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Post time 24-11-2008 01:59 PM | Show all posts
anggapla semua yg berlaku tu satu dugaan dariNya. mana tahu, tuan rumah akan bertemu jodoh yg 100x baik dari ni..Allah Taala tu Maha Adil...yg penting kita tak lupa berdoa & bermunajat minta yg terbaik untuk kita dariNya.
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 Author| Post time 24-11-2008 04:11 PM | Show all posts

Balas #721 blueharp\ catat

Yeah, walaupun berat... i terpaksa. Biarlah dia bahagia dengan anak2 dan isteri dia. Masih mengalir airmata i..

Memang berat.. pedih..terluka.. tapi apa daya I...mak pesan.. biar kita terluka.. tapi jangan orang lain..dan lepaskan orang yang kita sayang.. demi kebahagiaan dia..

I doakan.. semoga bahagia sentiasa milik dia..thanx to you guys..for advices...and views...
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Post time 24-11-2008 04:25 PM | Show all posts
wahh..terkejut dengan keputusan tuan umah..
anyway..congrats for finally making a decision...im not saying its good or bad..God knows  best, but Insya Allah He will guide us all the way..

melupakan seseorang memang susah..especially org yg kita penah sayang sepenuh hati..been there, done that...kuatkan semangat ye..
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Post time 24-11-2008 08:08 PM | Show all posts

Reply #722 exchangeserver's post

tuan umah jgn sedey2 tau..

dats a very brave decision..
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Post time 24-11-2008 08:37 PM | Show all posts
Menarik diri x bermaksud kita kalah n x bahagia kan...........
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Post time 24-11-2008 09:00 PM | Show all posts

Reply #725 lily_kama's post

yeah...menglaah bukan bermksd kalah.......
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 Author| Post time 24-11-2008 11:09 PM | Show all posts
Sedih memang sedih.. tapi nak buat mcm mana. Itu keputusan yang terbaik untuk kedua belah pihak...

sampai sekarang air mata masih lagi tak berhenti..mmg I kena kuat.. melepas kan sesuatu yang teramat I sayang.. demi kebahagiaan dia..

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Post time 24-11-2008 11:20 PM | Show all posts
dan kebahagian u jugak... Insyaallah..

percaya dgn qada dan qadar....
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 Author| Post time 25-11-2008 12:03 AM | Show all posts

Balas #728 lily_kama\ catat

Insyaallah..
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Post time 25-11-2008 08:08 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by exchangeserver at 24-11-2008 11:09 PM
Sedih memang sedih.. tapi nak buat mcm mana. Itu keputusan yang terbaik untuk kedua belah pihak...

sampai sekarang air mata masih lagi tak berhenti..mmg I kena kuat.. melepas kan sesuatu yang  ...


*hugs*
oh there..there...
don't be sad...you don't deserve a cheating lying guy like that...
you're not a desperate or a gullible person yg purcaya kata2 manis laki tu...ataupun lakonan laki tu...kononnya sejiwa sehati...
laki org...biasanya pandai berlakon...berpengalaman ngan pompuan..knows apa yg pompuan tak suka and suka...sampai ada yg purcaya sampai berkawen..

you're going to find a great guy...
some of us have all been there...
masa engko berseorangan ni...take a deep breathe...relax...learn to love yourself...
say to yourself  "i'm special...why should i be stuck with a lying cheating guy...i deserve better....i'm a confident beautiful independent lady...i'm smart...i can find somebody who is more better than him....i'm a woman...i have self-respect and pride...i am not desperate sampai desperate nak berlaki.."
and..from that experience...kita...forget about the past...but learn from the past...
we become more mature....stronger...and tak naif lagi....and not make the same mistake ever again..

nanti...klu...engko meet a guy...do a background check on him...
jangan purcaya bulat2 apa2 yg kluar dari molot dier...
org sekarang ni...laki org kuat menipu...ader org ok with it..go with the flow..walaupun lepas kene tipu...salunya org cam ni tak tau to respect themselves...dan tak tau menghargai diri....ada low self-esteem problem...and they don't love themselves...sampai terjebak ngan laki cam tuh...and they will deny it dorg tak da self-esteem problem...and biasanya dorg don't care pasal org lain....pastuh dorg cakap..."ala...apa salahnya..." they don't care about other ppl's pain...

but you are different...you care about others...

you're young...you will find somebody...

now...cry all you want...sampai puas2...pastuh...held your head up high...becos you know that..
from that experience....you are a new person now...a better one...experience is the best teacher...

remember...forget about the past...but learn from it...

semua org kat sini will be supporting you....

pls kengkawan....bagi nasihat ngan dier...angkatkan semangat dier...don't just leave her like this...she needs ppl to comfort her..and a shoulder to cry on...
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 Author| Post time 25-11-2008 08:22 AM | Show all posts
by letting him go is the best way that can i do. walaupun hati i masih sakit.. dan kesakitan i ini adalah untuk kegembiraan dan kebahagiaan orang lain.. its enough.

i just make a move.. build up new life.. create new story and open new chapter.
Kenangan bersama.. tetap i simpan..

Cuma.. i perlu kuatkan semangat untuk tempuh semua ni...
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Post time 25-11-2008 09:14 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by exchangeserver at 25-11-2008 08:22 AM
by letting him go is the best way that can i do. walaupun hati i masih sakit.. dan kesakitan i ini adalah untuk kegembiraan dan kebahagiaan orang lain.. its enough.

i just make a move.. build ...


believe me...lepas....2 tahun...3 tahun...ataupun jumpa ngan org yg baru maybe more handsomer...younger...charming...better...who knows......
you'd forget about him..

there will always be...a better guy..than the guy you have today...engko tak rugi...becos..you are freely to date others...and cari option baru..

pastuh...when you turn back....ataupun...nanti ader org kongsi or buka thread pasal falling in love ngan laki org...
you'd share....and then nasihat2 org tu...like....some of us that have been thru ..what you've been thru...

we all survive...and menjadi...more caring kat org lain....we become more stronger...and wiser from the experience...
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Post time 25-11-2008 09:24 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by exchangeserver at 24-11-2008 11:09 PM
Sedih memang sedih.. tapi nak buat mcm mana. Itu keputusan yang terbaik untuk kedua belah pihak...

sampai sekarang air mata masih lagi tak berhenti..mmg I kena kuat.. melepas kan sesuatu yang  ...



nasihat aku untuk ko serta utk diri aku jugak...banyak2 kat beribadah..dekatkan diri pada Allah..mudah-mudahan kesedihan tu dapat diredakan..kesedihan diganti dengan ketenangan..anggaplah ni sebagai suratan dariNya ok sista!!
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 Author| Post time 25-11-2008 09:41 AM | Show all posts
thanks guys
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Post time 1-12-2008 11:57 PM | Show all posts

Reply #734 exchangeserver's post

gud luck sis..
wish u all the best..
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Post time 2-12-2008 03:18 PM | Show all posts
emm....nshat aku...ko x yah la truskan cinta ko ngn laki 2....x mmbwa apa2 pun kbikan utk ko....
klo pun ko kwen ngn dia...x tentu lgi ko akn eppy go lucky....
mcm mana dia bt kat bini dia,,mcm 2 juga dia boleh buat dkt ang...
ang lpakan ja dia...aku taw,,,ang pyah nak lupakan dia......sbb ang mmg mncintai dia....klo dia btl2 jjur ngn ang...dia pst akn bertrus trang ngn ko.....
npe plu tpu...???nak mngaku diri bujang,...padahal..??????dah ada bini.......!!x guna la weh....ang nak ke..??nanti....org amek laki ang..????
ang kena pk jgk ape prasaan anak bini dia.......ang pmpuan....ang juga mesti boleh rasa kn...??????so.....do your true dicsioN......ok.....

huh......!lega...aku dah bgi nsihat kt ang....
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Post time 3-12-2008 02:28 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by exchangeserver at 25-11-2008 08:22 AM
by letting him go is the best way that can i do. walaupun hati i masih sakit.. dan kesakitan i ini adalah untuk kegembiraan dan kebahagiaan orang lain.. its enough.

i just make a move.. build ...


actually.. org yang x rasa.. mmg boleh bagi nasihat juta2 kali pun. mmg bley copy paste ayat dlm buku..likes
* jgn buat org mcm tue.. nanti org buat kita balik.
* x kesian ke wife dia..nanti klu u da kawin org buat mcm tue.. what do u feel.
* dia tue gatal.. sebab tu dia nak kat ko.. and ko pun gatal skali..

For those yg x penah involve on this case.. mmg akan pk.. mcm sume org akan pk. dah tau laki tu da kawin yg ko gatal nape.. tp.. tbila anda berada dlm keadaan tu.. baru tau langit tinggi rendah.. telan balik la ayat yang dulu dok ckp kat org. skang nah amek jd kat aku.. mcm mana aku nk handle.. gtu la kekdahnye bila da jd kat diri sendiri. Sebab aku penah rasa mcm nie. so aku tau apa perasaan ko exchangeserver.. mmg payah mmg perit.. dulu aku pun. nangis2. sanggup jd 2nd wife.. sembayang hajat bagai.. apa salah aku.. aku hanya ditakdirkan bercinta dgn dia.. aku sayang dia.. salah ka.. nangis malam2. kawan2 nasihat.. tp dok ingat kwn2 x sayang kita. at least support la sket (sapa nk support waktu nie.. sume mcm menci je) .klu aku x jd dgn dia.. x pelah .. x yah couple dh. sebab berat nk lepaskan dia sume. layanan dia sume tip top. sayang kita bagai . tp allah tu maha penyayang kan. dia tau apa yg terbaik utk kita. kadang2 kita rasa couple kita dah terbaik.. cuma lack sebab dia laki org. mungkin takdir awk dgn husband org.. masih ada kawin dua yang bahagia kan. (ayat pengubat jiwa). satu je aku nk pesan time nk lost dulu.. sembahyang hajat banyak2. klu dia terbaik utk awk.. insyaallah allah akan permudahkan. klu dia bukan utk allah moga allah temukan org yg lagi baik. doalah mcm tu.. Insyaallah..moga yg terbaik saja dlm idup kita. Mcm kes aku.. lama2 akujd lupakan dia. busy dgn keje. tetiba ada org yang muda. ganteng.. solo.. approach.. time tu seronok.. sebab x yah jumpa sorok2. rasa fun. nk g wayang jalan2. sume best. really enjoy life. Baru tau hikmah jumpa dgn lelaki bujang nie. Aku x kata partner ko x baik.. tp mungkin ko lebih baik bersama org lain. Menangis laa.. lepaskan sume rindu dendam .. esok bukak buku baru. Insyaallah.. 'Si teruna bujang' akan dtg utk ko. Aku doakan  utk ko k.
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Post time 3-12-2008 04:45 PM | Show all posts
kononnya dier sorg jerk pernah go thru it...yes the world revolves around you...engko jerk yg pernah kene...
org lain tak penah mengalaminya..

garbage....
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Post time 3-12-2008 05:57 PM | Show all posts
mcm mana pulak kalau kawan aku yg ada affair dgn husband org?
dia ni lain skit. since dia kenal that guy pun dia dah tau mamat tu laki org.
dah ada anak dah pun.

aku nak nasihat tapi aku x tau nak ckp ape.
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Post time 3-12-2008 06:53 PM | Show all posts

Reply #739 maxomeara's post

sila baca dr 1st page...

ada byk nasihat.. yg u mayb leh share dgn kwn u..
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