boyfren buat hal...teruskan atau putuskan??

kikilalat

Originally posted by siape_aku at 11-1-2008 11:20 AM
die tak nak aku buat ape2...so how can i support him bile die sendiri tak benarkan??  ...

based on experience aku lah kan... kengkadang, all your man need is space & time to sort things out on his own... macam laki aku, bukan nyer jenis nak share2 problem ker aper...


but what you can do, masa dia senyap tuh, masa dia cakap ader problem but he takmo discuss... ko senyap jer la... sesetengah lelaki lain from pompuan... masalah dorang, dorang suka selesai sendiri2... they just nak u be patient while they resolve their issues...


support tak semesti nyer pertolongan yg 'nampak'.... pertolongan of giving him space & time matters as well... understanding plak, dari segi kalo dia kata tak bley support diri sendiri, ckp ler ko bley support buat sementara waktu... until he finds his bearing balik... dengan syarat he mesti tak berhento berusaha... ko support emosi, mental & wang ringgit la while he's down on his luck...

hitamputih

Originally posted by badreena at 11-1-2008 11:31 AM
bad penah kena mcm ni...









dan kesudahannya..dia bukan setkt ada masalah keja or duit..




tp dah nikah.

dah jd laki org.

dah jd bapa org.

so berhati2 la...jgn per ...

well tak semua org sama......................


tp as en hardey cakap, what bygone be bygone....................

sama sama kita pelajari moral of the story ek

hitamputih

Originally posted by hardeyboyz at 11-1-2008 11:33 AM
huhuu.. sekali 3 post siape_aku respon..

udah udah le.. rasanya case dah closed dah.. tuan thread dah finalise dia punya decision berdasarkan post post forumer sebelumnya..


so jangan ...

kikilalat

[quote]Originally posted by siape_aku at 11-1-2008 11:27 AM
walaupon aku terpaksa tolak permintaan die yg mcm2 (nak ringan

hitamputih

Originally posted by kikilalat at 11-1-2008 11:45 AM


aku TERlepas pandang yang ini...


CUT YOUR LOSSES & DUMP HIM PRONTO!.... dia bukan a good husband material!

tanak komen pasal ni........................nnti jadi topik baru

siape_aku

~~about u sms, call tak angkat for week(s) tu, u pun tau waktu tu dia tgh ada probs kan, not that dia cari lain kan, its nothing wrong on pikir negatif bila di treat camtu, but jgnlaaa after u dah faham condition dia still, u put the blame. ~~

harap maklum.....aku hanya tau die ade prob lepas die menyepi lebih dari seminggu...itu pon aku terpaksa hantar sms merayu die reply msg aku bgtau that he is in safe conditon.....maybe kau tak pernah hadapi bende gini...bile hati dh syg...ape je pasal die kite nak tau kan...aku tak pernah sekat privacy die...nak g karaoke...nak g disko...g pub..memancing dgn kwn2 die...aku tak pernah halang...aku tak pernah soh die report kat aku mane die nak pegi....bile die soh aku cari bf lain...aku terus fikir "takkan aku nak terhegeh

siape_aku

Originally posted by kikilalat at 11-1-2008 11:45 AM


aku TERlepas pandang yang ini...


CUT YOUR LOSSES & DUMP HIM PRONTO!.... dia bukan a good husband material!

i know...but he promise me he will change...aku tak pakse die berubah immediately...cume aku mintak die hormat aku sebagai perempuan....sbb die pon ade adik perempuan...die pon mesti tak suke bile lelaki lain buat adik die camtu....

itik_magic

hmmmmmmmmmm.................................

hitamputih

Originally posted by siape_aku at 11-1-2008 11:47 AM
~~about u sms, call tak angkat for week(s) tu, u pun tau waktu tu dia tgh ada probs kan, not that dia cari lain kan, its nothing wrong on pikir negatif bila di treat camtu, but jgnlaaa after u da ...

mmmmmmm mmg in the very first place u dah terpikir nak break, okaylaa taknak kacau ur emo right now

but try to learn from the moral of the story ek......

hitamputih

Originally posted by itik_magic at 11-1-2008 11:51 AM
hmmmmmmmmmm.................................

aku suka arr post ko ni itik, mmg kena pada masanya

nak wat jgaklaaaa
hmmmmmmmmmm......................................

kikilalat

Originally posted by siape_aku at 11-1-2008 11:47 AM
...nak g karaoke...nak g disko...g pub.. ...

yang nih pun dia promise nak berubah ker?


mamat tuh solat tak weih????

siape_aku

die semyg....tu la aku ckp...kdg2 die mcm ustaz...kdg2 die mcm setannye....takpe la...biar je la mcm ni....solo lagi bagus...takde nak pening kepala....kite je sibuk2 nak risaukan hal die...tp die tak haragai pon...

itik_magic

kalu selesa teruskan....kalu derita belah ler....tiada ikatan lg apa ade hal.

ena1986

6 bulan tu terlalu awal lagi nak jangka hubungan ni..banyak2la bersbar, kalo da takleh sabar tu putus je la

siape_aku

huhuhu...aku pon nmpk itu je jln penyelesaian nye...sekurang2 bagi mase kat kitorg berdua utk kenal n tau ape kehendak hati yg sebenarnye

hardeyboyz

dah abih lom? aku nak mitak momod lock thread nih..


case closed...  

siape_aku

tutup je la...aku masuk nak tanye pendapat..aku plak yg dipersalahkan...huhuhu sabo je la....

hitamputih

maaf kalau awak tak dpt terima pendpt sy

hardeyboyz

Originally posted by siape_aku at 11-1-2008 03:53 PM
tutup je la...aku masuk nak tanye pendapat..aku plak yg dipersalahkan...huhuhu sabo je la....

biasa la tu... kene sedia menerima apa jua pandangan dan kutukan..

tapi yg pasti decision is urs to make..

lumrahla ada orang yg sependapat dgn kita.. ada orang bila sebut pasal kreta  dia terbayang kancil..ada orang terbayang wira, ade orang terbayang merz..

momod limi.. close thread!!!1

kikilalat

Originally posted by siape_aku at 11-1-2008 03:53 PM
tutup je la...aku masuk nak tanye pendapat..aku plak yg dipersalahkan...huhuhu sabo je la....

aku tak paham la... ko ingat, kalo tanya pendapat... sumer orang punyer pendapat akan macam ko jugak ker?

sumer orang akan sokong ko & tenyeh ex ko? berdasarkan a one sided story?

kita tanya pendapat sebab nak dapatkan others nyer point of view... which may differ from yours...