I HATE YOU BUT I LOVE YOU

Agul · Post time 18-4-2009 11:20 PM

love, yes. always have, always will.

but sometime the form of love changes, especially between men and women. it's never straight forward. bila dah jadi macam tu, bahaya, sebab masing2 sebenarnya nak cinta tu jadi lain, tapi dua2 takut kehilangan love dalam bentuk yang sebelum ni.

takut yang dikejar tak dapat, yang dikendong berciciran.

Agul · Post time 18-4-2009 11:23 PM

entah.

sometime we don't need to have reson to like someone. Infact, i think it's better not to have reason, or condition as conditioon always change.

nak tahu ikhlas ke tak ikhlas, dari ini, memang impossible.

Agul · Post time 18-4-2009 11:25 PM

Originally posted by cekman at 18-4-2009 18:37

actually awak benci kat dia sbb apa??

aku tolong jawab..

tapi jawapan aku mungkin salah sebab aku bukan dia...

dia benci sebab orang tu membuatkan dia rasa sesuatu. yang mungkin campuran antara suka, tak selesa dan macam-macam...

jadi koktel emosi ni yang tak tahan dan buatkankita rasa eh geramnya....

muffins · Post time 27-4-2009 08:08 PM

i hate u but i love u...

for me it just an EGO....

muffins · Post time 27-4-2009 08:21 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 10-4-2009 14:30

The problem with most people is keeping heart. not being direct. Too much teka teki....

And then it was too late.

You always love him/her, she/he always loves you. Both never say anything.

And then it was too late.

sighs...

y.. ??

Agul · Post time 28-4-2009 02:21 AM

people fear rejection. and so they keep it tothemselves. make it secret.

muffins · Post time 28-4-2009 02:30 PM

how about u..?

cekman · Post time 29-4-2009 06:11 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 18-4-2009 23:20
love, yes. always have, always will.

but sometime the form of love changes, especially between men and women. it's never straight forward. bila dah jadi macam tu, bahaya, sebab masing2 sebenar ...

mungkin sebab sudah bosan dengan pasangan...nak kelainan dari segi relationship..but if one is afraid to lose the love then one have to find a way to re ignite it

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cekman · Post time 29-4-2009 06:19 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 18-4-2009 23:23
entah.

sometime we don't need to have reson to like someone. Infact, i think it's better not to have reason, or condition as conditioon always change.

nak tahu ikhlas ke tak ikhlas, dari in ...

so i guess it's better not to say you like someone or adore that person so as not to mislead their feelings

mbhcsf · Post time 29-4-2009 07:02 PM

would this be logical ? hmm why can a person be straight forward too much of "meta " - cognition susah ler dear

Agul · Post time 30-4-2009 05:25 PM

me too. she too. we like to make it more complicated. we like to suffer...

Sometime I wish that I don't have feeling. At least not of that kind.

I think I was invincible forn all these stuff but I was wrong.

Agul · Post time 30-4-2009 05:30 PM

I think I agree with you in that sense.

However in real life I have this bad habit of sweet talking. Sometime it's uncontrollable and cause me trouble...

Men especially should refrain from this. You migt mean well but you may end up hurting someones feeling...

mbhcsf · Post time 30-4-2009 06:06 PM

well...ehhehe...i have no idea where this thread would go....

so what's the conclusion?

love could be costly but is it worth that person's while or effort ?
it 's kind of risk taking too.....

so ni thread yg i tak faham langsung dah?

Agul · Post time 30-4-2009 07:21 PM

I guess, and I might be mistaken. That we cannot use the mind to understand love. At least I can't. Other people might be able to.

mbhcsf · Post time 30-4-2009 08:31 PM

but then tulah tu the interesting part u reckon? i hate you but i love you -- implying that there is some interference of cognition when one is saying this

I hate you ( but i do not understand WHY ) I love you.... nampak tak....? nampak tak? hehehe

the contradiction, the contention the duality ..wow sounded like a novel

wkakakakakaa

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mbhcsf · Post time 30-4-2009 08:33 PM

love is made of these three components : the affect ( emotion), action ( behavioral part ) and motivation ( ? cognition part )

cekman · Post time 30-4-2009 10:04 PM

Originally posted by mbhcsf at 29-4-2009 19:02
would this be logical ? hmm why can a person be straight forward too much of "meta " - cognition susah ler dear

yes...if one doesn't have any feelings for that person..why want to say you have when you don't..

some people who have ulterior motives in a relationship would not be truthful about how they feel....thus they madah berhelah....tak nak berterus terang

cekman · Post time 30-4-2009 10:12 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 30-4-2009 17:30
I think I agree with you in that sense.

However in real life I have this bad habit of sweet talking. Sometime it's uncontrollable and cause me trouble...

Men especially should refrain from ...

haha....aren't some people like to sweet talk...i guess sweet talk is good if you meant it...it makes a person feel good

cekman · Post time 30-4-2009 10:46 PM

Originally posted by mbhcsf at 30-4-2009 18:06
well...ehhehe...i have no idea where this thread would go....

so what's the conclusion?

love could be costly but is it worth that person's while or effort ?
it 's kind of risk taking too. ...

GO with the FLOW...hehehehhe

love is costly and for some it's worth the sacrifices if their love ends happily ever after... so it's up to one's expectation of love...

mbhcsf · Post time 1-5-2009 12:53 PM

Originally posted by cekman at 30-4-2009 22:46

GO with the FLOW...hehehehhe

love is costly and for some it's worth the sacrifices if their love ends happily ever after... so it's up to one's expectation of love...

what is your expectation , then? cares to share with us?

how would you deal with some unmet expectation? ni yg interesting sebab it is quiite rare i suppose for anyone to be Miss Elizabeth Bennet and her Mr Darcy, of course?