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berapa byk sorang lelaki perlu EARN untuk layak jadi suami?
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Originally posted by idhamriza at 3-1-2008 01:39 AM 
Married for 12 years with 3 kids, RM7.2k is more than enough for us.
boleh tau.. duk mana? kl ke JB ke penang? |
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5k seisi rmh ok lah... klu gaji tak naik2, tak yah buat anak reramai.. 1,2 cukup ahhh... |
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salam
apa yg hana bagi tu memang expenses kalau duk kat kl..utk kategori middle class..terrace house..maid sorang...2 kereta...bulan2 kena bagi parents...RM 10k tu baru ideal.....bilale nakcukup duit??? so laki2 kena le creative utk cari duit extra... |
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tiada hard & fast rule tentang ini. terlalu banyak faktor comes into play. cost of living, geographically, dietary preferences, personal expectations, spending habits, contentment level, etc. contohnya di ipoh, seorang kerani gaji ratusan RM saja tapi mampu menyara 2 bini dan anak-anak. semuanya bahagia. having every duniawi thing does not equate to happiness. ramai yang bahagia walaupun dalam kekurangan.
kalau gaji anda RM15000 sebulan pun, tapi kalau anda tak 'mampu' bahagiakan isteri (secara zahir & batin) dan anak-anak, layakkah anda?
kalau gaji suami anda RM15000 sebulan pun dan mampu bahagiakan anak-anak tapi anda yang tak bahagia, cuba fikir kembali, layakkah anda jadi isteri? seharusnya anda jadi pelacur jalanan dan cuba cari income RM15000 sebulan. kalau anda berkerjaya bagus pun, silakan cari suami dan anak-anak yang lain. anda tidak layak untuk suami dan anak-anak anda yang ada sekarang kerana anda utamakan material things melebihi diri mereka. |
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Balas #105 Gemukkkkkkk\ catat
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aper bender kor cakap mukkkkkkk?? |
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Originally posted by sarahmirza at 30-12-2007 12:38 PM
Will you blame your GF if she run away from you who have no job? - obviously no one wants to suffer.
You have a job but 'kocek tak berat' - then my advise, whenever you meet a woman, just be ...
Good advice... |
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Bila la laki aku nak dapat gaji RM10K sebulan...
Laki aku masa mula2 kerja, tolak bayar itu ini gaji tinggal ratus2 aje, aku pulak takde gaji. Dgn duit beberapa ratus tu la kitorang beli susu anak, beli pampers, bayar minyak keta, beli makan pakai detergent etc. Cukup2 makan aje tapi still cukup, sebab kitorang berjimat cermat.
Sekarang gaji dah naik sikit, tapi still after bayar sewa rumah, bayar bil etc duit laki aku tinggal ratus2 jugak sebab skrg ada maid, ada astro, bayar bil kad kredit etc. Pokoknya manusia ni kalau gaji banyak, maka biasanya perbelanjaannya pun banyak sebab dah rasa makin 'mampu'.  |
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to tuan rumah senang kata gini la...ni utk kes frugal la (kes jimat tahap gila gila)
1. utk nak kawin gaji rm1K cukup utk kumpol duit...bukan utk majlis grand, utk hidup lepas kawin
2. baru kawin sampai ada baby rm1K - rm 2K - kalau idup bandar besar cam KL, penang, JB...tapi tu pun sesak skit, kalau dua dua kerja kena pk duit susu,pampers, nursery, transport yg sesuai
3. anak 2-3, rm 2K - 3K
4. anak-anak start sekolah, rm 4K+++, |
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Originally posted by Hana at 3-1-2008 11:20 AM
boleh tau.. duk mana? kl ke JB ke penang?
Answered. Post #110 |
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Reply #110 idhamriza's post
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possible...tgk lifestyle la |
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Gaji 7.5K anak 3 bini tak kerja...cukup sgt le...
umah doble storey..
elaun bini 600 - kalo anta nursery pun baya camni gak..
keta 2 - 1 habis bayar
masak kat umah...
memang bole sgt la... |
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Reply #114 koko2's post
cik koko2..nape tak komen2 ape2 ttg my calculation?  |
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Originally posted by idhamriza at 3-1-2008 02:14 PM 
Serius. Tak percaya? Duduk area Selangor yang blh access melalui LDP.
My tanggungan, installment 4 rooms double storey house, 1+1 cars (satu lagi dah habis loan) & ada 3kids between 10 ...
oo..maknanye.. loan tu 2 benda shj laa - umah double storey + 1 kete.
kalau ikut my calculation ..ada 3 loan = 2 kete + 1 umah double storey..and plus kasi duit kt mak sendiri & mak mertua..pastu kena balik kg lagi..sbb tu leh cecah rm10K.
yela..kalau balik kg..tak kan ler tak hulur2 beli brg2 basah kan? impposible.. paling koman2..rm200 kena kasi utk duit belanja2..(aside dgn duit elaun tiap2 bulan).. |
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Reply #115 Hana's post
aku nak komen ape...?
itu la cabaran idop berlaki bini... |
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Originally posted by Hana at 3-1-2008 03:22 PM
oo..maknanye.. loan tu 2 benda shj laa - umah double storey + 1 kete.
kalau ikut my calculation ..ada 3 loan = 2 kete + 1 umah double storey..and plus kasi duit kt mak sendiri & mak mertua ...
Kalau ikut my calculation;
installment:
apartment 700,
rumah (top up) 250
kereta 800 (agak je la, satu lagi kereta dah habis hutang)
saving anak 600
education fund 500
saving sendiri 500
welfare 350
household 1500 (cukup kot termasuk susu, pampers)
maid 350
bills 300
ini je dah dekat 6k, belum masuk belanja nak poya2, minyak dgn tol balik kampung etc. Nak offer gaji 6k jek, mana cukup. |
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Post time 3-1-2008 08:15 AM
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