bantu aku tambat hati F (dlm masa 2 bln ni.........)

pinklollipop · Post time 4-4-2009 03:10 PM

ouh! u ajak dia dia kawen? and dia reject??? WOW!
anyway, dia ada x bg reason nape dia x nak kawen ngn u?

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 03:17 PM

1- F tak nak kejadian sama dgn x-gf terjadi kat i pula...

2- F terlalu tua buat i...

pinklollipop · Post time 4-4-2009 03:40 PM

i suggest...u kawan ngn dia within 2 months (as u wish it 2b)....
dun make any calls...(as u r doing it)...let him make the 1st move....

u just follow the flow dear!

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 03:50 PM

kalu F ajak jumpa mkn2 camna?ikut keras kepala ni mmg tak nk jumpa nk jual mahal...tp rindu laa dgn F

if u r in my situation wht else u will do to make he wanted u damn soo much?

masalahnya F ni nk kt aku betul2 ke tidak ni

or just to fill his emptiness n lonliness jerkkk

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 03:53 PM

takde ke sapa2 yg leh bg tips supaya semangat F nk bercinta ni timbul semula??

pernah bc post aiva, mastrudeng n few forumers lain...derang ni kawen dgn duda juga kalu tak silap??? leh tak turun ilmu kt aku ni...

pinklollipop · Post time 4-4-2009 04:02 PM

Originally posted by a_dira at 4-4-2009 15:50
kalu F ajak jumpa mkn2 camna?ikut keras kepala ni mmg tak nk jumpa nk jual mahal...tp rindu laa dgn F

kalu F ajak jumpa mkn2 camna?ikut keras kepala ni mmg tak nk jumpa nk jual mahal...tp rindu laa dgn F

if u r in my situation wht else u will do to make he wanted u damn soo much?

masalahnya F ni nk kt aku betul2 ke tidak ni or just to fill his emptiness n lonliness jerkkk

from my points of view....
i think u jual mahal je....tp kdg2, boley jer u nak kuar ngn F....jgn la nampak obvious u suka kat dia....

if u r in my situation wht else u will do to make he wanted u damn soo much?

1. bila dia call, u tnya pasal anak2 dia....kesihatan anak2 dia and family dia...
2. bila u kuar ngn dia, belikan chocolate or present for his children....
3. bila birthday F or anak2 F, send a brithday wish/ beli present ( present tu x yah mahal2, cukup skdr keihlasan dr hati and wat dia appreciate sgt its value)....

masalahnya F ni nk kt aku betul2 ke tidak ni

or just to fill his emptiness n lonliness jerkkk
i think...mula2 mmg dia nak u isi keksongan dlm idup dia...somehow, take it +vely...attract hati dia...so dat he feels like he cannot live with u bila u xde....

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 04:37 PM

so next monday shall i send a bouquet of flower wif choc to his ofis? whould that be appropriate?

fyi pink...anak2 F dh besar panjang pun...semua kt ipt...F sll cerita pasal anak2 kt i...smtms i jeles i tak dpt kasih sayang dr ayah sendiri spt yg F beri pd anak2nya...F care n pay attention to me pun should be enuf...

but still F sll buat jiwa i kacau n i confius...

illidan · Post time 4-4-2009 05:33 PM

ko muder lagi..baik kenal dunia dulu..cuba plan life career atau education..lagi bagos.. kalau ko ade education atau career , at least kalau kena ceraikan pon tak lar berharap duit sgt kat laki tu..time bercinta mmg lar sedap.. time luka jadik biol cam aku nie..hahaha....sendirik mau ingat lar..bila dah terjatuh no one help u except urself

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 05:49 PM

sorry illidan aku nk opinion camne nk takcle dier from u olls in this thread...

nasihat2 supaya lupakan F sbb aku muda...bina kerjaya dulu ke...derserve dpt yg lebih baik aku nk hold 1st...skrg aim n objektif aku dlm masa 2 bln ni ialah CAMNA NAK TAWAN HATI F...

sampai jun ni kalu aku tak berjaya aku akan consider n apply nasihat2 tu semua...

tak pun aku tawan ko ajerkkk

p/s beb...u dont know me...among the women im not too young anymore to enjoy....i hv money good job but i dont hv happiness...thats im looking for...n F can complete those the missing part in my life

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 05:53 PM

so illidan from ur point of view camne nk buat aku amat diperlukan oleh F dlm hidupnya...

p/s nk tau dr org laki pulak pendapatan mereka....

pinklollipop · Post time 4-4-2009 06:02 PM

Originally posted by a_dira at 4-4-2009 16:37
so next monday shall i send a bouquet of flower wif choc to his ofis? whould that be appropriate?

fyi pink...anak2 F dh besar panjang pun...semua kt ipt...F sll cerita pasal anak2 kt i...smtms i jeles i tak dpt kasih sayang dr ayah sendiri spt yg F beri pd anak2nya...F care n pay attention to me pun should be enuf...

but still F sll buat jiwa i kacau n i confius...

so from ur statement....im guessing F is 45-54 y/o....
so u must be around 27-37 y/o....
somehow, if u really2 luv him...y not tunjukkan kat dia yg pndi masak?

u can start by baking a cake....u noe bg dia masa dia ajak u kua lunch or dinner....
mmandangkan anak2 dia dh besar....assuming 18-22 y/o....maybe u can ajak diorg dinner at ur home bila diorg cuti sem....
u noe get to noe them better and ley tgk gelagat diorg (his children) nnt...

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 06:15 PM

pink

i dont think F mention berkawan dgn i pd anak2nya in details..

coincidently kalu tahu pun when F willingly help me format laptop dgn bantuan anaknya... anak2 F tahu F ade berkawan dgn few girls...girls who seeking his love etc...even x-gf F tak dpt F start cuba pula cari jln nk dekati n contact anak2 F....dr apa yg F cite kt i laa.... but i takkan buat that kind of action...

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 06:20 PM

one more thing...F pandai jg bdn...he looks like early 40s...n very concern about calories intake...

kalu nk bake cake pun tunggu bday dia kot

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 06:26 PM

lupa pulak...nk bake a cake kt dia kene tunggu bln 9 nanti...itu kalu dah officially jd bf aku...kalu ade jodoh

pinklollipop · Post time 4-4-2009 06:26 PM

so kiranya... F starts to find someone who can share his loneliness and emptiness w/o informing his children....well, i think he wants to search BEST candidate b4 he announce the BIG news....

well, if dat the case....u guna la cara yg pertama....
bake him a cake or anything he likes....as a dessert for lunch....
and bila kua dinner....u bg dia a poem on the card to acknowledge that he is so special to u...

pinklollipop · Post time 4-4-2009 06:28 PM

ala...not necessarily a cake...maybe u can cook something healthy...

pinklollipop · Post time 4-4-2009 06:29 PM

kalau susah2 sgt....u just text him je....juz type simple sms....
"how r u today? have a nice day. take care"

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 06:30 PM

u bg dia a poem on the card to acknowledge that he is so special to u...

good idea...

pinklollipop · Post time 4-4-2009 06:45 PM

hopefully he likes and appreciate it.....

good luck dear!

a_dira · Post time 4-4-2009 06:46 PM

Originally posted by pinklollipop at 4-4-2009 18:26
so kiranya... F starts to find someone who can share his loneliness and emptiness w/o informing his children....well, i think he wants to search BEST candidate b4 he announce the BIG news....

...

smtms i pk this is a reason y F cant accept me...

maybe high taste

dr story F, his x-gf dr keluarga kaya...F kenal x-gfnya masa praktkal kt tmpt keje F..n bapa x-gf F org kuat dlm kompeni tmpt F bekerja... F undur diri utk selamatkan career n hidup x-gf dia... dr cerita F byk dugaan diorg masa keputusan nk kawen parents x-gf tentang habis2an..

then 1 story lagi F penah cite F kenal one girl muda lg...for him that was a big mistake F buat...F ingat budak tu belum kawen cos umo br 26 kot. menantu smbdy juga luckily F berjaya avoid from her...