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he is still with you cuz he doesnt want to hurt you
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Reply #21 hitamputih's post
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Balas #1 donkeylady\ catat
x happy blah aje....................3 kali masuk lubang...cam x best jer...........
bf ko xde pendirian..... |
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Balas #1 donkeylady\ catat
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Let it go je wak lelaki ni bila dia nak kua dari sesuatu relationship alasan mereka begitu menyakitkan ati nak pikir. Dia nak u yg bg penamat so dia tak rasa bersalah konon dia yg dump u |
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its hurt when you love someone but not to be loved in return ...so my advice..juz let him go...myb now you will feel deeply hurt...but as time pass by, i think you can forget all those sweet memory bout him n start to fall in love once again .. |
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LET HIM GO.NO USE TO KEEP RIDING A DONKEY WHEN THE DONKEY WANTED FREE |
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Originally posted by hitamputih at 24-9-2008 01:02 PM 
truth bout men, when we say we love u, it means we love u. period.
dont go complex rocket science i love you because u make me feel brand new or whatsoever.we love u. done.
questioning dee ...
it is a rocket science since sum man just blurt it out to shut us women off, just to let us hear what we wanna hear.true, blatant truth like yes i dont love u anymore is hurtful , but it's more sickenin to hear i love you coming out from the man u thought was in love but yet they r not
sorry la..past experience do make me bitter n make me learn the hard way |
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The Man Rules ..... At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down, Finally , the guys' side of the story. (I must admit, it's pretty good.) We always hear "the rules" From the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note.. these are all numbered "1 " > ON PURPOSE!
1. Men are NOT mind readers. -yes, tat is why we have to keep on feeding your brain
2. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down. -we leave it down since we dun wanna see ur poo poos floating.oh that, if you dont know the meaning of 'flushing'
3. Sunday sports It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. -sunday is the day when we have the whole day to go manja manja, pampered you guys like a greek god or sth. well now we take it back since u dun need it anyway
4. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way. -yes it is!it works on your feet and hand muscle..providing you are wearing 2 inches of heels!
5. Crying is blackmail. -just becoz u guys gonna be called as a wimp if u cry then do go blaming us when we use the sole weapon to survive
6. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it! . Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question. -if we ask a prada and louboutin on the feet, we dont expect a NO, no?
7. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for. -that's why man make the worst counsellor.PERIOD.
8. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days. -that's it, if u can recall what we said yesterday, much more to what happened 6 months back.ha ha.
9. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us. -we ask you coz u keep on comparing us to the skinny b****es on the runway.if u care to shut ur mouth then we dun bother to ask.
10. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one -and this comes from a species who claim they are not a mind reader?how can we tell you then?
11. You can either ask us to do something Or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.-we try to act frail.we respect ur ego
12. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.. -we have to go make ur godamn cup of tea or coffee or milo or whatever u desire during that commercial!where got time to say anythin meh?
13. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we. -who says we give u direction?we just give u support with a lil bit of instruction just to get things done the right way
14. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is. -and we have no idea why a bunch of men running against a ball within a period of time.that u call a sport?
15. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that. -we itch too, we just dun go PUBLIC DISPLAY
16. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle. -what if we say yes and pouring you all the matter?would u even care to sit and listen to us for 2 hours, maybe?heck, you even only talk during commercials!
17. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.-and we dun expect you to say you love us and yet fooling around with nother women even for a mere whistling and catcalling!
18. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... Really . -then why do u keep on glancing on our butt?breast?stomach?and make faces to show your disapproving look?
19. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as soccer or racing.-we are prepared.u just dun wanna give us a try.trust us.we have palin and condolezza rice in each of us.
20. You have enough clothes.-and you have enough cds collection and jersey and sneakers and cigarretes and cars .we dun complain.
21. You have too many shoes. -but yet we have to find the right one, righttttt?????
22. I am in shape. Round IS a shape! -we know..we know..that's why we keep on ogling on brad pitt till now
. Thank you for reading this. Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight; But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.-and yes..please count the couch as ur permanent crib too for now
ahhaha..how's that in return? |
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its not fair bile pompuan ikut camane care diorg perceive love, untuk ckp yg seseorg laki tu da x sayang die lagi.
cara laki ngan pompuan paham love tu totally different.
bagi kitorg lelaki, the most important thing in love is sex. everything else comes afterwards.
bagi pompuan lak, love is emotion. kene rindu-rinduan, ckp "i love u" hari-hari... sex is not so important. it's almost like the last thing in love. sex ni cumelah reward bagi sorg lelaki yg dah penuhi kehendak cinta pompuan tu. bile lelaki tu dah tunjuk yg die btol2 caring kat pompuan tu.
lelaki x minat emotion2 ni. kitorg busy dgn life. mmg kitorg dicipta untuk mencari nafkah. tapi selagi laki tu mmg commited utk ade intimate relationship cume dgn pompuan tu, selagi tu la dikira laki tu menyayangi pompuan tu! |
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Originally posted by Friiz at 25-9-2008 05:13 AM 
its not fair bile pompuan ikut camane care diorg perceive love, untuk ckp yg seseorg laki tu da x sayang die lagi.
cara laki ngan pompuan paham love tu totally different.
lelaki x minat emotion2 ni. kitorg busy dgn life. mmg kitorg dicipta untuk mencari nafkah. tapi selagi laki tu mmg commited utk ade intimate relationship cume dgn pompuan tu, selagi tu la dikira laki tu menyayangi pompuan tu!
betul ke tu realitinya bagi sumer lelaki..
or fakta tu hanya boleh digunapakai bagi sesetengah lelaki je?
any komen guys? saya nk tau gak..sesi pembelajaran gak ni |
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hmmmm.....memang berbeza......cara menyayayangi....tp tidak ler berbeza kesemuanya...............
pd prinsip asas syg menyayangi ni ialah melindungi dan dilindungi..... biasanya yg lemah akan dilindungi oleh yg kuat...... tp kalu salah satu cuba mengambil kesempatan habislah..................
lelaki kurang dlm menunjuk emosi berbanding dgn ppuan. biasanya lelaki x gemar menunjukkan kasih syg melalui kata2.....tp lebih kpd perbuatan...... cuma kdg2 ppuan mengganggap prbuatan yg dilakukan lelaki itu lumrah...sdngkn bg lelaki perbuatan itu bukan kebiasaan....dan ini jd konflik.....
apa pun lelaki kena ler tegas dan berpendirian....nak kata nak x nak ckp ler x nak........
namun perbezaan dan persamaan tingkahlaku setiap insan itu ttp ada. |
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Originally posted by olaoli at 25-9-2008 01:43 AM 
iit is a rocket science since sum man just blurt it out to shut us women off, just to let us hear what we wanna hear.true, blatant truth like yes i dont love u anymore is hurtful , but it's more sickenin to hear i love you coming out from the man u thought was in love but yet they r not
sorry la..past experience do make me bitter n make me learn the hard way
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heeeee, i know which man is that, would u like to share ur story, so that all of us and more importantly tuan rumah can have live experience from other girl view...plz?
when he say he love u, does he look u in the eyes?(some pro boya are exceptional ) |
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Reply #28 olaoli's post
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way to go olaoli weweeeet !!! :pompom: |
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so i vote for 'just let him go' not worth spending a time with someone who's doubtful of himself.. |
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intresting how this whole thing has gotten into men vs. women.
but i think these differences is the main problem in my relationship.
perhaps i dun understand him, he doesnt understand me, we just dont understand each other's needs.
if only im able to know what he is thinking.... wouldnt things be easier?
some of u guys say leave him.. well im pretty sure he still loves me. (hope im not deluding myself)
and i love him still. he hadnot called and msg me since yesterday. im starting to freak out already.
oh gosh.. this i hard.
letting go of someone.. is never easy. it takes a lot of courage and strength to be able to do that.
and i dont see myself doing that ever. i cant bear to hurt myself by letting him go. |
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does it matter if he looks you in the eye?
lol i thought men is like, if they say they love u means they love u. period. it doesnt matter if they look you in the eye or they were looking somewhere else. or does it?
well that is what u said. |
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Originally posted by olaoli at 25-9-2008 02:26 AM
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hehehe thanks for commenting back, its a joke laa dear
but for the sake of entertainment, i reply balik juga yer
*original text in normal
*your post in bold
*my post in blue
The Man Rules ..... At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down, Finally , the guys' side of the story. (I must admit, it's pretty good.) We always hear "the rules" From the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note.. these are all numbered "1 " > ON PURPOSE! -> of course, glad u realize it
1. Men are NOT mind readers. -yes, tat is why we have to keep on feeding your brain -> ya! and stop saying, he shud know, cant he see it now? or giving hint mcm mcm like "hey i do sms him everyday, tak cukup lagi ke tanda i syg kat dia?"
2. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down. -we leave it down since we dun wanna see ur poo poos floating.oh that, if you dont know the meaning of 'flushing' - dear, u misunderstood ni, untuk tandas cangkung, men use it without the seat, 爏eat ni refering to燵/color] kay. and women use it with down. (refer cerita,"what happen in vegas", or this article -燵/color]
The seat can be lifted in order to protect it from spatter during a male's urination, or when cleaning the toilet. in most common toilets, the seat can be raised. This can be done to facilitate cleaning, but most often when a male urinates while standing. Because females do not typically raise the seat for anything other than cleaning, this generates debate among cohabitating members of the opposite sex. Frequently, the male(s) is expected by the female member(s) to ensure the seat is always lowered after use, and criticize him if he forgets.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toilet_seat
this is about buang air kecil yer cik adik. and toilet lid lah yg use untuk cover the inside view WHICH as we men flush away all, even if we didnt cover it , it still looks good!
3. Sunday sports It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be. -sunday is the day when we have the whole day to go manja manja, pampered you guys like a greek god or sth. well now we take it back since u dun need it anyway - thanks! leave it on other day laa...(tapi tak applicable to malaysian kut, kita mana ada sport sunday)
4. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way. -yes it is!it works on your feet and hand muscle..providing you are wearing 2 inches of heels! - the answer in the bold blue above sentence 牋
5. Crying is blackmail. -just becoz u guys gonna be called as a wimp if u cry then do go blaming us when we use the sole weapon to survive- but u girls did use that as final weapon, right? |
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Originally posted by donkeylady at 25-9-2008 09:24 AM
intresting how this whole thing has gotten into men vs. women.
but i think these differences is the main problem in my relationship.
perhaps i dun understand him, he doesnt understand me, we just dont understand each other's needs.
if only im able to know what he is thinking.... wouldnt things be easier?
some of u guys say leave him.. well im pretty sure he still loves me. (hope im not deluding myself)
and i love him still. he hadnot called and msg me since yesterday. im starting to freak out already.
oh gosh.. this i hard.
letting go of someone.. is never easy. it takes a lot of courage and strength to be able to do that.
and i dont see myself doing that ever. i cant bear to hurt myself by letting him go.
does it matter if he looks you in the eye?
lol i thought men is like, if they say they love u means they love u. period. it doesnt matter if they look you in the eye or they were looking somewhere else. or does it?
well that is what u said.
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hehehehe the old age argument, always fun to entertain!
yeah i concur with ur steps. just play along, and have ur own life now. jgn sampai jadi syarat that he has to call everyday, if not it means he didnt love u anymore. just have fun, and u r not married, so meet new friends!!! (ok, i meant to say meet new guys!)
about looking into eyes, actually i have to admit that some guys do lie, (n so do women ) but u can see he is ikhlas or not. yet this in not a manadatory too. but u can feel it when he is tipu-ing kan. |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 24-9-2008 04:24 PM
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