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Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)
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xper...aku x mengharap pape pn dr dia...just go with the flow
mayb dia selesa anggap aku sebagai kwn n not more than thats
thankss ifan  |
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kalo aku tinggalkan dia...ko rs ader ke pape impak pd diri dia  |
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Post Last Edit by ifanonline at 6-11-2009 17:48
887# yoshimitsu
apa maksud u nak tinggalkan dia? you're not in a relationship in the first place? konsep tinggal-meninggal ni tak boleh di pakai kalau setakat kawan2... |
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kalo stakat kwn2 mmg xleh ek pakai konsep nih...hehehe
xperla..aku kwn jer la dgn dia smp dua2 bertemu jodoh dgn pasangan masing2 |
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jawapan kepada soalan pertama,
mamat tu akan cuba menegur you dalam aper jua keadaan, samada di khalayak ramai mahupun bersendirian, dia akan
cuba tanya u pelbagai soalan seperti apa kabar? da ...
ifanonline Post at 15-8-2006 23:03 
Neh terjadi kt aku tp mamat tu dah ada gf.... Cm mana lak tu??
Harap leh bg jawapan ye |
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890# kasidah
mintak tolong citer background skit...baru boleh buat analisis |
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891# ifanonline
Owh sowie.. Ade lah mamat kt office dia mcm prihatin kt I, hantar balik, offer I makanan, minuman (dr pantry hehe) puji bj cantek, dia pasang telinga dgn conversation phone I and penah sekali kite lambat join kekewan lain g lunch so meja dah penuh tp kekawan offer gak tuk tarik kerusi lain tp dia xnak (huhuhu) alasan dia kata meja xjauh dr kekawan so masih leh sembang. Tp last2 kite due je sembang sesama sendiri. tanya itu ini hal keja things cam tu ar tapi dia ada gf baru 2bulan couple. Dlm email penah ckp "thanks sweetie...."
Waktu tu satu hari I senyum sorang2 hahaha.....
Harap background dah jelas. |
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892# kasidah
i see...his in the exploring phase...dier nak tengok u ada potensi atau tidak, regardless dier ade girlfriend, his looking into the possibility whether you fit the bill or not. |
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894# orosmaini
cinta terhadap wang ringgit... |
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Post Last Edit by kasidah at 3-12-2009 21:36
893# ifanonline
Hurm.... thanks. Tapi I ada additional info lar, td kt office mamat tu nak suap I coklat hihihi.
Actually I gave him a chocolate bar that he took a small piece off then I got closer to him to see the choc texture. He wanted to feed me instead coz he missunderstood my body language hahaha. I was quite amused though, hey but still no strings attached wakaka.... |
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896# kasidah
nature calls...literally.. |
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Post Last Edit by ifanonline at 4-12-2009 15:39
Ladies, below are things to ponder upon during your relationship...
1. A man doesn’t like to be rejected sexually. Men have a sexual drive that when ignored can want him to turn to other means for gratification. Married women should always be there for their husband’s even when they don’t feel like it. This is not out of duty or responsibility, but out of love for the man you married. A husband needs his wife to want him.
2. A man does not want to be dominated by a woman. When a wife takes the helm and controls situations and state of affairs in the home and marriage, a husband becomes less likely to want to get involved or do anything at all. This is why some husband’s just go ahead and let their wife’s tell them what to do, it is much easier to let her take control than to constantly argue, fuss, and fight. But this is not right.
Why do you think men complain about taking out the garbage? Think about it for a minute. It is demeaning, as if that is all he can do. But a man’s job is to be the spiritual leader, provider, protector, and authority of the home. We shouldn’t be in such a hurry to undermine our husband’s position. Give it back to your husband where it belongs. He needs to take the lead in the home.
3. A man does not want to be belittled, criticized, or treated as a child. Why would a wife belittle her husband? It goes back to why she feels the need to control everything in the marriage. Some women think their husband’s can’t do anything right, or as good as she can do it, and so treat them with contempt. The problem is, many women want things done their way and don’t give their husband’s a chance to do anything.
Most men because of being treated in such a fashion end up releasing their negative emotions and frustrations through outside means. Ladies, if your husband is cold and distant with you, and you’re not sure why, it could be the way you are treating him. A man needs to be treated like a man, and if his manhood is constantly undermined by a nagging and controlling wife than he isn’t going to stick around and keep taking it. Let your man feel good about who he is by praising him for his efforts and accomplishments. A man needs to be admired by his woman, plain and simple. As his wife you should be looking for ways to make him feel good about the man he is.
4. A man doesn’t want a woman who can’t cook. One way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Men like to eat good tasty food every single day. As the cook in the home, we wives should also make sure that the food we do cook is healthful as well. We want our husband’s to enjoy the meal but we also want him to be full of energy and feeling well physically. It is our job to take control of what our husband eats and serve him tasty home cooked healthy meals.
5. A man doesn’t want a woman who clings to him and won’t give him space and freedom with his friends. We all need and want balance in our life. One way to get that balance is for husband and wife to have a friend or hobby to enjoy their time with once in awhile.
Some women feel deprived or jealous when a husband goes out with his friends. She wants him to spend his spare time with her. If a man has taken care of his responsibilities in the home and his wife doesn’t need him for anything, he should be given the freedom to go play golf, hunt or whatever it is he does. Come on ladies, don’t cling to him like a puppy dog, men hate that. Let him go have some fun on his own. Believe me, when he comes home, he will be a happier man.
6. Men don’t like want women who have foul mouths and behave like one of the guys. Men don’t want to compete with the woman in their life on any level, especially in the manhood area. A man has usually been with the guys all day at work, and he needs to come home to a beautiful feminine wife. Be there for him, ladies, show him what you got in the feminine department. He’ll be glad he came home! Be lovely, kind, and affectionate, even if he comes home with a bad attitude. This is where you can take control of the marriage by giving yourself to your husband.
And some of us thinks that relationship is easy... |
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doc,aku ni xlah berpengalaman dalam bercinta.tapi aku nk tanya la..
1.apa yg dimaksudkan dengan caring?maksud aku caring yg tidak membosankan.xkan nk tanya awak sihat ke x hari2 kan.ada cara laen x nk express yg kita betul2 caring ngn dia.
aku tanya cm2 sebab aku nk cuba kali ke-2 selepas dia mintak "slowdown".dia skang rasa aku ni xlebih dari besfren dia saja.
lepas dia mintak slowdown.dia macam laen lah,walaopon aku chat ngn dia as fren.xde romantik2 pon.msj pon dia sengaja lambat2 kan..
aku serius nk cuba sekali sebab aku betul2 cintakan dia.
ada nasihat doc apa yg perlu aku buat? |
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lupa cakap aku ni laki.xpe ker bg soklan kt sini? |
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900# baronista
thread neh especially for ladies, u neh gent so kira xspecial ar... hehehehe |
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Post Last Edit by kasidah at 4-12-2009 20:36
I like this part :-
6. Men don’t like want women who have foul mouths and behave like one of the guys. Men don’t want to compete with the woman in their life on any level, especially in the manhood area. A man has usually been with the guys all day at work, and he needs to come home to a beautiful feminine wife. Be there for him, ladies, show him what you got in the feminine department. He’ll be glad he came home! Be lovely, kind, and affectionate, even if he comes home with a bad attitude. This is where you can take control of the marriage by giving yourself to your husband. |
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899# baronista
Hello baronista,
I think you are the romantic type...you want to be romantic but certain ladies could not accept romance to much, either they are immature or too mature...
I think the girl you're trying to be with, looks at you as a clingy guy, too much attention given to her by you. Try not being to clingy, you can be caring without being clingy. Call/SMS her every 2 or 3 days...not everyday! Once in a while during weekends, take her out for lunch or dinner.
The best way to know if a girl is interested in a guy or not, she always pay for lunch/dinner on the second date. If she doesn't pay for the second, she's not interested in you and you might as well don't waste your time with her. |
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903# ifanonline
thanks for the advice doc.  |
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Nik Aziz says higher dowry may mean more old maids
KOTA BARU, Dec 11 — Mentri Besar Datuk Nik Abdul Aziz Nik Mat is against raising the dowry for Muslim women for fear that many of them may end up as old maids.
"We do not propose to raise the dowry in Kelantan and will retain the existing regulation," he told reporters when asked to comment on the Selangor government's decision to raise the dowry in the state from RM80 to RM300 effective Jan 1 next year.
Nik Abdul Aziz said he did not care much for dowries, including the dowries for his children when they got married.
"I set not more than RM1,000 (including gifts) for the dowry for each of my children," he said after delivering the Friday sermon here.
He said demanding very high dowries and gifts was just to show off.
The Kelantan Islamic Family Enactcment does not fix a specific sum as dowry for those intending to get married in the state. — Bernama
Even love has become political...any old maids in this forum? hehe... |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 5-11-2009 11:45 PM
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