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Author: winsonyu

Lessons of Life - Relationships

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Post time 13-9-2016 04:24 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I'm one was ldr in marriage. But failed. After 9 yrs fren..almost 3yrs marriage..he has another girl. We divorced with 1 daughter. I je yg loyal till day 1..die yg berubah hati.

Can i blame the ldr?


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 Author| Post time 13-9-2016 06:14 PM | Show all posts
pichee replied at 13-9-2016 04:24 PM
I'm one was ldr in marriage. But failed. After 9 yrs fren..almost 3yrs marriage..he has another girl ...

Kinda like the same like what happen to me...
Cant blame anyone I guess...except the person who changed heart...yes...ldr is definately hard and it does takes 1000% commitment....and human as we are....we cant live alone
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Post time 13-9-2016 09:30 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 30-8-2016 12:49 AM
Part 5

I am currently advicing another forumer here about love and relationship. I wont mention w ...

Thanks for the advice. Saya pun tak pernah ada relationship dan tak pernah dingorat atau mengorat. Benda pasal relationship ni agak menakutkan dalam pikiran saya. Tak tahu mcm mana nak handle orang baru dalam kehidupan. Lebih2 lagi untuk hidup bersama ke akhir hayat. However, sooner or later saya akan laluinya juga.
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 Author| Post time 13-9-2016 10:40 PM | Show all posts
Missfadh replied at 13-9-2016 09:30 PM
Thanks for the advice. Saya pun tak pernah ada relationship dan tak pernah dingorat atau mengorat. ...

Mcm yg saya kaya...kita sebagai manusia bukan dicipta utk hidup seorg....so yes...sooner or later u will have to go through it....tapi selagi kawin, kalau boleh, perlulah melalui beberapa perhubungan sampai lah dapat seorg yg u boleh bersama sepanjang hayat...

These experiences are pricelss..and will help u to become a better person and a better partner...so dont be afraid to go through it...human makes mistakes and that is the only way to learn

Good luck
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Post time 14-9-2016 12:01 AM | Show all posts
sttingersattack replied at 11-9-2016 07:09 AM
Kau kawen kaum sejenis kau ya udah.......Tak payah nak serabut kan otak ko.....

Kahkahkah

haishh.. stinger ni.. tak abis2 dgn kempen perkahwinan gay dia.. dah la tu.. pi main jauh2.. syohh syohhh..

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Post time 14-9-2016 01:07 PM | Show all posts
terma2nkondisi2 replied at 9-9-2016 06:32 PM
memang.. susah betul nak pahamkan makhluk bernama pompuan ni..

kan dh ckp xpayah faham perempuan..


sayang je ckup..ikut je feelnya asalkn xmelmpau sudah....


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Post time 14-9-2016 01:08 PM | Show all posts
sue_0684 replied at 12-9-2016 10:58 AM
sebab i pun perempuan.hihi.. kalau dia sedih ke,marah ke, frust ke, yg lelaki kena tahu nak buat a ...

...kan..
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Post time 14-9-2016 06:53 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
awanjingga replied at 14-9-2016 01:08 PM
...kan..

hehe..tapi nk jumpa lelaki yg bleh handle emosi ppn ni bukan mudah.i mean yg serasi dgn kita, yg bleh handle emosi kita.bak kata ajai, sherasi bersama.
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Post time 14-9-2016 06:58 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 12-9-2016 11:32 AM
Yes...be her punching bag or to let her release everything...ir a shoudler to cry on

sbb tu lah winson, ppn single mudah tertarik dgn suami orang.
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Post time 14-9-2016 09:17 PM | Show all posts
sue_0684 replied at 14-9-2016 06:53 PM
hehe..tapi nk jumpa lelaki yg bleh handle emosi ppn ni bukan mudah.i mean yg serasi dgn kita, yg b ...

Btul la tu..pyah nk jmpa yg serasi..yg sllu jmpa yg buat kita makan hati..
Malas nk byk songeh ..kita terima je lah seadanya ..kann

Xhabis2 boleh bawa berbincang.hujung2 nak kena dgr ckp dorg juga..walaupun ada setengh perkara tu xberapa nk betul..
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 Author| Post time 14-9-2016 09:50 PM | Show all posts
sue_0684 replied at 14-9-2016 06:58 PM
sbb tu lah winson, ppn single mudah tertarik dgn suami orang.

Hmmm...yeah..maybe sbb hubby org dah ade experience tahu mcm mana nak mengambik hati perempuan ataupun almost know how to be a friend to a women
then dari kawan, perempuan lambat laun akan tertarik dgn lelaki tu sbb being touched by the heart

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 Author| Post time 14-9-2016 09:52 PM | Show all posts
@awanjingga dan @sue_0684.....mai jumpa minum teh.....
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Post time 14-9-2016 10:09 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 14-9-2016 09:52 PM
@awanjingga dan @sue_0684.....mai jumpa minum teh.....

maybe one fine day..;))
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 Author| Post time 14-9-2016 10:12 PM | Show all posts

5th rule of understanding women...when a girl says maybe...its almost 99% NO!!!
Lol
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Post time 14-9-2016 10:18 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 14-9-2016 10:12 PM
5th rule of understanding women...when a girl says maybe...its almost 99% NO!!!
Lol

hhaha
....not fully NO for me, for muslim we will say Insya Allah, meaning that if GOD allow it, we will meet one day,who knows..
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 Author| Post time 14-9-2016 10:53 PM | Show all posts
sue_0684 replied at 14-9-2016 10:18 PM
hhaha
....not fully NO for me, for muslim we will say Insya Allah, meaning that if GOD allow it,  ...

I know Insya Allah my dear....im not born yesterday....hahahhahahaha
Most of the time, god is willing, but the humans are not...lol

Prove me wrong then....
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Post time 14-9-2016 10:57 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 14-9-2016 10:53 PM
I know Insya Allah my dear....im not born yesterday....hahahhahahaha
Most of the time, god is wil ...

..correct then..
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Post time 14-9-2016 11:12 PM | Show all posts
sue_0684 replied at 11-9-2016 02:00 PM
kau nk phm ppn mmg sampai sudah x phm.kena pandai handle emosi diorang je.

dalam satu tinjauan yang telah dilakukan.. ada tiga kes

kes 1

mula-mula.. "ish.. aku x suka laki merokok.. tak jaga kesihatan.. bau rokok.. nafas berbau.. aku sungguh tak suka dgn lelaki yg merokok"

akhirnya couple juga dgn lelaki merokok dgn alasan.. "ye la.. walaupun dia merokok tapi dia baik orangnya.. penyayang dan sering ambil  berat tentang diri aku"..

kes 2

mula-mula.. "ish.. aku cukup x suka dgn lelaki cakap kasar ni.. x sopan.. aku cukup tak suka dgn lelaki yg tak reti jaga perkataan2 yg keluar dari mulut"

akhirnya couple juga dgn lelaki yg cakap kasar dgn alasan.. "ye la.. walaupun dia tu kasar tapi jauh di dalam hatinya dia seorang yang baik.. caring.. loving.. orang luar x nmpk yg dia sbnrnya seorg yg penyayang.."

kes 3

mula-mula.. "ish.. aku sungguh benci dgn lelaki playboy ni.. mulut manis.. miang.. suka permainkan perasaan orang perempuan.. aku sngt benci dgn lelaki yang berskandal sana sini.."

akhirnya couple juga dgn lelaki playboy dgn alasan.. "ye la.. walaupun dia tu playboy, tapi tu sifat luaran dia je.. hati dia baik sebenarnya.. dia lonely sbnrnya.. hanya aku je yg memahami dia sepenuhnya.. dan orang yg sangat baik sebenarnya.."

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huhu.. pelik sungguh

ok la.. dah paham dah.. perempuan bukan utk difahami..

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Post time 14-9-2016 11:32 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by awanjingga at 14-9-2016 11:40 PM
winsonyu replied at 14-9-2016 09:52 PM
@awanjingga dan @sue_0684.....mai jumpa minum teh.....

Ada rezeki nk jumpa..nanti kita jumpalah..kl bkn jauh sgt pun..

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 Author| Post time 14-9-2016 11:39 PM | Show all posts
awanjingga replied at 14-9-2016 11:32 PM
Ada rezeki nk jumpa..nanti kita jumpalah..kl bkn jauh sgt pun..

Rezeki berada di tangan sendiri......hehehhehehehee for sure I dont mind meeting for coffee...then we can share more
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