so..wut ur say?

tobcontinued

hi semua..

lame dh x jenguk thread ni..
hr ni tob nk update psl cite tob..

buat pengetahuan forummers semua, tob ade buat ape yg korang suggest kt tob, antaranya:

1. tob melakukan kamikaze

    tob: awk, awk suka kat sy ke?
    dia: suka...errr...nape tnya mcm 2?
    tob: suka mcm mana? as in suka mcm kawan biasa ke? or lebih dr tu? knape?
    dia: sy suka tob lebey dr seorg kawan...knape? sy pun xtau..
   
    dia:           sy pun nk tau gak..awk suka kt sy gak ke?knape tiba2 tnya sy mcm tu? adekah sy ni bertepuk seblah tgn or ni cara awk nk reject sy ke?
    tob: tob sbnrnya suka awk jugak..tob pun suka awk melebihi thp seorg kwn..
dia: knape tiba2 tnya sy mcm tu?
tob: sbb tob nk cari calon suami..

2. perbincangan mengenai masa depan

tob: awk rase, kita bole jd couple ke?
dia: sy rase susah la..kita ni jauh berbeza..life, kerja, tmpat
tob: awk mmg nk setel down kt tmpat kerja awk ke? ade terfikir nk pindh tmpat lain?
dia: besar kemungkinan mmg sy akn setel down kt tempat kerja saya..susah gak klo nk pindah..sbb sy mmg based dkt sini..
       awk mcm mane? nk setel down dkt mane?
tob: sy happy dgn life + kerja sy d sini (kl)...klo bole sy pun setel down kt tmpt sy jugak
dia: hmmm..tu la..kita masing2 jauh..awk happy kat sane..sy happy kat sini..
tob: tht's y..sy klo bole nk both of us happy..enjoy dgn life masing2..x fair la klo awk/saya sorang je yg happy
(part ni sedey skit)
dia: sy pun nk mcm tu juga..tp sy rase susah la..since we r totally different..
tob: hmmm..ntah la..sy pun tatau nk ckp ape
dia: awk, i appreciate to b ur candidate..but, sy suggest awk cari la org lain k..
tob: ........
dia: awk, walau ape pun terjadi lps ni, kita still x putus kwn tau..kita still bole lepak same2, sms...etc
tob: ok..takper la kalau mcm tu..tp sy nk bg tau, klo kita ade jodoh + murah rezeki, kita bersama la..kalau tak, lu pikir la sendiri!

tobcontinued

memula tob rase ringan je kepala ni bile discuss dgn dia psl benda ni..
but at the same time, tob rase syahdu sgt bile dia ckp kat tob mcm ni:
dia: awk, i appreciate to b ur candidate..but, sy suggest awk cari la org lain k..
tob: ........;(
dia: awk, walau ape pun terjadi lps ni, kita still x putus kwn tau..kita still bole lepak same2, sms...etc

sejak tob tnya psl menda ni, dia terus senyap..
tob sms, dia x reply pun
xtau la dia senyap sbb dia bz ke, (kdg2 klo time dia bz, mmg dia senyap)
or dia senyap sbb dia xnk buat tob sedih ke..
tob plak yg rase lonely..


tob rase lega gak bila dh dpt clarify on this matter
tp skrg tob rase
kdg2 mmg rase syahdu sgt smpai menitis air mata out of a sudden..
tatau la..mayb the outcome of the discussion is not as what tob xpected..

FreeMen

yeah.. im facing the same problem as u.. but kitorg still lagi still in same line of work.. tapi biasa la pompuan.. dulu time belajar slalu berjauhan ngan family.. n kalau bleh keje or nak settle down kene la dekat ngan family.. but who knows kan.. if there is a possibility i to going back.. iw ill try to look a chance to moving on with her.. aku pun dah lama tinggalkan family aku.. so maybe this is the right time.. tapi tu lah.. i will take any rezeki yg datang dulu.. x kira la keje ke, kawin ke or watsoever.. i dont want to miss any golden chance which appear in front of my eyes but in the same time i try to be rational.. what the pros n cons.. mmg sukar membuat pilihan mcm ni.. apatah lagi melibatkan karier masing2.. but once told me "if u want to earn something, u have to sacrifice something equal".. watever pun i try to be the best in anything i could do..

tobcontinued

all d best freeman..
u r right..
never ever miss any golden chance tht comes into ur life..
klo u ade ambition, try ur best to achieve it..

at d mo, mmg l rasa susah nk sacrifice my career..
so sorry n probably a big no no..
same goes to him..

i try to b rational too
coz to me, kawin ats dsr cinta je xcukup..

FreeMen

atas dasar cinta? hell no.. actually im not in the love2 situation.. most couples do.. i'll do it for few reasons..

1. always end up badly when trying to love some1.
2. my parents keep nagging me to get married (hey i just 26 year old guy)
3. im looking for compatibility for partnership n sharing (love sure come around after that)
4. big golden chances maybe come after married (miracle huh)
5. im the big bro so i need to be a good example for my other bros.
6. maybe im ready to settledown.
7. life is about trying. once failed it doesnt mean end of everything. its beginning of something.

maybe thats a reason n maybe i dont know.. im always to overlook everything.. im afraid to miss something that can lead something important.. but hell yeah life is worth taking a risk..

sexyzangel

sakit paler aku baca
tp lepas abis baca
aku cuma ada satu je pemahaman

TOLAK ANSUR
MASA
KEPASTIAN (DIA & DIRI SENDIRI)

dr apa yg aku baca
ko blm willing to share ur life wt smone
sb ko msh pentingkan diri sendiri
secara puratanya 99.99% ko cuma fikirkan ttg kareer & it not balance
kalo nak balance kena 50 - 50



errrrr  sat gi aku tulis
aku malas lak nak menaip       
(jgn mare na)
biasanya aku bagi huraian panjang lebar
tp ari nih takde mood lak

tobcontinued

hi..dh lama dh x jenguk sini..

latest update:
dia nk kawin dah hujung thn ni...tp bukan dgn tob..dgn org lain...takpelah...mayb xde jodoh kitorg..tob redha je dgn ape yg berlaku... i am happy for him..semoga dia berbahagia & murah rezeki

terima kasih ats nasihat kwn2...lepas ni tob akn cuba utk bukakan hati dgn lebih luas lagi & xbnyk fikir sgt..

peace!

hardeyboyz

da bleh dah tutup thread nih since latest update 2 tahun selepas itu..

irul

first thing tt kena buka hati tt dulu untuk menerima cinta... cuba terima dia susah nak dapat orang yang benar2 sabar. dia sanggup tggu tt.lagi satu soal kerjaya tegokla mcm mana dengan boy 2 klu dia benar2 cayangkan tt nohal lah kl lagi la banyak kerja .kalau tt risau gak sila buat solat istiharah. please bukalah hati tt untuk mencintai barulah hidup lebih bermakna...