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Post time 3-3-2009 04:54 PM | Show all posts

Balas #20 tupai84\ catat

susah nak faham ati orang nih..
u pasti ke ex dia tu de bf?
mayb dorang juz bestfren..
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 Author| Post time 3-3-2009 05:03 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by lili_haryani at 3-3-2009 04:54 PM
susah nak faham ati orang nih..
u pasti ke ex dia tu de bf?
mayb dorang juz bestfren..


2 yg diaorg ckp la..
pe yg i tau, Y ni dah couple 3 thn(x silap la) dgn bf die nw..
tp bf die wat hal...
so diaorg tgh crisis...
nw i tgu je la bil bln ni smpai...
cz sjak kantoi ari 2..
die dah ckp takkan contact si Y ni lg...
tah la...
i jz follow wit the flow je nw...
die tanak msg or call i, tak pe..
i pn tak msg or call die..
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Post time 3-3-2009 07:18 PM | Show all posts
Senang je conclusion utk kisah hang ni...

Lain kali, toksah nak gatai2 pi call/cari balik ex-bf lama hang tu. Sekadar nak tanya khabaq konon. Awat? Nape tergerak hati nak tau apa yg berlaku kat ex hang tu? Nape gatai sgt? Bf yg la ni hg dah bosan ka nak tau dia sihat ke tak? Mana tau kut2 esok lusa dia meninggal dunia ka?  

Ni la source of all relationship problems:

One of the couple has the tendency of getting back to their ex-es for the sake of so-called "friendship", yg dimana depa patut tau no body should care about WTF happened to their old ex-es i.e dah kawen ka, dia hidup lagi ka mati dah ka etc etc. Let bygones be bygones. Let the garbage remain in the dumpster! End of story. :@

Tupai84, aku rasa hang yg start semua ni (dok pi gatai contact ex-bf buat apa?? ). Now, you are currently tasting your own medicine..hang punya bf tgh dok buat perkara yg sama kat hang. So, tell us, how do you feel now? I'm guessing it's the same old feeling as what your bf has felt before masa u contact ex-bf u tu kan?

So, now the only way to solve this issue is either:
1) Masing2 janji akan buang, i repeat, buang segala ex2 yg ada dlm kehidupan hangpa & concentrate dgn hangpa berdua. Kalau busy dgn keja tu, takkan la takkan ada some window time nak be together -gether? Come on la. Takde manusia yg busy 24 jam dlm hidup depa. Mesti ada masa utk rehat. Masa utk yg tersayang.
atau
2) Mmg tak boleh buat apa tak. The only solution is to break off.. take this as a lesson learnt

Sorry kalau aku kasaq skit tapi aku mmg cukup meluat la kalau contact2 balik ex2 ni. Mesti nak jugak terkenang benda2 yg dah lepas yg lagi menyakitkan hati tp gatai jugak nak contact2 balik.
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Post time 4-3-2009 12:54 AM | Show all posts

Balas #23 zacks\ catat

maafla incik tupai...tp sy agak bersetuju ngan mr.zacks kot..huhu...aku insan lemah......
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 Author| Post time 4-3-2009 08:38 AM | Show all posts

Reply #23 zacks's post

tq zack 4 the opinion...

aku admit yg aku salah cz crik ex aku...
n aku tak wat lg after dat..
btul ckp ko, ni la yg die rsa bile aku wat kt die cm2..
aku phm...
tp aku tak buat cm die buat..
aku tak bgayut cam org tgh sakan bercinta dgn ex..
msa aku wat hal dlu, aku stil msg n col slalu compared dgn die trus snyap..
n lastly tgk bil, die tak call aku shari but call ex die siang mlm pg ptg...
part yg ko ckp bz 2...
aku tak tau la nk ckp pe..
mmg alasan die bz.. bz.. bz... dgn keje...
aku pn tak tau pe yg die bz sgt..
dats y aku persoalkn kt die y dgn aku die asyik bz tp dgn ex die ada je msa nk contact...
n pling myukarkn lg keadaan...
kitaorg jauh..
aku di KL die di Penang...
so, aku mmg dah tak hrp pape lg pd rltion ni...

sekian, trima ksih...
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 Author| Post time 4-3-2009 08:39 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by MeLaMaL at 4-3-2009 12:54 AM
maafla incik tupai...tp sy agak bersetuju ngan mr.zacks kot..huhu...aku insan lemah......


aku pn ada gk setuju dgn pndapat zack...
tak di nafikn yg pe die ckp ada btul nye...
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Post time 4-3-2009 09:46 AM | Show all posts
sama2 pon buat salah....
dah tau bf tak suka kte contact ex bf so jgn la buat kan....
kalo kita sendiri pon tak suka bf/gf kita contact ex dorg so sama la dgn sesetgh org..bf/gf masing sure tau ape yg pasangan suka n tak suka....
bukan semua org suka kte contact or berkawan dgn ex masing tau..
lain padang lain belalang....
sometimes u have to put urself in ur bf's shoes....
then plak bila ade org yg suka mendendam ni la jdnye..tak puas ati kenakan balik kt org tu....
last2 dua2 sakit hati....
kalo pikir la betol..keputusan kt tangan ko....
yg lepas jgn buat lg....
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Post time 4-3-2009 09:48 AM | Show all posts

Reply #23 zacks's post

haku pon berpandangan sama dgn zack.....
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 Author| Post time 4-3-2009 10:13 AM | Show all posts

Reply #27 matryoshka7's post

yup...
aku dah letak diri aku pd tmpat die..
aku admit aku ada wat slh..
tp cara die balas 2 wat aku tak leh nk trima...
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Post time 4-3-2009 10:21 AM | Show all posts

Reply #29 tupai84's post

sama lar mcm ko buat dia dulu..dia pon tak leh nak terima kan...
the damage has been done..
so kalo ko rasa tak bole go on dgn dia ko tarik diri slow2....

lesson learnt - next time jgn gatal2 nak kontek ex ke hape ke nk tanya kabar ke hape ke yg sememangnye ramai manusia tak suka pasangan dia buat gitew....let the past be in the past... forget it n move on.. forget it tu bukan forget the problem je but forget the ex tu semua....
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Post time 4-3-2009 10:33 AM | Show all posts
[quote]Originally posted by tupai84 at 3-3-2009 03:54 PM
Salam semua...
die ckp tak pnah angap lak kawan tp mmg dah takde pape kite ni.
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 Author| Post time 4-3-2009 10:36 AM | Show all posts

Reply #30 matryoshka7's post

forget the ex da wat da...
skang ni dlm prosess trik diri since die tak rsa die ada wat slh..
tp mlm td bile aku ckp psal slh die, bru die nk mtk mf..
tp aku t'tnya2 ikhlas ke die lafazkn kata maaf 2 sbb dlu die ckp die tak rsa pe die wat 2 slh..
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 Author| Post time 4-3-2009 10:46 AM | Show all posts

Reply #31 hitamputih's post

tah la cik tam..
bile i ckp kite ni kwn die tak mgaku lak..
n kdg2 bile sms dgn die sj tulis "gud nite my fren" die mrh lak..
die ckp y nk kna ckp cm2..
then i said, y nk kena mrh.. dah mmg kite kwn kn?
lastly die bengang, die ckp.. ikutla nk ckp pe.. u tak tau pe i rsa..
so, i confius n biar kn bnda 2 tgantung cm2..

tak leh jauhkn diri...
mayb dlm proses la ni...
since last nite dah ckp kt die mmg tak leh tipu diri sndri nk angap cam tak de pape yg blaku...
n ask him not 2 contct me anymore...

i rasa pe?
i pn tak tau..
syg mmg la syg..
jz tak leh lupe pe die wat..
wit me die sntiasa ckp bz..
tp yg musykil 2 y dgn ex die tak bz lak...
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Post time 4-3-2009 11:21 AM | Show all posts

Reply #33 tupai84's post

i see
so 'its complicated' yer?

u 25 kan

ok

gini, kalau percaya tu dah takde, perlukah di teruskan? perlukah nak teruskan just nak jadi backup place org? kalau mampu, teruskan as kawan, ada jodoh, get together, takde ok jer.

start going out with other people

after all, mmg u all kawan je kan. naper perlu ke dia yg wat pengesahan kata "yess kita kawan" baru u nak terima hakikat yang u n dia hanya kawan?
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 Author| Post time 4-3-2009 11:59 AM | Show all posts

Reply #34 hitamputih's post

start going out with other people...
not at the moment la...
try nk biasekn diri cam dlu blik..
g mana2 alone...
lama2 nti insyallah ok la...
rite now i juz leave it to time...
biar msa je yg ten2kn smua ni...
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Post time 4-3-2009 12:02 PM | Show all posts

Reply #29 tupai84's post

aku stuju ttg ni......sepatutnya bf ko x payah balas perbuatan ko....hnya ia menunjukkan kelemahan diri dr segi prinsip n pendirian.

kalu aku jd dia.....awal2 dh blah dlm hidup ko......lps tu baru gayut dgn Y.


kalu lps putus x leh kawan jgn berkawan....... tp kalu rasa nk berkawan kena tahu kemampuan hati sendiri bg sempadan. kalu x mampu jgn carik pasal ler.
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Post time 4-3-2009 12:03 PM | Show all posts

Reply #35 tupai84's post

pelan2 kayuh...................x leh buang...tp leh benam dr ingatan.
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Post time 4-3-2009 12:16 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by itik_magic at 4-3-2009 12:02 PM
aku stuju ttg ni......sepatutnya bf ko x payah balas perbuatan ko....hnya ia menunjukkan kelemahan diri dr segi prinsip n pendirian.

kalu aku jd dia.....awal2 dh blah dlm hidup ko......lps tu baru gayut dgn Y....



aku rasa , dia dah blah dari hidup tuan rumah dah bro, tu yg start calling calling balik.....
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Post time 4-3-2009 01:37 PM | Show all posts

Balas #34 hitamputih\ catat

lenkali wat agreement letter, siap duty stem....

agaknya BF dia tu malu dah ludah nak jilat balik...
jadi dia jilat sikit2 je...
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 Author| Post time 4-3-2009 01:58 PM | Show all posts

Reply #36 itik_magic's post

tq 4 the opinion..

jz nk tnya..
ko akan gyut ke dgn ex kalo ko tau die dah ada bf?

tgh pelan2 kayuh la ni...
tak leh pkai turbo...
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