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aku blajar dr pglaman..
wlau org dh xde, tp kngn ttp ade
tp hidup kene teruskn gak
cari pgganti yg jauh lbih baik
upgrade kn diri sndri
doakan je org tu idop bhagia |
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Reply #43 dhanishdhania's post
Btul2...kalo dah bukan jodoh...nak buat mcm mana kn...pengalaman2 tu buat pengajaran...bersyukur sbb insan tu pernah hadir dalam hidup kita dan pernah buat kita rasa bahagia dan gembira...walaupun tempoh nya mungkin tak kekal...tp setidak-tidaknya kita berpeluang rasa bahagia & gembira tu...tak semua orang dapat rasa pengalaman tu kn...so to my ex...in case ko still layan forum n ada bace posting aku ni...walopn ada menda yg aku still terasa geram...aku still nk ucapkan terima kasih sbb pernah bawa rasa bahagia dlm hidup aku...
Tapi kan...dalam bab cari pengganti ni...aku tak tahu la orang lain mcm mane...tp aku sendiri selalu nya akan end up dengan org yg lebey kurang sama je dgn ex yg sebelum2 tu...cm rumet aku kt sekolah dulu pun mcm tu...da putus couple lagi ngn org yg lebey kurang sama je...mungkin ni la nama nye taste kot...pi mai pi mai tang tu gak last2...cuma dlm pale aku slalu terlintas...kalo balik2 pun jumpe org yg lebey kurang sama kn...nape tah aku putus ngn yg 1st one dulu2 kalau apa yg ada pada dia dulu sbenarnye mmg ciri yg aku cari...jodoh la agak nye kn... |
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Reply #1 MsQuerida's post
bg lelaki,
A NO from a girl = "Try again"
"i need time" = try harder
Hitch: Basic Principles - no woman wakes up saying "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!" Now, she might say "This is a really bad time for me," or something like "I just need some space," or my personal favorite "I'm really into my career right now." You believe that? Neither does she. You know why? 'Cause she's lying to you, that's why. You understand me? Lying! It's not a bad time for her. She doesn't need any space. And she may be into her career, but what she's really saying is "Uh, get away from me now," or possibly "Try harder, stupid," but which one is it? 60% of all human communication is nonverbal, body language; 30% is your tone, so that means 90% of what you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth. Of course she's going to lie to you! She's a nice person! She doesn't want to hurt your feelings! What else she going to say? She doesn't even know you... yet. Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us, even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it, and that's where I come in. My job is to open her eyes. Basic Principles - no matter what, no matter when, no matter who... any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet; he just needs the right broom.
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Reply #46 pavlova's post
hahahaha
yer la tu.... tp bila mamat tu try and try, ada yg cair gak kan!
kalau mamat tu terus blah kuar la dialog
" elleh, mamat ni tak kuat berusaha sungguh!" |
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Balas #47 hitamputih\ catat
no pain no gain
no sacrifices no victory  |
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Kalau pompuan tu dah kata TAK NAK, then you as the man should do the right thing:
Angkat kaki, blah & cari yg lain.
For me, no need to waste your time & her time.. |
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Originally posted by zacks at 6-3-2009 13:28 
Kalau pompuan tu dah kata TAK NAK, then you as the man should do the right thing:
Angkat kaki, blah & cari yg lain.
For me, no need to waste your time & her time..
tak kisah. mmg itu yg sepatutnya kalau perempuan tu kate tak nak.
tapi tak perlu all of sudden nak jadi mcm makhluk asing.musuh terhangat.
macam tak pernah kenal. terus memutuskan segala perhubungan yg pernah terbina.
..mcm lelaki tu sebenarnya tak boleh menerima penolakan..
apa perhubungan lelaki dgn perempuan hanya boleh jatuh kategori bercinta jer ker?
if she's not in lurve, then blah~? |
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Originally posted by hitamputih at 6-3-2009 12:25
hahahaha
yer la tu.... tp bila mamat tu try and try, ada yg cair gak kan!
kalau mamat tu terus blah kuar la dialog
" elleh, mamat ni tak kuat berusaha sungguh!"
memang lah...usaha tak seberapa, alih |
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Balas #50 MsQuerida\ catat
thru my exp...YES. sebab tu kalau aku ade BF, susah tol nak dapat kawan lelaki - kawan biasa...mereka beralasan, aku dah ade BF, tak nak kacau. (padahal lom tentu kawin lagik)
and mostly lelaki yang rapat, layan aku baik sesangat, caring maring tue sebab dia suke kat kite....n berniat nak jadi lebih dari kawan...
bile kena reject, lelaki tu maybe malu then jauhkan diri....dan dia rase nak watpe rapat ngan aku sedangkan bukan leh dapat kapel pun...
aku pernah jumpe lelaki yang aku dah jelaskan sejelas2nya yang aku memang tak leh terima dia....
tapi dia nakkkk jugak. sebab dia kata susah nak lupekan aku....
so that's mean bukan dia tak nak cari lain, tapi mungkin yang lain tu tak menarik pada dia....atau mungkin kurang choice... |
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A NO from a girl = "Try again"
"i need time" = try harder
i need time...maksudnya mmg i perlukan masa.masa utk diri sendiri.muhasabah diri sendiri.stabilkan perasaan sendiri.no hidden agenda.tapi mungkin itu utk i yg masih belum recover sepenuhnya.
mungkin i need time utk perempuan yg ready tuk bercinta, could be message die 'try harder'
Originally posted by hitamputih at 6-3-2009 11:54
bg lelaki,
Hitch: Basic Principles - no woman wakes up saying "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!" Now, she might say "This is a really bad time for me," or something like "I just need some space," or my personal favorite "I'm really into my career right now." You believe that? Neither does she. You know why? 'Cause she's lying to you, that's why. You understand me? Lying! It's not a bad time for her. She doesn't need any space. And she may be into her career, but what she's really saying is "Uh, get away from me now," or possibly "Try harder, stupid," but which one is it? 60% of all human communication is nonverbal, body language; 30% is your tone, so that means 90% of what you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth. Of course she's going to lie to you! She's a nice person! She doesn't want to hurt your feelings! What else she going to say? She doesn't even know you... yet. Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us, even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it, and that's where I come in. My job is to open her eyes. Basic Principles - no matter what, no matter when, no matter who... any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet; he just needs the right broom.
She Needs Caring & He Needs Trust
She Needs Understanding & He Needs Acceptance
She Needs Respects & He Needs Appreciation
She Needs Devotion & He Needs Admiration
She Needs Validation & He Needs Approval
She Needs Reassurance & He Needs Encouragement |
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Originally posted by MsQuerida at 6-3-2009 14:07 
A NO from a girl = "Try again"
"i need time" = try harder
i need time...maksudnya mmgi perlukan masa.masa utk diri sendiri.muhasabah diri sendiri.stabilkanperasaan sendiri.no hidden agenda.tapi mungkin itu utk i yg masih belumrecover sepenuhnya.
mungkin i need time utk perempuan yg ready tuk bercinta, could be message die 'try harder'
[quote]Originally posted by hitamputih at 6-3-2009 11:54
bg lelaki,
Hitch: Basic Principles - no woman wakes up saying "God, I hope I don'tget swept off my feet today!" Now, she might say "This is a really badtime for me," or something like "I just need some space," or mypersonal favorite "I'm really into my career right now." You believethat? Neither does she. You know why? 'Cause she's lying to you, that'swhy. You understand me? Lying! It's not a bad time for her. She doesn'tneed any space. And she may be into her career, but what she's reallysaying is "Uh, get away from me now," or possibly "Try harder, stupid,"but which one is it? 60% of all human communication is nonverbal, bodylanguage; 30% is your tone, so that means 90% of what you're sayingain't coming out of your mouth. Of course she's going to lie to you!She's a nice person! She doesn't want to hurt your feelings! What elseshe going to say? She doesn't even know you... yet. Luckily, the factis that just like the rest of us, even a beautiful woman doesn't knowwhat she wants until she sees it, and that's where I come in. My job isto open her eyes. BasicPrinciples - no matter what, no matter when, no matter who... any manhas a chance to sweep any woman off her feet; he just needs the rightbroom.
She Needs Caring & He Needs Trust
She Needs Understanding & He Needs Acceptance
She Needs Respects & He Needs Appreciation
She Needs Devotion & He Needs Admiration
She Needs Validation & He Needs Approval
She Needs Reassurance & He Needs Encouragement [/quote]
Sgt setuju ngan MsQ!
I suke tgk HITCH.. I rase org lelaki mmg patut tgk citer tu |
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Reply #45 hitamputih's post
dulu yer kot............
skrg No= blah
Need time = x yah tunggu ler.........(blajar dr org yg aku pernah mintak masanya)  |
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Reply #57 itik_magic's post
bagi aku
kalau girl tu ckp
i need time = aku -> terus cari lain, sambil maintain ngan dia. bleh? |
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Originally posted by hitamputih at 6-3-2009 15:13
bagi aku
kalau girl tu ckp
i need time = aku -> terus cari lain, sambil maintain ngan dia. bleh?
kalau kite, mmg x kesah. bile dh ckp 'i need time' maksudnye xkesah kalau die jumpe org lain.
sbb x janji ape2 pon lagi. tp same rule apply to me  |
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Reply #58 hitamputih's post
boleh2...............standby yer............. |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 5-3-2009 07:53 PM
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