Cinta tidak kesampaian..Terkubur bersama jasad

stingershrewd · Post time 30-11-2018 03:16 PM

farlis replied at 28-11-2018 11:02 AM
Yup. Nothing matters. Cuma nk luahkan ja. Now, i feel much better.

Dah boleh tutup thread since you feel much better now....unless kau memang nak lebarkan lagi unsur fitnah dan pengaiban?

rospinki · Post time 30-11-2018 04:15 PM

cash dpt tengok hang disemelih over and over again

p/s

@nobitot!

baru aku igt hang kata pasal reta arwah..aku mimpi psal acuan bingka kemboja tu..ahaa! oiiii reta tu dh lama arwah suh aku amik. lain2 smua kena curik dek jiran lama. penutup acuan tu pun kena curik..paling aku geram batu giling zaman batu arwah pun org curik. lahanat punya jiran.

eh nobitot dah arwah jugak

wanzhm93 · Post time 30-11-2018 04:29 PM

Edited by wanzhm93 at 30-11-2018 04:30 PM

fuuh habis baca...
Walaupun panjang tapi mudah difahami...
Mencintai tak semestinya memiliki...
Ketentuan & suratan takdir oleh Nya...
Life must go ON

farlis · Post time 30-11-2018 05:41 PM

wanzhm93 replied at 30-11-2018 04:29 PM
fuuh habis baca...
Walaupun panjang tapi mudah difahami...
Mencintai tak semestinya memiliki... ...

Yup.. Byk benda dpn yg i nmpk dpn mata ni haa.. Memiliki pun x semestinya dicintaiiiii..
Apa pun yes.. Life must go on...

farlis · Post time 30-11-2018 05:43 PM

kepochi26 replied at 30-11-2018 02:57 PM
wife instinct is always right

Yes..But sometimes x jugak kan.
Just how you handle your instinct tu jaaa kena pndi

terma2nkondisi2 · Post time 5-12-2018 12:18 AM

communication breakdown

bahaya.... sikit2 disembunyikan, lama2 mendatangkan bencana

Cutedebok · Post time 20-12-2018 08:30 PM

Letting go will make ur life easier and happier

Mrperfect2 · Post time 25-12-2018 12:30 PM

God always has the best one for you
Has the solution for you every problem, relieving feeling for your sadness and happiness that waits for you

PuanNab · Post time 31-12-2018 07:33 AM

farlis replied at 30-11-2018 05:41 PM
Yup.. Byk benda dpn yg i nmpk dpn mata ni haa.. Memiliki pun x semestinya dicintaiiiii..
Apa pun ...

Exactly.... Tp mcm mana sis cope dgn situasi ni? Memiliki x bererti dicintai

Hati suami dkt org lain, jasad suami dkt kita.

Mcm kes saya skrg, my hb fell in love with one girl yg dia kenal for 4 month. Kekdahnya dia mmg keep in touch with her dlm 4 hari lepas tp semuanya terkantoi dgn saya.

Before that, mmg boleh nmpk bila hb bersama dgn saya, spending time together pun, mata dia mmg xnmpk cinta dkt sy. Lepas dh kantoi, bertambah la xnmpk.

So true pain is when the way my hb nak get close to that girl, dia aibkan saya mcm saya ni pemangsa dlm rmhtgga, sedangkan dia yg play that part.

I was shook and to be honest since that, hilang segala rasa utk hidup bersama.

I confront that girl nicely sbb bkn perangai i nk text skandals suami dlm keadaan marah2 maki2. Sbb before pun pernah ada isu skandals

Skrg ni yg perit, when that girl dh tau sikit perangai hb, dia mmg undur diri dan xboleh nk nego lgsung walaupun i pujuk dia utk terima hb. Boleh byg x isteri pjuk skandal suami utk terima suami. Smpai nmpk mcm i mendesak that girl pun ada. Sedangkan my hb mmg dh nmpk mcm org putus cinta.

start dh kantoi, saya terpaksa pujuk hb yg mmg exactly sedih putus cinta. Mata saya lihat dia murung lost that girl, telinga saya dgr memori indah mereka bersama.

Smpai that girl ckp, kalau dia di tempat saya pun, dia belum tentu kuat..

Tbh skrg i mmg dh xde plan for future with my hb. For 2019, i want to cure my sickness and get a job.

Not for create a new life with him.

Tp skrg i pulak stuck with him. Xboleh nk tinggal dia dlm keadaan hidup dia "musnah" mcm dia duk ckp. Sedangkan i said to him, your life is not destroyed yet. You dont lose anything yet. But he keep saying he lose everything etc.

Kekdahnya my hb rasa kesian dkt i sbb, masa dlu i perlukan dia dlm hidup i, dia buang i, dia hina i, dia buat mcm2 dkt i.

Since there i byk kali jatuh dan bangun sendiri, smpai skrg i tekad utk bangun and push myself harder to be strong. Without him. And alhamdulilah, i quite strong right now. Skrg apa2 plan pun, i mmg fikir dan buat utk diri sndri. Mmg nmpk mcm isteri yg rude, tp itulah yg terbaik sbb my hb pun gagal jdi suami. Dia dgn saya mcm mom and son bila i yg kena nurture and raise him to be a better man. I rasa exhausted sbb dia mmg susah nk dibentuk.

But on his side, bila dia jatuh, i always ada utk dia. Each time he falls. I give him encouragement and moral support. But this time, i do not because of love.

I just dont know berapa lama diri i akan ambik masa utk sembuh. Tbh, i want to divorce. Tp buat masa terdekat ni mmg xsesuai dgn keadaan dia mcm tu

I mmg xboleh lupa sgt2, a few days ago since dh terkantoi, my hb totally treat me and that girl as backup plan and second option. Which is kalau that girl terima lgi hb i, dia mmg akan let me go. Sbb katanya xnk seksa terus menerus life i.

But the big problem, that girl pun bijak, 1st dia xnk jdi org yg hancurkan rmhtgga org lain, 2nd as woman dia msti akan fikir jauh yg ada jaminan ke my hb akan treat her better, dia xnk terima nsib yg sma mcm sy. So she choose to walk away dan perkara tu buat saya rasa sedih ya amat sbbnya tiba2 dgn rejection from that girl, my hb mmg xleh terima kena reject, dia asyik ckp dgn confident yg that girl mmg totally purely 100% ly love him, but the truth is i can say girl tu pun msti xnk nseb dia mcm i nnti. Ofkos that girl cnta lgi dkt my hb, tp her brain must be bigger than her love towards my hb sbb tu sebelum dia dpt bala in future, baik dia tolak.

And yg i xleh terima, my hb refuse to let me go pulak. Mmg nmpk sgt i diperlakukan as trash. Pmpn tu dh xnk, dia xboleh nk lepaskan i pulak. Sedangkan dia mengaku sendiri dkt both of me and that girl, kalau mereka berdua unite, i dilepaskan.

Perasaan ni serius rasa mcm shit.

ana_una · Post time 31-12-2018 10:34 AM

PuanNab replied at 31-12-2018 07:33 AM
Exactly.... Tp mcm mana sis cope dgn situasi ni? Memiliki x bererti dicintai

Hati suami dkt org ...

haishhh...bertabahla puan... ai plak sakit hati bace.. tegarnya hati puan bila sanggup pujuk skandal asben tu.. if u cant beat them..join them..

tapi tolongla pikirkan jg hati puan tu.. dah klu org lain xbole jaga so jaga la hati sendiri.. bior la org kata selfish ke selprawn ke selsquid ke..

PuanNab · Post time 31-12-2018 10:53 AM

ana_una replied at 31-12-2018 10:34 AM
haishhh...bertabahla puan... ai plak sakit hati bace.. tegarnya hati puan bila sanggup pujuk skand ...

I pujuk sbb my hb nk sgt dkt dia even dia x request bnda tu. Tp tipu sgt kalau dia xnk that girl, sbb blkg dia simpan n bagi hope dkt that girl. Tp ofkos la pmpn, mana boleh thn kalau been hold on something yg xpasti. Dia sndri pun xrela berkongsi.

But for me personally, that girl pmpn yg baik. My hb yg salah sbb dia mmg dri awal tipu mcm2 dkt that girl termasuk status dia.

I anggap pertemuan mereka tu mmg takdir Allah jugak. Ada hikmah. By now hti mmg bru terluka, mmg xnmpk sbb under emotion. One fine day, bila dh tenang, pasti mata hati dpt lihat. But, tbh its not easy sebenarnya.

Rn i mmg fokus utk diri sendiri je. Bila dia xde rasa rilek je... Tenang..

farlis · Post time 31-12-2018 12:51 PM

PuanNab replied at 31-12-2018 07:33 AM
Exactly.... Tp mcm mana sis cope dgn situasi ni? Memiliki x bererti dicintai

Hati suami dkt org ...

Nmpk mcm sama, tp berbeza situasinya.. What makes me stronger here, coz i think dlm apa2 situasi pun, my hb will put his priority to me and kids. Bkn style dia utk memburuk2kan i pd gf dia. Semua tertutup rapat, smpi skandal2 dia xde bullet utk serang i. If my hubby is not around, i akan buat activity with my kids. I sll ckp, byk lg happiness keliling i. Satu kesalahan yg u dh buat, u contact perempuan tu. Scr x lgsg dia akan menampakkan yg u kalah. Watever hapoened between them, never interrupt, sbb pompuan2 mcm ni, once dia nmpk kita contact diorng, automatically, diorng akan rasa diorng menang. Esp kalau diorng ni mmg berniat utk pecah n hancurkan hub kita suami isteri.

In ur case, if i jd u, mybe i akan let him go. And don't bother or put rasa bersalah dlm diri u psl apa ygakan jd dlm hidup dia. Dia yg cari psl, and ada dia pikir psl u ke??

PuanNab · Post time 31-12-2018 01:33 PM

farlis replied at 31-12-2018 12:51 PM
Nmpk mcm sama, tp berbeza situasinya.. What makes me stronger here, coz i think dlm apa2 situasi p ...

Tp.. That girl seem nice to me... Sbb bgi i yg salah ialah my hb. Dia punca.

But ya, i will let him go. But not at this moment. Kena bagi masing2 cool down dulu

farlis · Post time 31-12-2018 02:08 PM

Edited by farlis at 31-12-2018 02:12 PM

PuanNab replied at 31-12-2018 01:33 PM
Tp.. That girl seem nice to me... Sbb bgi i yg salah ialah my hb. Dia punca.

But ya, i will let ...

Wish u good luck nab. I org luar, dunno the real situation. Lg 1, i pun if org baik dgn i, i blh baik dgn org. May Allah guide u for the best in your life. Who knows, ur hb blh berubah kan. Sbb Allah yg pegang hati kita..

Betul nab kita, tenang2 kan hati dulu, tgh serabut ni x blh pikir rasional. Bila hati tenang, u akan nmpk jln utk setel prob

BT10 · Post time 31-12-2018 04:22 PM

baru faham maksud bercinta tidak semestinya memiliki ! Fuhh...

farlis · Post time 31-12-2018 04:31 PM

Dlm kes yg i ceritakan ni, yg bercinta x semestinya memiliki tu merujuk pd arwah. Dia mungkin ada rasa "cinta" pd hubby i, tapi tidak dpt memiliki. Ini slps i refer pd poem2 nukilan dia