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I'm one was ldr in marriage. But failed. After 9 yrs fren..almost 3yrs marriage..he has another girl. We divorced with 1 daughter. I je yg loyal till day 1..die yg berubah hati.
Can i blame the ldr?
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Kinda like the same like what happen to me...
Cant blame anyone I guess...except the person who changed heart...yes...ldr is definately hard and it does takes 1000% commitment....and human as we are....we cant live alone
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winsonyu replied at 30-8-2016 12:49 AM
Part 5
I am currently advicing another forumer here about love and relationship. I wont mention w ...
Thanks for the advice. Saya pun tak pernah ada relationship dan tak pernah dingorat atau mengorat. Benda pasal relationship ni agak menakutkan dalam pikiran saya. Tak tahu mcm mana nak handle orang baru dalam kehidupan. Lebih2 lagi untuk hidup bersama ke akhir hayat. However, sooner or later saya akan laluinya juga. |
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Mcm yg saya kaya...kita sebagai manusia bukan dicipta utk hidup seorg....so yes...sooner or later u will have to go through it....tapi selagi kawin, kalau boleh, perlulah melalui beberapa perhubungan sampai lah dapat seorg yg u boleh bersama sepanjang hayat...
These experiences are pricelss..and will help u to become a better person and a better partner...so dont be afraid to go through it...human makes mistakes and that is the only way to learn
Good luck
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haishh.. stinger ni.. tak abis2 dgn kempen perkahwinan gay dia.. dah la tu.. pi main jauh2.. syohh syohhh..
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...kan..
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awanjingga replied at 14-9-2016 01:08 PM
...kan..
hehe..tapi nk jumpa lelaki yg bleh handle emosi ppn ni bukan mudah.i mean yg serasi dgn kita, yg bleh handle emosi kita.bak kata ajai, sherasi bersama. |
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winsonyu replied at 12-9-2016 11:32 AM
Yes...be her punching bag or to let her release everything...ir a shoudler to cry on
sbb tu lah winson, ppn single mudah tertarik dgn suami orang. |
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Hmmm...yeah..maybe sbb hubby org dah ade experience tahu mcm mana nak mengambik hati perempuan ataupun almost know how to be a friend to a women
then dari kawan, perempuan lambat laun akan tertarik dgn lelaki tu sbb being touched by the heart
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winsonyu replied at 14-9-2016 09:52 PM
@awanjingga dan @sue_0684.....mai jumpa minum teh.....
maybe one fine day..;)) |
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5th rule of understanding women...when a girl says maybe...its almost 99% NO!!!
Lol
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winsonyu replied at 14-9-2016 10:12 PM
5th rule of understanding women...when a girl says maybe...its almost 99% NO!!!
Lol
hhaha
....not fully NO for me, for muslim we will say Insya Allah, meaning that if GOD allow it, we will meet one day,who knows.. |
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I know Insya Allah my dear....im not born yesterday....hahahhahahaha
Most of the time, god is willing, but the humans are not...lol
Prove me wrong then....
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winsonyu replied at 14-9-2016 10:53 PM
I know Insya Allah my dear....im not born yesterday....hahahhahahaha
Most of the time, god is wil ...
..correct then.. |
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dalam satu tinjauan yang telah dilakukan.. ada tiga kes
kes 1
mula-mula.. "ish.. aku x suka laki merokok.. tak jaga kesihatan.. bau rokok.. nafas berbau.. aku sungguh tak suka dgn lelaki yg merokok"
akhirnya couple juga dgn lelaki merokok dgn alasan.. "ye la.. walaupun dia merokok tapi dia baik orangnya.. penyayang dan sering ambil berat tentang diri aku"..
kes 2
mula-mula.. "ish.. aku cukup x suka dgn lelaki cakap kasar ni.. x sopan.. aku cukup tak suka dgn lelaki yg tak reti jaga perkataan2 yg keluar dari mulut"
akhirnya couple juga dgn lelaki yg cakap kasar dgn alasan.. "ye la.. walaupun dia tu kasar tapi jauh di dalam hatinya dia seorang yang baik.. caring.. loving.. orang luar x nmpk yg dia sbnrnya seorg yg penyayang.."
kes 3
mula-mula.. "ish.. aku sungguh benci dgn lelaki playboy ni.. mulut manis.. miang.. suka permainkan perasaan orang perempuan.. aku sngt benci dgn lelaki yang berskandal sana sini.."
akhirnya couple juga dgn lelaki playboy dgn alasan.. "ye la.. walaupun dia tu playboy, tapi tu sifat luaran dia je.. hati dia baik sebenarnya.. dia lonely sbnrnya.. hanya aku je yg memahami dia sepenuhnya.. dan orang yg sangat baik sebenarnya.."
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huhu.. pelik sungguh
ok la.. dah paham dah.. perempuan bukan utk difahami..
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Edited by awanjingga at 14-9-2016 11:40 PM
winsonyu replied at 14-9-2016 09:52 PM
@awanjingga dan @sue_0684.....mai jumpa minum teh.....
Ada rezeki nk jumpa..nanti kita jumpalah..kl bkn jauh sgt pun..
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Rezeki berada di tangan sendiri......hehehhehehehee for sure I dont mind meeting for coffee...then we can share more |
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