takut single coz xnak idup sorg smpi tua.?

dea_nylea · Post time 15-4-2008 10:41 AM

nih dea ade nih anon

Agul · Post time 15-4-2008 10:54 AM

Originally posted by leon_mclaren78 at 15-4-2008 09:06 AM

Mmg x dinafikan kita bleh tuntut harta sepencarian... tapi x salah kan kalo kita prepare utk kemudahan diri kita & anak2 di masa dpn...
Kes tuntut-menuntut ni mkn masa gak... andaikata be ...

Bukannya slah nak ada harta. Tapi sikap yang terlampau takut tu yang mungkin bagus dibuang.

Harap korang boleh bezakan antara dua keadaan;
1. banyak harta
2. takut tak cukup harta

Bersikap terlampau takut tak menjamin seseorang itu akan banyak harta.

kalau nak kira macam ni lelaki pun kalau ada banyak harta, tersilap kahwin... merana, bercerai dan semua harta dia kena爇ongsi爈a...爎ugi爈a...

爇alau爈elaki爐u爁ikir爉acam爐u...爐ak爇awen2爈a爏emua爉anusia爇at燤alaysia....

[ Last edited by Agul at 15-4-2008 11:17 AM ]

anonymous · Post time 15-4-2008 10:54 AM

mana anon p.. mesti dea ada....

aii.. memang dea ada.... tp cik abg tu.. mana nak letak....

Agul · Post time 15-4-2008 11:01 AM

Originally posted by Hana at 15-4-2008 09:38 AM

kalau ikut konsep ko nie..mcm perempuan kena bertenggek sepenuhnye kpd lelaki.
mcm ler lelaki tu kaya sgt. kalau kaya tu..boleh laa bertenggek mcm parasit.
ini sengkek..aku rasa..bertenggek ...

ko silap faham apa yang kau tulis. Mungkin aku tulis tak berapa jelas. Konsep bertenggek yang ko utarakan ni takde pun aku cerita.

Hana, banyak lelaki yang kaya kat dunia Malaysia ni... kalau diorang nak kat ko dan ko nak kat diorang takde masalah ko nak guna taktik bertenggek ko tu....

yang爇o爌egi燽ertenggek爇at爕ang爏engkek2爐u燽uat燼pa...燣agipun, tidak爉enjadi爇esalahan爇alau爊ak燽ertenggek爇at爌okok...

sakura_san · Post time 15-4-2008 11:03 AM

dolu2 pernah gak risau. tapi saya cakap pada diri sendiri , saya mesti ada jodoh juga dengan seseorang. cuma cepat atau lambat. dan saya percaya dengan kata-kata saya sendiri

bersabar key...

Agul · Post time 15-4-2008 11:12 AM

The keyword is fear

bukannya tak bagus ada banyak harta. Yang tak bagusnya rasa takut tu...

So people fear that they can't survive. One day they will be left out, people won't love them anymore, they won't get respect, they can't control their situation, they can't survive...

I'm not telling that it's wrong to have love, respect, control, security and survival... It's great to have all this... It's the fear that you can't have them that you should be aware of. The feeling that you don't deserve. That's the problem.

Only you would know what you really want in this life. Go for what you want. Don't let your fear dictate. If you're for the live of solitude, just because you like it... go for it. But please don't make your unhappiness and dissatisfaction the reason for all your decision. So, make the wise decision.

If you want to see if you really, honestly have this fear of marriage, or anuptaphobia... would you still choose singlehood if you got the best and the most suitable partner in the world. That all thing works out well.燱ould爕ou?

If not, you have been lying to yourself for such a long time that you're not aware of it anymore.

Agul · Post time 15-4-2008 11:14 AM

Hope all of you got my point. All these thing I wrote come from a heart that want the best for you.

dea_nylea · Post time 15-4-2008 11:45 AM

ahahaha..saja ngusik anon..jgn marah taww

leon_mclaren78 · Post time 15-4-2008 12:09 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 15-4-2008 10:54 AM

Bukannya slah nak ada harta. Tapi sikap yang terlampau takut tu yang mungkin bagus dibuang.

Harap korang boleh bezakan antara dua keadaan;
1. banyak harta
2. takut tak cukup harta

Ber ...

Biasanya org yg x de harta ni la yg problem... walopun harta x menjamin kebahagiaan, tapi zmn skrg ni kita kena akur yg harta mmg penting. Ada rumah sendiri & kenderaan sendiri dh jadi satu keperluan asas kita x kira yg dh kawin atau blum.

Persoalan kat sini bkn 'fear'... tapi lebih kpd 'sediakan payung sblm ujan'. Sbb byk kes pempuan yg kena tinggal sehelai sepinggang, ex hasben buat tak reti & x bertanggungjawab.

At least kalo kita pempuan dh ada harta sendiri, x de suami x pe selagi ada tulang 4 kerat kita bleh tanggung diri sendiri & anak2.. tapi itu la, penting taw ada umah yg kita beli atas nama kita sendiri.

Kalo kita sentiasa memikirkan yg indah2 je... fikir hasben tetiba jadi kaya, hasben sehidup semati dgn kita... ini yg paling bahaya... sbb mana tau kan tetiba hasben kita pendek umur ke... atau hasben tetiba jatuh bankrupt ke... at least kalo kita pempuan ada harta walopun sikit x de la merempat minta simpati kat saudara mara nnt... x gittiew?!!

namakurahsia · Post time 15-4-2008 12:19 PM

Originally posted by Hana at 15-4-2008 09:40 AM

derang eksyen..sbb laki laki derang kaya. pastu amalkan monogami.
ko ada ape? mmg sah ler ko kena kutuk kaw kaw.
cuba kalau ko ada laki yg kaya & setia..mmg ler pandangan ko akan dihormati. ...

aku setujukkkk...

thedude · Post time 15-4-2008 07:47 PM

Originally posted by sosimple at 13-4-2008 11:54 PM

nak tune tuh yg ssh... lg2 kalau dpt frekuensi bertindih....

x minat crita korea....

Frekuensi bertindih yang susah tu .... nak bukak radio Era .. tiba-tiba jadi radio Tamil

budakjawa · Post time 15-4-2008 08:38 PM

Originally posted by Hana at 15-4-2008 01:40

derang eksyen..sbb laki laki derang kaya. pastu amalkan monogami.
ko ada ape? mmg sah ler ko kena kutuk kaw kaw.
cuba kalau ko ada laki yg kaya & setia..mmg ler pandangan ko akan dihormati. ...

iskh .. ko neh hana
kalok beri pendapat musti berkait dgn fulush ...
tak kosa bj lah nyahhhhh ....

tapi haku sukak bangetiiii ...

Agul · Post time 15-4-2008 08:41 PM

read my post 126

Agul · Post time 15-4-2008 08:41 PM

ko bj... dok seberang tak sangkut sorang ke?

budakjawa · Post time 15-4-2008 08:44 PM

tanak eh ...
depa neh kalok bab minum tuh
satu jag .. 2 jag pon habih
takottt ... haku la enche Agul wehhh

lagipun haku neh kan jejaki pemalus ...

budakjawa · Post time 15-4-2008 08:45 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 15-4-2008 12:41
ko bj... dok seberang tak sangkut sorang ke?

tapi kalok bj duduk seberang Indon
lain kot ceritanya ...
pepandai jek haku neh ...

Agul .. lu tak takot ka single sampai ke tua ?

Agul · Post time 15-4-2008 08:48 PM

minum la susu...

cute gitu...

budakjawa · Post time 15-4-2008 08:51 PM

ehehhe .. susu kambiang banyak le ...
minum guna botol susu

Agul · Post time 15-4-2008 08:55 PM

Originally posted by budakjawa at 15-4-2008 08:45 PM

tapi kalok bj duduk seberang Indon
lain kot ceritanya ...
pepandai jek haku neh ...

Agul .. lu tak takot ka single sampai ke tua ?

bj ni tanya macam nak ngorat i je...

Aku harap aku tak takut... sekarang ni aku tak takut... tak taula kalau besok aku takut...

Alhamdulillah, sekarang ni pun boleh kalau nak kawen...
Cuma aku nak hold off a little bit longer...

Fear never helps. (well, matbe in some cases where certain physical and other kind of threat are imminent, however we're talking about a diifferent kind of fear here.) It's like you're jumping in a pool of water, with a bag of cement, thinking that it will help you stay afloat.

Fearing something would never stop it from happening. Life is just a series of experience.

budakjawa · Post time 16-4-2008 03:47 AM

Originally posted by Agul at 15-4-2008 12:55

bj ni tanya macam nak ngorat i je...

Aku harap aku tak takut... sekarang ni aku tak takut... tak taula kalau besok aku takut...

Alhamdulillah, sekarang ni pun boleh kalau ...