deleted-issue resolved

Arantius · Post time 16-8-2008 08:58 PM

kalo dia sanggup buat cmtu kt blakang awak b4 kawen, x mustahil dia buat camtu gak pas kawen nnt..
fikirkanla..buat solat istikharah ke..

hativenusia · Post time 17-8-2008 12:53 AM

kite pn ade pglmn cmni gk. cnte jrk jauh n die de skndal ngan opismate die.
but then die kawen ngan minah tu. utk tuan uma, pk la leklok.. kalo kte leh setia kt die, y can't he do the sm thng?
tgok jela.da 2x die wt bnde yg sm. xmustahil akn dtg die wt lg kn?
so, pk la msk2..

mrsakit · Post time 17-8-2008 11:12 AM

dalam hidup ini tak buleh menaruh harapan 100% yg belum kawen...lebih baik menaruh harapan sepenuhnya kat keluarga sendiri..air cincang takkan putus...anggap ajer mcm kacang panjang...dah dicincang tetap putus

tinkerbell_3528 · Post time 17-8-2008 07:32 PM

my problem is similar with the TS.. boleh tak nak lepaskan kat sini jugak?

tinkerbell_3528 · Post time 17-8-2008 08:19 PM

oklah i tulis je la k.. kalau TS marah, i delete

ok so mcm ni, i know this guy early last year. after kitorang dah officially a couple, he treated me mcm princess. biasalah kan? but then after 2 months, da mcm nampak belang dia sikit2..

chapter 1, dia keluar celebrate birthday ex dia, 2 org je! i mean i mcm mula2 tak kisah la kan cuz theyre still friends but when i ckp i nak ikut, he said, oh tak boleh sbb kitorang nak catch up things and all. of course la mcm terasa but i mcm tak kesah sgt la cuz i dont want to control him. dah perempuan tu suka kutuk2 i smua. padahal, i tried being nice to her smua.

okay chapter 2, masa tu kitorang punya 10 monthsary so i asked him out. but he said hes busy. ada hal dgn kawan dia, again, i mcm tak kesah sbb as i said b4 i dun want to control him. for the whole week la dia busy. and then like few weeks after that i baru tau sbb kawan dia tersilap ckp yg masa monthsary kitorang he went to this private party, he got sooo drunk he *****ed this girl(which is my friend). i was sooo crush la. i confronted him, and masa tu i baru tahu the whole week yg dia busy tu he went to parties and all. i know masa tu i shouldve just end our relationship but somehow i really love him so i took him back. bodo kan? things went smooth, dia janji he wont make me sad ever again.

but like one week after that, dia tipu lagi ckp dia pergi main game dgn kawan dia but rupa2nya he went to club with this one girl from our college..not just that few days after that dia kantoi ada affair with this one girl from facebook. kantoi sbb i bukak his msger and the girl nudge him. i blakon jadi dia, and from there la i knw everything. apparently, they had phone sex b4. again i confronted him..mula2 dia tak ngaku sampai sumpah pakai nama Allah, mak dia. but then i took her phone number earlier. i took his phone then dialed the number. rupa2nya he saved the girl's number pakai nama lelaki. i serious masa tu sedih gila. and we broke up. but dia pujuk punya pujuk, i went back to him. ntah mcm syg sgt dgn dia.

chapter 3, last month.. dia tipu lagi pasal pegi club smua. dia ckp dia keluar dgn kawan dia rupa2nya dia keluar dgn kakak2 angkat(which i baru tau diorang ni wujud masa tu). dance dgn diorang and tidur rumah diorang. i x knw la if he did anything else kan..

then a week or 2 after that, i went back to my hometown with family for a week.. i found out few days after i balik kl balik that masa i balik kampung dia ada affair dgn my friend(not the same person dgn yg atas tadi). they went out for few days. go to clubs and dia bawak balik prempuan tu kat rumah. and diorang stone sama2. and they even kissed eachother! mula2 i tatau pasal diorang then my friend, F, cam tanya i, "ey u rasa alin(bukan nama sbenar) tu okay ke?" pastu i mcm "okay je, baik apa.. i thisk shes pretty smua", then f ckp, "ye ke? i think she's a slut..". then i mcm "asa u ckp macam tu??? tak baik laa". and the f replied, "nothing..". dia tau bout the affair but tak sanggup nak bgtau i until a few days later. i mcm kena heart attack tau.. tak sangka benda cane jadi..i got so depressed i cut my hands smua. i know org akan ckp i bodo but thats the only thing yg buat i lega masa tu. agak bodo la when i think about it.

and my boyf rupa2nya still contact dgn exgf i told u guys earliear.. seriously.. what do i do to deserve this.. and thing is i love him.. and he said he love me back but dia buat mcm ni.. skrang ni dia cam "i promise tak buat hal lagi". but is it my fault if i doubt dat? and maybe im not good enough to be his gf. like, im sorry la kan i dont take drugs smua kan??? cuz hari tu i overheard dia ckp kat kawan dia, weyhhh best a kau, A ambik smua benda!. and i dont take anything. i pnah cuba suruh dia stop, but kena marah adalah..

apa lagi i patut buat to make him love me? after class i go to his house yg dia kongsi dgn kawan dia and masak. kalau dia susah i tolong. and dia pnah ckp yg i ni waste his time and money. like hello? dia tak penah kasi i apa2. i kasi dia presents ada la. bukan nak mengungkit. but i habis more than a thousand on him. tu pun dia tak appreciate brg2 tu. and i tak penah ada confident when im with him. ye la dia asyik go to other girls, and pnah once ckp "aku tak tau kenapa aku stay dgn kau ni, dah la perangai buruk, muka pun buruk!"..

skarang ni im still with him.. i dont know what to do.kadang2 tak tahan dgn dia, asyik marah je.. benda kecik pun boleh jadi besa.. dulu masa i single i mcm "i wont let guys pijak2 kepala i sbb my mom dah penah kena dgn my stepfather mcm tu sbb my mom jenis tak melawan".. rupa2nya i pun macam tu jugak..

baroque · Post time 17-8-2008 10:17 PM

aku kekadang xpaham ler ngan kaum pmpuan ni...
macam aku ada sorang kawan pmpuan yg ada masalah sama cam ni...
balak dia dah kantoi 2,3 kali ada org lain..tp still syg lagi
aku dah nasihat byk kali suh cari je yg lain yg lg elok bukannyer xde tp alasan dia susah nk lupakan yg ni...
adoi...kalau skrg ni dah cam ni macam mane la biler dah kawin nnt
aku gak yg jadi mangsa kena dgr luahan hati dia..kekadang nk jer aku ckp yg ko ni pun sengal setia sgt ngan dia asal..bodoh

aries12 · Post time 18-8-2008 12:13 AM

pmpuan ati lmb0t la..
aku pn nga hadap kes cmni gk..
n0t exactly the same,tp ade iras2 la..
rse cm nk lepaskn bf aku 2,tp ati msh syg..
really2 l0ve him..
even th0ugh die da men kayu 3 kt blkg aku..
die ckp 'kwn' jek..huhu..xtaw if he is saying the truth o what..
aku pn pelik..
dlu,ble aku bce kes2 cmni,i'll give advise supaye tglkn je laki cm2..
tp ble jdik kt aku,bru la aku taw susany nk tglkn bf kte 2..
but am stil wndering,why???

tinkerbell_3528 · Post time 18-8-2008 07:41 AM

Originally posted by aries12 at 18-8-2008 12:13 AM
pmpuan ati lmb0t la..
aku pn nga hadap kes cmni gk..
n0t exactly the same,tp ade iras2 la..
rse cm nk lepaskn bf aku 2,tp ati msh syg..
really2 l0ve him..
even th0ugh die da men kayu 3 kt bl ...

samalah kita.. i mean if dia mcm dah suka org lain or da tanak kita.. just tell us la..

akazukin_ryu · Post time 18-8-2008 08:42 AM

we r in d same boat here tinkerbell..the only diff is i'm hundreds miles away from him n i dunt noe wut else he did behind my back..i just can only hope 4 the best for him n I.

akazukin_ryu · Post time 18-8-2008 08:45 AM

Originally posted by baroque at 17-8-2008 10:17 PM
aku kekadang xpaham ler ngan kaum pmpuan ni...
macam aku ada sorang kawan pmpuan yg ada masalah sama cam ni...
balak dia dah kantoi 2,3 kali ada org lain..tp still syg lagi
aku dah nasihat byk ...

unlike men..women normally appreciate their partners...there are nothing wrong wif tht..tp men tak penah nak hargai tu suma..

yaminz · Post time 18-8-2008 08:49 AM

Cian, you cannot think logically... Xtau la ngan pompuan skrg nei, kata stupid tapi tpelajar bole bpikir...

Kalo sy la, da lama say good bye...

yaminz · Post time 18-8-2008 08:52 AM

Yeake, I really appreciate my ex partner, syg nak rak xpenah pun bkasar o marah kat ex gf and at last she just leave me behind...

bg sy la, xda beza antara laki ngan pompuan, yg beza hanya la isi hati jea...

itik_magic · Post time 18-8-2008 09:47 AM

aiiiii...............

akazukin_ryu · Post time 18-8-2008 10:01 AM

Originally posted by yaminz at 18-8-2008 08:52 AM
Yeake, I really appreciate my ex partner, syg nak rak xpenah pun bkasar o marah kat ex gf and at last she just leave me behind...

bg sy la, xda beza antara laki ngan pompuan, yg beza hanya la ...

not all men BUT MOST of men

aries12 · Post time 18-8-2008 10:11 AM

agree wit u!

aries12 · Post time 18-8-2008 10:12 AM

n i mmg mara bt0l kt p0mpuan yg da taw laki 2 da ade gf,but still nk mggatal lg!!:@

itik_magic · Post time 18-8-2008 10:13 AM

dunia mmg camtu ...biasanya dipertemukan dgn psgn yg berbeza......dan perbezaan akan menjadikan kita belajar.....dan mengkaji.....lalu dpt jwapan.......akhirnya keputusan ditgn anda.

kegagalan mneghargai apa yg ada....mungkin membawa rasa kecewa kpd salah satu pihak.

perbezaan yg cuba mewujudkan keseimbgn........jika berjaya maka bahagia....jika gagal derita.

panas b'psgn sejuk, ying n yang, kutub utara n kutub selatan, baik n buruk, polis dan pencuri dan joker dan batman.....

hidup itu indah...