Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)

princessjay

ifanonline posted on 5-9-2013 11:28 PM
salam semua,

lama dah tak put my thoughts on love and relationship...tak sempat nak menulis sebab ...

i guess it is true, mase bercinta mude2 kite xfikir sgt pasal perkara2 lain, you just fall in love with that person.. but as you get older, it's not easy to find soulmate..mcm2 yg you akn pertimbangkan.. background die, level of academic, family die, income die and paling penting niat die nk kawin dgn you..you definitely xnk someone yg in the end you yg kene support die..sbb sy dh tgk byk kes yg mcm ni.. seksa wo..

ifanonline

princessjay posted on 26-11-2013 11:55 AM
i guess it is true, mase bercinta mude2 kite xfikir sgt pasal perkara2 lain, you just fall in love ...

kasih syg yg suci murni bermula dgn jiwa yg bersih...semakin tua usia kita, semakin kurang bersih jiwa kita...

Innrukia

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Nzaida

Salam.. Hi dr love.. Br come across thread ni..Rase mcm nk tnya soalan yg bersarang dlm kepala otak ni la.. Hope dr love dpt la at least bg pendapat ke?

Sy tgh berkawan dgn seseorng and baru je get serious dlm couple of weeks..sebelum ni dok maen hard to get ngn die tp lps gado truk hari tu n die mcm ignore sy jap baru la tersedar yang sebenarnya sy memang syangggg kn die..sampai tiap saat sy rase nk bgtau die how much i love him.. lepas tu kami dah ok balik..

So now here comes the problem.. Baru2 ni banjir melanda kawasan perumahan bf sy td..teruk sangat and die bagitahu sy yg rumah n kete die habis tenggelam.. N diorang terpaksa duduk kt penempatan mangsa banjir..sy rasa kesian sgt ngn die tp xtau nk tolong mcm mane?

Since kejadian banjir tu (hari selasa),,die macam dah xpedulikan sy laa.. bila sy try call selalu xjawab..text pun xreply...rase pelik sangat...sy tau die tengah bersedih pasal banjir tu tapi dah 5 hari macam ni... Xkan die dah xingat langsung kt sy ek? Konpius sesangat... What should i do??

Innrukia

Nzaida posted on 7-12-2013 10:44 PM
Salam.. Hi dr love.. Br come across thread ni..Rase mcm nk tnya soalan yg bersarang dlm kepala otak  ...

Sblum Doc Love jwb meh Misi Love menyampuk skit....

Dear,
Can you give him a break? Let him settle his problem 1st. Bencana jd kat dia & family, consider kejadian besar utk dia.
Kalau u tak boleh tolong dia, then cukup u tolong jangan tambah serabut kat kepala dia. Its normal kalau dlm keadaan mcm tu, dia 'lupa' kejap dgn u.
Utk side u, i rasa cukupla u call @ kalau tak dpt, u message dia (jgn kerap sgt la), bgtau u paham keadaan dia skrg & harap dia dpt settle semuanya. Give him moral support. Tell him, u will there for him, if he feel tired & need someone to share. Dia tak reply pun takpa...trust him.

Misi percaya once semua settle, dia akan contact u balik......

Nzaida

Innrukia posted on 8-12-2013 01:28 PM
Sblum Doc Love jwb meh Misi Love menyampuk skit....

Dear,

Goshh...misi love tqsm...mmg jawapan tu yg nk dengar sangat..last nite die ade reply text...tu pun dah rasa happy berbunga-bunga.. Hiks

i memang xkerap text die sekarang sebab die kate tengah sibuk cuci rumah...kuar pagi balik dah gelap...malam jelah kitorng texting each other..tapi kan misi kadang2 i ade bad thoughts bout him la..bile die diam mula la otak i ni pikir macam2 like die ade jumpa sape2 ke kt penempatan sementara tu? Ex die ke? Paling teruk i rase jeles pulak die dok ramai2 macam tu.. You know campur2 laki n pompuan..haih..

Innrukia

Nzaida posted on 8-12-2013 06:26 PM
Goshh...misi love tqsm...mmg jawapan tu yg nk dengar sangat..last nite die ade reply text...tu pun ...

One word ~ TRUST ~
If u can't trust him, then trust urself

Misi Love sgt memahami perasaan anda...biasalah pompuan ni kalo in love, 24/7 bleh pikir psl si dia.
Dan bila terlalu byk pikir, mula la mereka sendiri 'drama merapu' dlm kepala tu. Itu namanya INSECURE & kita nk REASSURANCES dr si dia. Tp jgn transfer perasaan tu pada si dia. Try to handle that by your own. Keep urself bz & be happy with your life....i believe he will appreciate that, rather than u become a needy person....

Nzaida

Innrukia posted on 8-12-2013 07:13 PM
One word ~ TRUST ~
If u can't trust him, then trust urself

Woww...seriously u are damn good in giving advice..u can call yourself a doctor already la misi...hihii..

anyway....i really appreciated that..thanks a bunch misii!! ( i rase i boleh jadi pelanggan tetap clinic ni)

ifanonline

Nzaida posted on 7-12-2013 10:44 PM
Salam.. Hi dr love.. Br come across thread ni..Rase mcm nk tnya soalan yg bersarang dlm kepala otak  ...

hmm...musibah juga boleh membawa mudarat kpd perhubungan...give him some time to think it out, dier tengah di timpa masalah yg berat dan mungkin tidak mahu di ganggu buat sementara waktu...maybe not only his problems, but his families problems...dugaan bagi dier...the last thing that he want to think of is you...

buat masa ni biar dier dgn family dier, kalau nak berhubung pun cuba hantar sms kat dier, kalau dier reply, maknanya dier tengah ok le tu...kalau tak, bersabarlah...

u nak pergi melawat pun is not advisable, tengah dok banjir, nanti u pula terperangkap...

Nzaida

ifanonline posted on 9-12-2013 04:19 PM
hmm...musibah juga boleh membawa mudarat kpd perhubungan...give him some time to think it out, die ...

Hmm....since that event (banjir) i rase kitorang dah xsame macam dulu..i dont know why but i'm feeling like we are drifting apart from each other..i try to talk to him but he seems like avoiding me.. What did i do wrong? Do you think this guy ade awek lain?? I feel like he's not honest with me.. And one more thing..can u trust a guy who said he love u? Does he really mean it?? Pls doc love..

ifanonline

Nzaida posted on 11-12-2013 08:36 PM
Hmm....since that event (banjir) i rase kitorang dah xsame macam dulu..i dont know why but i'm fee ...

jgn cepat putus asa...give him some time to be with his family...dier timpa musibah...his time is with his family now...sila bersabar, the best thing is not to contact him for the time being until semua keadaan kembali normal...bersabar ye...saya yakin dier masih ingatkan awak...

Nzaida

ifanonline posted on 11-12-2013 08:46 PM
jgn cepat putus asa...give him some time to be with his family...dier timpa musibah...his time is  ...

Ya..i boleh faham kalau die ade kat rumah..for sure banyak benda nk buat such kemas rumah kan..tapii die dah start working since yesterday,,mean banyak mase kt office...dulu boleh je selalu text i tapi sekarang...lain sangat..

ifanonline

Nzaida posted on 11-12-2013 08:55 PM
Ya..i boleh faham kalau die ade kat rumah..for sure banyak benda nk buat such kemas rumah kan..tap ...

dier masih bersedih lagi le tu...as i said before, give him some time...nanti dier dah ok, dier akan call/sms le awak...awak kena tunjuk kesabaran yg tinggi dlm relationship, don't be a pushy gf...

Innrukia

Nzaida posted on 11-12-2013 08:55 PM
Ya..i boleh faham kalau die ade kat rumah..for sure banyak benda nk buat such kemas rumah kan..tap ...

Men = rubber band. Biar depa pull dulu, nnt depa melantun blk kt.kita.
Lagik satu don't expect pursuit stage to remain. Once he has passed the finish line, he turns off his engine, parks his car & celebrates.

Nzaida

Innrukia posted on 11-12-2013 10:58 PM
Men = rubber band. Biar depa pull dulu, nnt depa melantun blk kt.kita.
Lagik satu don't expect pu ...

Erk...maksud misi...once diorang berjaya tackle diorang akn wt xtau je ke kt pompuan tu??

Innrukia

Nzaida posted on 12-12-2013 05:43 PM
Erk...maksud misi...once diorang berjaya tackle diorang akn wt xtau je ke kt pompuan tu??

Bukan buat tak tau, tp depa lebih relax.

Nzaida

Innrukia posted on 12-12-2013 06:48 PM
Bukan buat tak tau, tp depa lebih relax.

I rase die memang dah tanak i lagi...what can i do or say...people can change in a blink of an eye..sekarang ni sy akan tunggu dalam a week then i'll tell him that its over..

Innrukia

Nzaida posted on 14-12-2013 04:29 PM
I rase die memang dah tanak i lagi...what can i do or say...people can change in a blink of an eye ...

May i know kenapa u rasa mcm tu?
Cerita la Misi nak try paham kenapa awak rasa mcm tu

Nzaida

Innrukia posted on 14-12-2013 06:15 PM
May i know kenapa u rasa mcm tu?
Cerita la Misi nak try paham kenapa awak rasa mcm tu

Misi...sy dah try everything i could to understand his situation..seriously i'd stop texting him...stop calling him..i'd gave him space he needed..sy cuma text die sekali dua saja dalam sehari..ape yang buat saya rase die dah xperlukan sy bile die ignore sy like i'm not exist..die 'online' kt whatsapp tp xreply text sy..bile sy tanya die text ngn sape die naik marah..die cakap sy xpercayakan die..that day sy ade bgtau die that i love him so much, he replied that he feels the same...i asked to never leave me then die cakap 'sy tak kan tinggalkan syg'.fullstop.

Misi susah sy nk explain kt sini ape yang sy rase...tapi to taste the diffrence of before and after make me feel this way...

Innrukia

Nzaida posted on 14-12-2013 07:33 PM
Misi...sy dah try everything i could to understand his situation..seriously i'd stop texting him.. ...

Relationship ada circle nya....jgn duk harap sepjg masa lovey dovey....dan setiap level ni akan kukuhkan lagik satu relationship tu.
lelaki lain pemikirn & caranya dr pompuan. cer try memahami & jgn terlalu pentingkan diri. Tolak ansur tu penting..... ni misi bg satu lagu, cer digest dulu.... kalo tak paham bleh tanya


JUST GIVE ME A REASON - PINK

Right from the start
You were a thief you stole my heart
And I your willing victim
I let you see the parts of me
That weren't all that pretty
And with every touch you fixed them
Now you've been talking in your sleep
Things you never say to me
Tell me that you've had enough
Of our love, our love

Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
It's in the stars
It's been written in the scars on our hearts
We're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again

(Ni part lelaki ----- ada maksud tersendiri)
Im sorry I don't understand where all of this is coming from
I thought that we were fine
Oh we had everything
Your head is running wild again
My dear we still have everything
And its all in your mind
Yeah but this is happening
You've been having real bad dreams
Oh oh
You used to lie so close to me
Oh oh
There's nothing more than empty sheets
Between our love, our love, oh our love, our love