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Originally posted by sarahmirza at 31-7-2007 05:55 PM 
Saya ada beberapa orang kawan yang ada status janda. Dari janda tak ada anak sampai ke janda anak 2. Tak kisahlah status apapun, pada saya tak ada bezanya sebab mereka dapat title janda pun sebab ...
tu lah sara... mcm anne kata it's just a title...
and tak semua janda tu hampeh |
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Dear_anne This user has been deleted
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Originally posted by supermod at 1-8-2007 09:23 AM
Kena tanya melahjanda bab-bab ni...
Anyway, anne ni janda ke 
hehhe....tak lah.... i have a friend she is janda....
mcm emo kata.... kat mana dia pergi org mesti ckp2 pasal dia...
anak 1 dah... but she's still young....
dia lah ajar anne forum ni....
may be sebb dia lawa berkerjayaa... ada duit sikit so org ingat dia mcm2...
but she's purely a nice woman...
sorg yg tabah and never once i heard her talk bad about her ex husband....
wpun everybody know what her husband did
but to her he is still a father to her little girl.... |
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bonda gua citer la...dedolu susah nak jumpa janda...coz orang dedolu susah nak diceraikan atau minta cerai....so bila ada satu janda kat kampung tu kira famous giler la...and mostly yang bergebang kat kedai kopi atau lepak ngeteh ni orang lelaki...so lelaki yang duda tu taakan nak mengaku yang perceraian itu berpunca dari dirinya...dia akan tuduh memacam about janda dia....so orang lelaki lain akan melopong la dengau..eeeeeeeee...
lelaki melopong : "jahat tul janda si polan tu...patutla laki dia ceraikan dia"
lelaki-lelaki yang melopong tadi akan balik rumah bercerita pulak ngan isteri dedeme....
lelaki melopong : "kome maknye jangan buat lagu tu....haa sekarang nengok dah kena cerai...tak ke susah"
sang isteri sesama sang isteri semasa beli sayur & ikan..."issh..isssh..u tau tak kenape si polan tu diceraikan...laki I citer....pssst...pssst...psstt"
so alkisahnya....buruk la jadinya nama si janda tadi...ke sana ke sini jenjalan, tengok semua orang keliling berbisik...
pastu...jand ni dah tak de laki kenalah bekerja...kalau dah bekerja kena la pakai cecantik....compare ngan sang isteri yang tak bekerja jadi surirumahtangga...pemakain mereka boleh kira up sikit la....so nampak bergaya jer....
orang kampung..."issh..ishh..ishhh....semenjak jadi janda ken main lagi si polan tu bergaya sakan....jaja body satu kampung atau satu pekan"
orang kampung yang lain pulak..."aah la dedolu tak de pun berpakaian macam tu...ni mesti nak carik laki ni".....
lelaki melopong lak..."uissh....belum habis edah dah bergaya ken main lagi....
lelaki melopong II..."ish masih bergetah lagi janda si polan ni....ko ingat dia layan tak aku ni".....
lelaki melopong III...."pandai tul bergaya si polan ni walaupun dah janda"...tak macam isteri aku....balik-balik kain batik, baju kedah...muka pulak comot ngan bedak sejuk"......
so janda ni nak pi kerja kena lah naik bas dan berjalan ke stesen bas melintasi warung kopi tempat lelaki-lelaki melopong tu ngeteh....so bila dah lalu depan mesti la terpandang mereka....dah tu lelaki-lelaki melopong tu senyum...taakan janda ni nak menyombong lak...kena la senyum balik....sekampung kan....
sang isteri yang berbasikal di tepi perhentian bas...."ish...ish...ish...ken main lagi senyum melebor kat suami aku...dah tau diri tu janda...janganlah buat orang lain jadi jugak".....
begitu la alkisahnya di satu masa dedolu...makanya terciptalah "memanglah janda"....
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Dear_anne This user has been deleted
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Originally posted by faraway at 1-8-2007 09:44 AM
for me janda ke apa.. tak ambil pot sebab tak ambil kisah..
mereka konpem manusia jugak 
kita mmg tak amik pot but
what i;m trying to say here is why people
with the milinium mentality have to be
in such way....
pernah tak kita try to ware their shoes...
be in their position for once...
the divorce has hurt them so much i believed
with all the says make them even hurt..... |
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Dear_anne This user has been deleted
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pada mulanya aku tak ambil tahu le dgn gelaran mak jan nie ....pada aku dah takdir dia jd macam tu...dia tetap manusia yg ada salah silap..tapi..... bila aku dah terkena ...dan terasa kat hati nie ....rasa nya ada betul ape yg org kata mmg le mak jan mcm tu .... |
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Reply #24 cantthinkofany's post
 hahahahah setuju sangat.........best gak analogy ni
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Originally posted by Dear_anne at 31-7-2007 08:54 PM 
kita mmg tak amik pot but
what i;m trying to say here is why people
with the milinium mentality have to be
in such way....
pernah tak kita try to ware their shoes...
be in their pos ...
easy, the way kita berfikir antara satu sebab ..
satu lagi bila kita jenis memang suka labelkan orang then
memang most of the time kita fikir negative tentang orang..
so sama cam kata pasal janda ke apa..
but kenapa nak kata org tu janda ke tidak bebukan.. this status
boleh jadi kat sesiapa jua kalau bukan cerai hidup cerai mati.. |
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Originally posted by faraway at 1-8-2007 10:23 AM
easy, the way kita berfikir antara satu sebab ..
satu lagi bila kita jenis memang suka labelkan orang then
memang most of the time kita fikir negative tentang orang..
so sama cam kata pasa ...
betul tu...
kdg2 kita yg selalu buruk sangka kat orang..
nak kata janda tak baik.....anak dara...isteri orang pun bukan semuanya baik...
ada gak yang perangai ala2 janda tak baik yg derang lebelkan tu... |
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Originally posted by sarahmirza at 31-7-2007 05:55 PM
mereka dapat title janda pun sebab tak mahu terus menerus diperbodohkan lelaki durjana.
What's with this statement dear????????
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Originally posted by Dear_anne at 31-7-2007 04:38 PM
kenapa di pandang serong....
kenapa selalu dicemuh...
semua janda ni jahat ke....
gatalke....
it's just a title.... so what....
apa u all rasa... kenapa org selalu buat remark....
"mmg lah ...
Go out there and see the world..... and you will notice that as long as you are stuck here in this board, your perception of this status quo will remain........
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ermm janda hanya gelaran sahaja...
so pedulikan apa kata org...
kalau nak ambik hati kata2 org sekeliling sampai bebila kita hidup dalam kesedihan...
hati pun dah lama hancus berkecai... |
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Dear_anne This user has been deleted
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Originally posted by manakautau at 1-8-2007 11:01 AM
Go out there and see the world..... and you will notice that as long as you are stuck here in this board, your perception of this status quo will remain........
i'm talking base on what i've seen
but stilll it depend on experience
may my experience with good one that has been treated bad
may be urs different....
the bottom line.... why judge...
and why label every one the same...
mcm nina kata... dulu we said lelaki semua buaya....
sebb ada beberapa ppun yg terkena.........
but stilll ada gak lelaki yg baik...let be 1 : 10000
so we women started to say... lelaki mmg buaya...
generalise the situasion
again my 2 cent |
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Originally posted by Dear_anne at 1-8-2007 11:23 AM
i'm talking base on what i've seen
but stilll it depend on experience
may my experience with good one that has been treated bad
may be urs different....
the bottom line.... why judge ...
Believe you me....the world is changing drastically out there........so are we............let's move on..........
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We can only change our mentality first. We can't change other people's.
Therefore, I believe we cannot judge people by their title, janda ke, anak dara, isteri org ke..
I takde kawan divorcee, widower ada a few.
But I have friends yg masa jadi janda, ramai la laki yg gatal mengendeng2..ingat dia desperate..come on la..org yg asas agama nya kukuh, insyaallah akhlak terjaga.
I think perempuan patutnya sesama sendiri lagi penting jgn dok mengata2 org.
Kita sendiri pun tak sempurna.. |
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Originally posted by heart^break^kid at 31-7-2007 05:58 PM
janda ada gak yang baik..kalau tak takkan sampai ada nama kampung janda baik kat bentong pahang..salasilah asal usul pun mengenai sorang janda
oo ye ke ada citer ker disebaliknyer...
aku igt diorg sesaja letak nama tuh..
ko stori la details lg.. |
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Reply #34 Dear_anne's post
Kalau Mak Jan ka luar sana macam avatar you tu, rasanya mau kelam kabut makcik - makcik kat rumah tu kalau tiap kali Mak Jan lintas depan rumah.
Salah Mak Jan ke?
Mereka hanya insan biasa yang ingin meneruskan sisa - sisa kehidupan.... |
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ekk elehhh..
mcm la yg tk janda tu baik sgt
tk kiralh janda ke tk janda, masing2 ade perangai..
pokok pangkalnye iman..
Allah tk menilai sorg manusia tu pd status org tu..
manusia ttp bkata2 selagi mulutnye bole bfungsi..
ade je yg tk kene, tmbh yg dh jd janda..
sepatutnye kite rasa lebih kesian dgn nasibnye..
lg elok kite ni mbantu, tk kisahlh dr segi material ataupu sokongan mental..
jgn hnya ingt nk bantu anak yatim jer..
janda2 yg anak bderet dianiaya bekas suamipun dpt phala klu kite bantu..
coz dorang tu tmasuk dlm golongan org2 yg susah..
jgnlh kite sbg masyrakat mjadi org2 yg zalim..
kesian janda tu, dah le dianiaya suami, pastu kene hina dek msyarakat..
baik sgt ker kite klu mcm tu sikap kite.. |
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Tapi zaman sekarang ni semakin ramai yang jadi janda. Apasal ek?...
Adakah kuasa penawaran lebih tinggi berbanding permintaan? Apakah zaman sekarang ni lelaki mempunya kuasa memilih lebih tinggi banding yg dulu?... Contohnya model kereta yg pelbagai. Bila dah boring Gen2, drive Citra. Bila dah boring Citra, drive Merz.... ble bla bla
Sila bincangkan |
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