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Post time 29-1-2018 10:56 PM
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gdspls replied at 29-1-2018 01:53 PM
tt kene tanya la boipren tt tu.. serius ke tidak.. ade target apa dalam hidup dia sebelum kawen..
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Dah pernah tanya tp tiada jawapan.. Then i fikir maybe dia tak bersedia lg kot.. Bila dh makan tahun still sama je tu yang bt i angkat kaki sbb i tak dapat jawapan and tak nampak effort dia nak halalkan hubungan ni |
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Post time 29-1-2018 11:00 PM
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MainemHu replied at 29-1-2018 02:09 PM
Maybe you're not his gf to begin with. Pity you ambik masa 10thn untuk sedar. You have wasted so man ...
Now baru i sedar i dah banyak buang masa.. Itu yang buat i nekad angkat kaki daripada masa i terbuang lg bnyak untuk tahun seterusnya.. Hmmm |
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Post time 29-1-2018 11:10 PM
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mbhcsf replied at 29-1-2018 06:31 PM
move on sebab seorang lelaki kalau dia memang suka kat wanita tu , dia akan commit dengan serious ...
Betul.. Before this i pernah terfikir benda yang sama tp maybe i bodoh still bagi dia masa dan tunggu dia..
But until now still sama je.. So i move on je la sampai bila lagi nk macam ni.. Thanks for the advice.. I learn from my mistakes.. Now i dalam process nak terima semua ni |
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Post time 30-1-2018 06:51 PM
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Post time 30-1-2018 06:52 PM
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fairy_fairy replied at 28-1-2018 08:02 PM
Betul la tindakan uols tu. I pun bagi 3 years jer to my ex untuk halalkan hubungan kitorang. Dah sam ...
Mcm mana u move on time tu? Ke u mmg dh tk rasa syg dgn ex u sbb tunggu lama sangat? |
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10 thn terlalu lama tu.. plg lama pinang 2 thn, paling cepat 3 bulan kawan dah lamar kalau sesuai |
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Pity u but I doakan u dapat jodoh cepat2! Aminnn. Cuba sis kenal2 kat online chat or forum. Kalau u malu nak join jodoh meeting yg open kat hotel ke dewan ke, try lah online. Huhu tinder kan hader. |
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Post time 30-1-2018 09:22 PM
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umbut replied at 30-1-2018 06:57 PM
10 thn terlalu lama tu.. plg lama pinang 2 thn, paling cepat 3 bulan kawan dah lamar kalau sesuai
10 tahun since sekolah lagi tp i terkilan dia lepaskan i macam tu je |
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Post time 30-1-2018 09:25 PM
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evlinne replied at 30-1-2018 08:11 PM
Pity u but I doakan u dapat jodoh cepat2! Aminnn. Cuba sis kenal2 kat online chat or forum. Kalau u ...
Thank you awak.. Amin atas doanya.. Tak ada siapa pun yang nak kenal dgn saya |
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Cerita kita sama la..i think u did the right thing because i did that too. After 10 years...plan asal nak tunang februari ni. In the end i decided nak broke up. I just felt that i cant go on anymore. Already 4 months since i left him..what can i say..70% moved on..another 30% tu mungkin time will heal..good luck sis |
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Post time 31-1-2018 12:05 AM
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rarazira replied at 30-1-2018 10:32 PM
Cerita kita sama la..i think u did the right thing because i did that too. After 10 years...plan asa ...
Tp at least ada juga plan nak bertunang.. I ni langsung tak ada plan.. Lama juga tu u nak move on.. Ada tips macam mana u move on? |
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Bantalkuning replied at 30-1-2018 06:51 PM
I tak kuat .. I ingat i kuat nk tempuh benda ni.. Hari ni i tewas .. Susahnya nk move on ...
Dik oi...grieving needs time of its own..it's ok nak nangis Lepas balik keje..tengah driving ke tengah basuh pinggan ke..one day the time will come when u get tired of crying..and after that, get tired of thinking of him. U can never set a time to move on.. |
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Bantalkuning replied at 31-1-2018 12:05 AM
Tp at least ada juga plan nak bertunang.. I ni langsung tak ada plan.. Lama juga tu u nak move on ...
Takde tips u..just move on..too tired to hadap all these i thought..so move on je..plan tunang tu plan saje..bukan memang nak tunang pun..dah hujung tahun 2017 but still takde progress ke arah plan tunang tu.so i decided enough.stop.f**k this shit.so i move on.please move on sis..ramai lagi kat luar sana yg u belum discover. |
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Jgn sedih sis moga jumpa yg lebih baik... |
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Ini benang gila talak kew?
Tak boleh nak move on?
Kahkhakahkah |
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Bantalkuning replied at 30-1-2018 06:52 PM
Mcm mana u move on time tu? Ke u mmg dh tk rasa syg dgn ex u sbb tunggu lama sangat?
Uishhh sayang sangat2 coz this ex menepati 80% qualities I want in a man. TAPI I lagi sayang diri sendiri. I taknak dah sekadar keluar dating jer. I want strong commitment from his side. I want a ring on my finger. Bila dia cakap in 2 years time pun takde gerenti that we will settle down, I tak nak jadi bodoh and just wait. Iols bukan tambah muda. Early 30's dah. Buatnya, I give him another 2 years and he meets someone else, tak ke I yang bodoh?
Lagipun, I strongly believe, kalau he is my jodoh, he is my jodoh juga. If not, then there is a better man out there for me. Gittewwwww
As for moving on, I menangis and meroyan juga. Tapi I buat begitu di tikar sembahyang yer bukan di facebook, twitter mahupun instagram. Took me about 3 months juga la that crying phase. |
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Eeerrr, eeerrrr, gosh, goshhhhhhhhh
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Bantalkuning replied at 30-1-2018 09:25 PM
Thank you awak.. Amin atas doanya.. Tak ada siapa pun yang nak kenal dgn saya
Belum cuba belum tahu sis. Kalau u dah ada simpanan byk, u berhiaslah sementara tgh muda ada saham niii. Hehe inshaAllah ada la jodohh. Jangan lupa banyakkan berdoa. Aminnn! |
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sis...
berapa lama dah u putus dgn dia?
give it time..time will heal.
lalui lah process meroyan, terkenang, stress..semua tu.. it's part of the process.
I also lalui benda yang sama macam u.. tp i 2 tahun vs u 10 tahun.
if u need someone to talk to, pm me. boleh share2 and motivate each other to do better each day.
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true..
grieving process is normal and mmg kena lalui.. if kita deny the process..tak betul nnt jadinya
I siap pergi holiday mcm2 tempat sebab nak move on.. last holiday i ckp kt diri i "Kenapa aku perlu buat semua ni utk move on dr dia? aku boleh move on sendiri..and no more trips, shopping just to relieve myself from him, do things for ME"
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