Apa yg anda pelajari hari ini?

nhafizaj

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 22-5-2007 05:14 AM



Lancar la ooii....

Tak lancar dia tak boleh forum kar sini lar.........

betul la tu..

nhafizaj

Originally posted by indah1285 at 21-5-2007 11:20 PM
paper ahad yg tak sempat kuhabiskan, kusambung pembacaannya hari ini...

pd ruangan di celah2 kehidupan... hatiku tersentuh bila membaca luahan si ibu yg terpaksa tinggal di rmh anak sendiri di ...

-itulah dugaan daripada Allah kepada ibu itu sebagai sebahagian daripada perjalanan hidupnya

-mungkin selama ini anak itu hanya ditekankan pendidikan duniawi tanpa diseimbangkan dengan pendidikan ukhrawi

-salah satu tanda akhir zaman; si ibu melahirkan tuannya

blastoff

Originally posted by indah1285 at 21-5-2007 11:20 PM
adakah kejayaan anak ke menara gading menjadi kejayaan ibu juga...? tdk utk ibu ni...
anaknya menjadi pelupa dgn jasa ibu sendiri.. luahan akhir si ibu yg menjadikan aku mendapat pelajaran hari ini...
.. dia berfikir hr2 tuanya akan dibekal dgn ibadah kpd Tuhan krn byk sembahyangnya yg tpaksa diqadho' krn meninggalkannya semasa muda krn btungkus lumus dgn kerja demi menyara anak.. dan semua ini tinggal mimpi krn hr2 tuanya dihabiskan dgn menjaga cucu2 dan memasak utk anak menantu yg bkerja..

Most malaysian parents are so proud of their children and when they chit chat with others they like to mention about their success like "anak aku ni dah jadi doctor"  "anak aku ni dah masuk U dan jadi orang berguna" but the son or daughter that works as toilet cleaner/garbage collector is hardly mentioned , such parents are really mata duitan   . Most of the parents expect their children to support them financially and emotionally when the parents reach old age.  But the parents out of resting their hope so much on their kids' shoulder tend to just spend their time giving in to the children (spoiling is more like it ) needs and desire and forgetting the children and their own (the parents) spiritual needs . So when the children grow up and become selfish (lack moral value due to lack spiritual guidance ) and leave the parents alone who are old and weak to fend for themselves then the parents can blame no one but themselves even though the children who abandon their parents will receive God's wrath in the hereafter but the parents also will definitely receive God's wrath for not fulfilling their responsibility as parents for ignoring the children and their own spiritual needs , unless they all repent and make amend then they will be safe in the hereafter .
That is why we must rely on God alone for our future in this world and in the hereafter because only God can help us and make our life easy , our children can't do that for us.

[ Last edited by  blastoff at 22-5-2007 08:42 AM ]

indah1285

yup.. satu petanda akhir zaman...

indah1285

i couldn't agree more...

nhafizaj

Originally posted by blastoff at 22-5-2007 08:29 AM


Most malaysian parents are so proud of their children and when they chit chat with others they like to mention about their success like "anak aku ni dah jadi doctor"  "anak aku ...

so blastoff, how do u treat ur parents??

Agul

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 22-5-2007 05:14 AM



Lancar la ooii....

Tak lancar dia tak boleh forum kar sini lar.........

Hehehe... logik, logik...

Agul

Sucking up to their children...

canna

So much energy is wasted when we try to win an argument, insist on proving our point, or try to convince the other person we are right. And when energy is depleted in this way, we certainly are not happy.

Today, I will stop and ask.."How important is it ?"
When i find myself defending or trying to prove my point, I am in the process of
learning to trust my own truth.

When it feels right inside, I am seeing that it is all I need.

my-alja

belajar kalo terantuk....
ingatkan selalu diri nie, jgn mudah percaya dgn perwatakan seorang...
tapi kat situ gaklah yg selalu terantuk....

my-alja

tak pernah terfikir kita selalu betul selagi org tak boleh membuktikan kita salah...jadi belajarlah, manusia nie ada byk perspektif dlm hidup.....ikut dia lahh...

Agul

Always look for the truth, regardless of what may be apparent from the outside...

canna

All that has happened b4 this very second is past. We have absolutely no control over it.
All the thinking and praying in the world will not change it.

What is important is that we know right now that yesterday has no power over us any longer. Let yesterday serve as a light on all the lessons we no longer have to go through again.

I am at choice today. I accept responsibility of my life with a new sense of maturity, confidence and even excitement.

wisteria

i possess (spelling) no thing

Agul

What do you mean?

find my own happiness whatever it takes..

evita_ina

waktu2 yg pergi ..mengapa waktu itu terpahat di kotak memori..
mengapa takdir tidak memadamkn sgala ingatan jika smua itu menimbulkn rasa sakit dihati..?

mungkin suatu hari nanti..prasaan dlm waktu2 yg telah pergi itu akan kembali..kerana takdir yg menetapkn waktu itu..

dutchy

mengapa senang utk mengakhiri sesuatu yg payah utk mendapatkan nya, mana pergi kemanisan dulu, jika yg ada ini hanya sandiwara?

dutchy

jati diri itu penting....tp bagaimana kita nak mengenali jati diri?

seribulan

Originally posted by dutchy at 4-6-2007 12:54 AM
jati diri itu penting....tp bagaimana kita nak mengenali jati diri?

Know ur strength n ur weaknesses...improve them...