kena chubby mcm beruang POOH tu baru sedap nak peluk....tapi kalau nenek pegi dulu & dpt nenek vogue boleh terima tak korang?

misy · Post time 15-12-2007 03:34 PM

Originally posted by wifeorg at 15-12-2007 03:05 PM

haku pasti akan kawin lagi...but kali ni haku cari yg berduit!

hehehe kiranya kena revise balik la kirteria pemilihan tu ek... u dah vote ke, sbb so far yg pilih kawin lagi tak ramai pun

doreen · Post time 15-12-2007 03:40 PM

Originally posted by LostSoul at 15-12-2007 01:09 PM
alahai doreen.. my family ni baka besar2.. i mmg nak maintain healthy la.. but i doubt i leh stay slim.. even skgpun chubby.. maybe kena jaga cholesterol n all la.. bab slim tu.. ekekek cam slim ...

kalau dah simpan lemak, cemana nak healthy, cuba citer sikit. Kalau ada cara simpan lemak boleg healthy, tak perlu saya jaga makan lagi. Penat tau jaga makan ni, tapi sebab nak maintain, kenalah, terutama lepas beranak.

wifeorg · Post time 15-12-2007 03:49 PM

Originally posted by doreen at 15-12-2007 03:40 PM

kalau dah simpan lemak, cemana nak healthy, cuba citer sikit. Kalau ada cara simpan lemak boleg healthy, tak perlu saya jaga makan lagi. Penat tau jaga makan ni, tapi sebab nak maintain, ke ...

ko mmg kena jaga badan ko...kang laki ko cari lain pulak! dah ada history kan.

doreen · Post time 15-12-2007 03:51 PM

betul, betul.... tapi jaga bukan utk dia saja, jaga utk kesihatan juga.

PoSh78 · Post time 15-12-2007 07:32 PM

I alwitz hope that I yang perGi dulu

misy · Post time 17-12-2007 11:48 AM

nape cam tu?

masnina · Post time 28-1-2008 11:35 PM

kalau aku cuma ada anak sorang, maybe ye

tapi kalau anak 4-5 org, dalam umor 40an taklah kot

biarlah aku besarkan anak2 je.. aku jumpa dia dalam syurga

aku sebokkan diri aku dgn perniagaan jelah

namun aku harap dijauhkan bende2 tak elok, nauzubillah

suzie284 · Post time 28-1-2008 11:48 PM

yup..setuju dgn dianthe....walaupun my hubby bukan my first love, tp bila dh jd husband, i rasa dialah jodoh terbaik...pertama dan terakhir...

Originally posted by dianthe at 12-12-2007 09:19 PM
aku nak luv org pun susah, inikan pulak nak kawen lain...
sebolehnya, taklah...
tapi kalau tuhan bukak hati, tak tahu...
but i'll try my very best.. dia cinta pertama dan terakhir aku..

manakautau · Post time 29-1-2008 08:19 AM

Originally posted by misy at 12-12-2007 08:46 PM
cuma me rasa rasa la kebanyakan nya akan kawin lagi sbb memenuhi kehendak biologi...

Biologi cakap apa????? Siapa lak budak biologi ni........

manakautau · Post time 29-1-2008 08:22 AM

Originally posted by dianthe at 12-12-2007 09:19 PM
aku nak luv org pun susah, inikan pulak nak kawen lain...
sebolehnya, taklah...
tapi kalau tuhan bukak hati, tak tahu...
but i'll try my very best.. dia cinta pertama dan terakhir aku..

manakautau · Post time 29-1-2008 08:23 AM

manakautau · Post time 29-1-2008 08:24 AM

Originally posted by my-alja at 12-12-2007 09:32 PM
susah gak nak jawab, susah nak carik jantan ada akal sekarang nie...yg nie pun carik lama sgt baru ke temu ....

mungkin kalo ada org masih teringin pun, just to be together masa tua...bukan ...

misy · Post time 29-1-2008 08:27 AM

whateverrla ....if u'r an adult with from chromosome XY u'll know it...unless u're XX, or XXY

[ Last edited by misy at 29-1-2008 08:36 AM ]

blackmore · Post time 29-1-2008 08:56 AM

...yang dah pergi...tetap akan pergi...takkan dapat kita cari pengganti yang 100% serupa...takkan ada dua tiga nya...

...yang tinggal plak kenalah meneruskan perjalanan hidup mereka...with or without someone else...

...which kind of life yang kita nak pilih terserah pada kita...kalau kita rasa kita bley hidup tanpa teman tidur...then...by all means...ceriakan hidup kita ngan anak2 dan kerjaya kita...

...but kalau kita nie jenis yang "i dont want to sleep alone"...then...cariklah pengganti...

...yang penting...kita kena sedar...pasangan baru kita nie nanti is another unik individual...yang akan mempunyai sifat dan sikap yang berlainan daripada si arwah...dan pasangan baru kita nie tak mungkin akan dapat menggantikan or take over his place...dan kita jugak kena sedar that we should never compare him ngan arwah suami kita...not fair to himlah...

...so...it is totally like a new game...like u get another shot in life...sounds interesting??...to some yes...but to some...it sounds terrifying also...

...kalau aku...*batuk* *batuk*...aku akan kawin lagik kalau ada yang sudilah... ...hell...why not??...afterall..im one of those yang dont like to sleep alone...dan ngan adanya suami baru...no more lonely nites for me....

...ps...siot jer...kalaulah laki aku baca nie...mampuih aku....

manakautau · Post time 29-1-2008 08:57 AM

Originally posted by Penulis at 12-12-2007 11:30 PM
Aduh... susah nak jawab soalan nie. I cannot imagine loosing my wife... I guess if that happens, I will be devastated and I will miss her very much.

But to answer your question, I don't think I will go around looking for her replacement. I think I akan live by myself taking after the kids.

But one can never predict the future. Mungkin I akan bertemu dengan seorang one day, who knows. But two things I definitely know are that: I won't purposely go looking/searching/finding for this person and whoever she may be, she can never replace my wife.

Tidak ada yg kekal didunia ini...Konsep ini sudah seharusnya berada dalam diri kita jadik tak timbul soal "tak dapat bayangkan jika isteri/somi kita pergi dulu sebelum kita"

I am not comfortable with the term replacement being used here. If we so decide to get married again, I strongly believed that it is on the pretext that we want continuity in someone to provide dat role of a mother to our kids and also a partner in companionship and also sexual needs of diri kita sendiri.

No one can ever replaced anyone for that matter, not only just our life partner who is gone. You sounded rather defensive when you put your thots by saying that you will not be the one going out looking for someone to fill the void in your life now. But to me, of course you don't have to be desperado, but never deprived yourself and your kids of that new someone to play the role as I have mentioned aboved. Yang pergi pasti tidak akan kembali, tapi yg hidup perlu terus menjalani kehidupan, seperti biasa.

Mindset dalam masyarakat harini ialah, kalau pasangan baru bepemergian , kalau lah nak kawen lagik tu pun...jgnlah cepat sangat...tunggulah kurang2 pun sampai kubur si arwah kering...........All this thots lah yg kadang kala tu menyimpitkan pengertian agama itu yg sebenar.........WALLAHHUAKLAM.