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 Author| Post time 10-4-2018 01:11 PM | Show all posts
Edited by anyclassything at 10-4-2018 12:14 PM
thEXplOrer replied at 9-4-2018 04:53 PM
Kesian ko dik..xpe..amek mase dulu.. xpelah kalo xde org faham..akak tau last2 ko akan jumpe gak d ...



betul tu kak.

accident ni trauma dia lain mcm jgk.
apa lg yg teruk mcm akak kena tu, kena hempap pokok. Ya allah I can't even imagine.

I accident dulu masa tu birthday I. kira accident tu my hadiah birthday
Tu pun tak berapa teruk sbb I jenis bila accident, I aware, I x tutup mata. So I still bole pikir nak elak or menyusur ke tepi jalan. Tp kereta satu tu teruk sebab dia langgar 3 batang pokok and the pokok mmg crashed habis, tp by the grace of God that negro ok je.

After that the nigga gang dtg maki2 I duk menggigil tepi jln. The driver himself ok je, geng2 dia lebih2 dtg maki depan muka I. Gigil I situ huhu

Kereta I plak ok, boleh jalan tp remuk sebelah driver. After accident tu pon I dah start jd blank gak. Even kereta tu pon I xrepair sampai skrg. Macam I ckp I simply don't care. Bukan sebab I takde duit nak repair all this while, it just I mcm. Entah. I x kisah kereta tu buruk ke cacat ke apa. Yg penting boleh guna. Kesian gak kereta tu tp everytime I pikir nak repair kecacatan dia tu I mcm tangguh or simply dont care. Mcm biar la. It's not necessary. Gitu la I pikir skrg ni, semua benda cam tak penting.


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 Author| Post time 10-4-2018 01:21 PM | Show all posts
zaza201516 replied at 10-4-2018 08:05 AM
Boleh try this online test utk tgk are u just stress, anxious or depressed. Or semua sekali

http ...

betul gak sbenarnya.

tgk movie ni one of the escape sebab I boleh spend my time alone and sometimes ada lesson yg boleh buat kita pikir and reflect diri sendiri. Tp kdg2 too many movies buat I muak gak plus movies tak menepati expectation.

Thank you for the link,
I baru je took DASS21 test and
the result is kinda scares me actually.

Phewwwwwwwwww
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 Author| Post time 10-4-2018 01:29 PM | Show all posts
Knowlee replied at 10-4-2018 10:49 AM
Down jugak. Down sbb kerja, suka org tp tepuk sebelah tangan, bos hauk, duduk rumah sewa dgn house ...



Betul easier said than done, org suka ckp pls be grateful. At least you ada keje, at least you ada mak bapak, at least you mcm ni mcm tu bla bla bla and so on. Yes true that, tp diff people struggle with diff issues, and diff people are blessed with diff things.

When it comes to me right now, I bukan x syukur with what I have. Skrg ni I nak re-program my brain to improve myself. I tak nak stuck at the same phase and feel this way forever. I nak really make peace with my life. With what I have right now, yes I'm grateful.. Ramai lg yg less fortunate, tp yes maybe dorg ada some blessings yg I sendiri takde.

Tp I need some motivation/strenght to look forward, and do better than today instead redha je apa2 without putting effort then pikir nak berubah.. So one of the way maybe talking out about this thing with strangers or some random people yg out of my circle.

Btw semalam I dah make a little progress by paksa diri I untuk keluar and be a bit productive.
I malas and mmg x semangat tp I just keep myself going for the sake of sape lg nak push myself selain I kan.


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Post time 10-4-2018 03:26 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 10-4-2018 01:29 PM
Betul easier said than done, org suka ckp pls be grateful. At least you ada keje, at least you ...

Ya, maybe u need something to trigger u to move forward. But you haven't found that something. I have been in the same situation, so I understand very well. In fact, sekarang pun kadang2 ada rasa mcm tu jugak. I doa banyak2, solat sunat, baca Quran, zikir. Kadang2 tu menangis sampai teresak esak waktu doa. Sebab sometimes rasa buntu. Kenapa mcm ni, kenapa mcm tu.

So, yeah, go to a counsellor because insya Allah it will help u a bit.
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Post time 10-4-2018 04:50 PM | Show all posts
pelik gak prangai exbf u tuh..my bf plak mcm lg suka pentingkan kawan2 dia tp kalau i dia nak control semua xbleyh i ok je tp dia bley i xblh plak kan,,umo dia brp? i umo 23 my bf 26
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Post time 10-4-2018 08:31 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Cube tgk movie yg boleh bg motivation tt. Contoh movie cast away, life of pi, street cat name bob, himalaya, a long way home, xpon try baca buku. Hari tu mase aku down patah kaki aku bace buku a fort of 9 towers, sedih pulakk
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Post time 11-4-2018 10:58 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
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Post time 11-4-2018 01:46 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Hi tt, jom kite g travel. For started kite g negara jiran. I plan nk buat backpacker sbb i xpnh backpack by solo lg. Hehehe.
Sama la kite. Sometimes i feel lost n demotivate. Bila tiap kali rs mcm tu, i akan baca or tgk bnda yg blh kembalikan motivasi diri i. After that, i kembali bersemangat. I ni duk sorg jer kt umah. Blk jer dr keje terus lepak kt sofa dan hadap hp. Kdg smpai tetido smpai pagi.
Hujung mgu plk, kdg2 g jogging or hiking dgn bdk opis. Kdg2 lpak jer kt umah. Most of times i buat aktiviti sorg2 jer.
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 Author| Post time 11-4-2018 01:55 PM | Show all posts
bunga.lily replied at 11-4-2018 01:46 PM
Hi tt, jom kite g travel. For started kite g negara jiran. I plan nk buat backpacker sbb i xpnh back ...

Hello cik lili, mari lah kita hehe
Btw I pernah solo travel, I pegi India sorg2.
Dulu plan ada kawan nak ikut tp then, cancel last minute.

Mula2 I mcm pikir should I go, or shouldn't I
Pastu cam biasa I yolo kan aje

Sampai la I 5 hari travel solo hehehe

Thank God I x cancel pegi.

Btw negara jiran mana u dah pegi? I setakat ni baru
thailand, indonesia, myanmar.. singapore n brunei tu cam xkira la sbb I cam gi kejap je. hehehe


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 Author| Post time 11-4-2018 01:56 PM | Show all posts

Thanks Kaka!

I suka layan gak motivational video ni..

Sometimes I jd semangat,
sometimes I rasa mcm eh bullshit semua ni selling words. hahahaha
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Post time 11-4-2018 02:01 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 11-4-2018 01:56 PM
Thanks Kaka!

I suka layan gak motivational video ni..

Welcome. ..how's your feeling today? ....ada improvement tak. ..ka masih lagi serupa waktu mula2 buka thread ni.....kalau boleh buangkan segala aura negatif dalam diri kita tu.....
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 Author| Post time 11-4-2018 02:03 PM | Show all posts
netto_ replied at 10-4-2018 08:31 PM
Cube tgk movie yg boleh bg motivation tt. Contoh movie cast away, life of pi, street cat name bob, h ...

Okay netto. I dah tgk life of pi tu, bg I best! deep. street cat name bob tu belum lg

Tu antara yg I biasa buat jugak, antara movie yg memberi kesan emotionally pada I(saje nak share):


Mula2 I thought ni typical love story. I was wrong. Banyak gak life lesson dlm tu, mcm it taught us betapa keciknya sbenarnya masalah kita. Ada yg yg deal with bigger problem and have no choice, so mcm kita boleh stop being bitter about life no matter what. Plus I can relate myself dgn heroin tu, bukan sebab lawa haha sebab watak dia dlm tu nak bitter with everything happen and problems dia. This movie pun sampaikan message love yourself and only then you can make peace with your life.

Tapi tu lah, masalahnya masa tgk movie je terkesan. Sehari dua lepas tu lupa ingatan balik and continue jadi bitter hehehe

banyak lg movie tp nanti slowly I share apa yg best

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 Author| Post time 11-4-2018 02:11 PM | Show all posts
noor2 replied at 11-4-2018 02:01 PM
Welcome. ..how's your feeling today? ....ada improvement tak. ..ka masih lagi serupa waktu mula2 b ...

so far...

Maybe ada a little progress. Even kecik pon boleh la kot.

I dah start reply to whatsapp (certain people)
I paksa diri pegi jogging even 3 km je. Selalu I mampu 7km or 8 km

Pastu, smlm kwn I call ajak teman dia pergi vet. Sebab dia nak bawak anak bulus dia 3 ekor dia cakap susah so he needs my help.
I malas sebenarnya kalau ikut hati suruh je dia g sendiri tp kesian pulak, so I ikut je la.

Pegi vet main2 kucing, doctor sana pun hensem gak orgnya. Cuci mata jap tp I rasa dia gay so no point yah i terus move on la lepas tu.
then smlm keluar dr gua, sembang jap ngan kawan I and dia belanja I chicken chop for temankan dia.

So yah, nothing much interesting but so far ok.
I dah start keluar dr kepompong

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Post time 11-4-2018 02:25 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 11-4-2018 01:55 PM
Hello cik lili, mari lah kita hehe
Btw I pernah solo travel, I pegi India sorg2.
Dulu plan ada k ...

G indonesia jer last year tu pun dgn famili. I nk g thailand jer. Nk try dl. After that, baru g jauh skit bila dh ada keberanian. Hehehe
Jom2.... Kite enjoy our life as we only have one.
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Post time 11-4-2018 02:35 PM | Show all posts
Better pergi kaunseling sis...
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Post time 11-4-2018 02:36 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I rs la kan, why kite rs mcm ni adalah sbb kite terlalu byk fikir. Terlalu overthinking. Too worried for nothing. Selalu care what other people thinking about us. Always make comparison with other.  Ni merujuk kt diri i la
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Post time 11-4-2018 02:50 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 11-4-2018 02:11 PM
so far...

Maybe ada a little progress. Even kecik pon boleh la kot.


Ok...good progress. ...hanya kita boleh mengubah diri kita. ....hey. ...takkan gay kut doktor tu ..jangan cepat menilai. ...cubalah rajin bawa anak bulus ke situ.... mana tahu boleh ngam dengan doktor tu....
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Post time 12-4-2018 02:35 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
hporphic replied at 9-4-2018 08:46 PM
Cane u bley move on sis? I ni pon dah naek bosan nk lyn bf i ni tp i xtaw if dia ni narcissist ke x  ...

Kalau jenis suka lenyap lepas tu datang balik maknanya dia ada perempuan lain
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Post time 13-4-2018 04:39 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anyclassything replied at 10-4-2018 01:11 PM
betul tu kak.

accident ni trauma dia lain mcm jgk.

Hai dik tt..ok ke ari ni..cam dah banyak progress je kan..bagus la tu..akak ni bz ngan sukan nih..rentung 1 badan..hehe..pelan2 keluar dari cengkerang ye..akak rase kdg2 akak ni cam siput tau..sket2 nak sembunyi je..tt jangan jadi siput gak..
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Post time 13-4-2018 07:07 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
skrg ni i dah jangkittt anti social huwaaaaa
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