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Only the strong? Or is it only the lonely?

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 Author| Post time 15-1-2017 06:40 AM | Show all posts
Elle_mujigae replied at 14-1-2017 10:37 PM
To appear weak,we need to be strong...

Elaborate please, dear, what does that entails of
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Post time 19-1-2017 03:47 PM | Show all posts
seribulan replied at 15-1-2017 06:40 AM
Elaborate please, dear, what does that entails of

hehe kita lomah bab elaborate elaborate ni..but I try..

ayat kita di atas dari pandangan sebagai seorang wanita.. di zaman kini kan popular terma seperti wonder mom, superwoman, girl power...di mana wanita boleh berdiri sama tinggi, dan duduk sama rendah dgn kaum lelaki...apa yg lelaki buat kita pun boleh buat gitu... sedangkan realitinya wanita dan lelaki ni biologi dan fisiologinya berlainan so definisi 'strong' utk benda yg berlainan mestilah tidak sama kan... tapi apa yg dikatakan strong utk lelaki disamakan juga dgn wanita..  so bila wanita ni tidak strong seperti lelaki, dikatanya kita lemah, nanti kena buli....... so kita pun try hide all the 'weakness' underneath and display strong character instead to protect our ownself,to gain respect from society..last2 hilang sifat kewanitaan itu dan kita pun end up jadi tak happy sebab melawan fitrah diri..  Jadi untuk seorang wanita itu menzahirkan sifat2 kewanitaannya yg nampak lemah (jika diikut definisi kuat-lemah bagi seorang lelaki),  wanita itu mestilah mempunyai jati diri kewanitaan yg kuat dlm diri utk menzahirkannya.. strong minded,tak kisah orang nak cakap apa sebab dia ada pegangan yg kuat bahawa ini diri dia yg sebenar... thus the sentence : to appear weak, we(woman) need to be strong.

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Post time 4-2-2017 10:12 PM | Show all posts
simplelife replied at 24-11-2005 11:27 PM
Berdikari...memang manusia perlu berdikari untuk menjadi seorang insan yang mampu membela diri sendi ...

kena tunjuk kuat walaupun tak kuat

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Post time 4-2-2017 10:18 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Standing alone doesn't mean i am alone,
It means i'm strong enough to handle all things by myself.

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Post time 4-2-2017 10:20 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
What do u think..if one person eats alone at the restaurant or cafe? Is it the person lonely or is it the person is strong enough to eat by themself there?

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Post time 5-2-2017 12:05 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
With strong words only people will respect us

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Post time 5-2-2017 12:58 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
seribulan replied at 24-11-2005 12:11 PM
慖t is only weak people who are dependent on others. One of the reasons why we are sent to this worl ...

Dont lean on others..u dont need to..u were born with 2 feets for a reason

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 Author| Post time 5-2-2017 04:29 AM | Show all posts
caramel_cloud9 replied at 4-2-2017 09:20 PM
What do u think..if one person eats alone at the restaurant or cafe? Is it the person lonely or is i ...

Ada topik ni kat CARI...ni artikelnya...

Mesti anda pernah dengar unkapan ‘forever alone’. Ini selalu ditujukan kepada mereka yang suka bersendirian dan tiada teman.

Sudah menjadi lumrah di Malaysia ini untuk keluar beramai-ramai bersama teman-teman dan juga makan bersama keluarga untuk menghabiskan masa bersama.

Bagaimanapun, dalam satu kajian yang dibuat oleh OpenTable, kini lebih ramai suka makan sendirian.

Sebuah tempahan restoran atas talian mendakwa bilangan orang yang menempah makan malam untuk seorang sudah meningkat.

Jika dibandingkan sepanjang 2 tahun kebelakangan ini, telah berlaku peningkatan sebanyak 62 peratus.

Didapati mereka yang makan seorang diri ini tidak lagi menghiraukan pandangan orang lain.

Kini mereka lebih selesa begini kerana punyai lebih masa untuk diri sendiri dan bebas membuat pilihan makanan.

Ketua Pegawai Makanan OpenTable, Caroline Potter mendakwa bahawa makan seorang diri ini sudah menjadi sangat popular di kota metropolitan seperti di Dallas, Miami, New York, Las Vegas, Chicago dan Philadelphia.

“Makan secara solo ini adalah seperti membelanjai diri sendiri di setiap suapan yang diambil. Restoran juga selalunya mengalu-alukan kedatangan pelanggan sebegini.

“Selain itu, mereka yang makan secara solo ini juga punyai peluang untuk datang ke restoran ternama dan ia juga sudah menjadi hobi sesetengah orang,”

Itulah laporan tentang kajian dari openTable. -PENMERAHDOTCOM


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Post time 5-2-2017 05:13 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
seribulan replied at 5-2-2017 04:29 AM
Ada topik ni kat CARI...ni artikelnya...

Mesti anda pernah dengar unkapan ‘forever alone’. In ...

Kdg2 i suke alone time. Mkn ke minum ke. People mau think im pathetic tp so what? We need that alone time.

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Post time 5-2-2017 05:15 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
seribulan replied at 5-2-2017 04:29 AM
Ada topik ni kat CARI...ni artikelnya...

Mesti anda pernah dengar unkapan ‘forever alone’. In ...

Wise man says..u call it being alone..i call it enjoying my own company  

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Post time 5-2-2017 10:31 AM | Show all posts
Nothing in my life has come easy. But I am stronger because of it and I appreciate everything!
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Post time 5-2-2017 10:33 AM | Show all posts
“If you feel lost, disappointed, hesitant, or weak, return to yourself, to who you are, here and now and when you get there, you will discover yourself, like a lotus flower in full bloom, even in a muddy pond, beautiful and strong.”

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Post time 5-2-2017 12:01 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kita sbnrnya tidak pernah keseorangan didalam dunia nie..

Kerana Allah s.w.t sentiasa ada bersama2 dengan kita..

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Post time 5-2-2017 09:00 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
You don't have to be lonely ,make friends when you ready..
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Post time 6-2-2017 01:21 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
seribulan replied at 5-2-2017 04:29 AM
Ada topik ni kat CARI...ni artikelnya...

Mesti anda pernah dengar unkapan ‘forever alone’. In ...

Maybe they choose the word ' Forever Alone,' untuk menyatakan tidak Ada buruknya walau kitakan bersendirian selamanya.

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Post time 7-3-2017 09:17 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
seribulan replied at 24-11-2005 12:11 PM
慖t is only weak people who are dependent on others. One of the reasons why we are sent to this worl ...

One of the reasons we meet people is that God sent us to him/her...to help or be helped

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Post time 8-3-2017 05:45 PM | Show all posts
seribulan replied at 5-2-2017 04:29 AM
Ada topik ni kat CARI...ni artikelnya...

Mesti anda pernah dengar unkapan ‘forever alone’. In ...

Tgk keadaan jugak. Bila sorang2 tu segala urusan akan berjalan dengan cepat dan bila salah kita ada masa untuk renung n betulkan kesalahan sendiri xdelah nk slhkn org lain pulak kn. Kalau bersama2 pun bess jugak. Contohnya mcm travel, buat aktiviti dan bila kita stuck akan ada kwn2 yang membantu. Apa2 pun berbalik kepada siapa kwn yg kita pilih.

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Post time 9-3-2017 11:18 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
How strong for someone to appear weak? And how strong for us to be solely dependent on ourselves? How strong for us to measure our strength? These are questions that we need to ask ourselves in order to know that it is okay to be on our own without any aid in facing the odds.

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Post time 10-3-2017 10:36 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Strength is a mindset.

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Post time 14-3-2017 03:55 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
We can't be alone but we will if we don't have a choice ..

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