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setiap org mengalami kisah silam yg berbeza.....apa2 pun yg terjadi.....kita kena terima pa yg telah terjadi...mungkin ada hikmah disebalik yg terjadi...... |
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wqahhhhhhhhhhhhh jd geram plak kat awk ni cik berry syg oiiiiiii..delete jekkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk |
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hmmm....
akak sampok bleh?
korang nih... sumer muder belia lagik... ada choices...nak kenal orang lain atau nak stick to the one u have now..
for ms blueberry...
ok.. akak rasa i can relate to ur stories... kejadian hawa nih lebih kurang jek... so.. nko nih macam akak jugak kot... ur personality: manja, happy go lucky, hi self confidence (when facing public), lo self esteem (when with loved ones), ego tinggi, kurang kesabaran, kalau sayang tuh sayang sangat macam dunia nih tader orang lain dah... kalau marah tuh... marah sangat macam dunia nih dat tader orang lain dah...betul ker? kalau tak betul.. akak jek lah kot yang macam tuh... but ok... back to ur problem..
akak sebenarnya rasa... BF awak tuh masih sayang pada awak.. dia cuma tak sanggup nak layan awak nyer 'tantrum' yang always demand him to pujuk u whenever u have a fight, ego tinggi sangat... akak cadangkan, if u think he is the man worth pursuing, he cares about u, he accepts you as you are, he has done many nice things to you, he has been unconditional, then, by all means, pls lower down ur ego... dun be a queen control freak, dia pun ada maruah jugak... takkan everytime he has to call u and when he didnt, u called him and wallup him on the fon for not calling u... unfair isnt it?
kerana ego awak... awak marah dia sebab tak call, awak demand dia to pay attention to u when he was in the middle of his exam, he specifically told u to call back on the 7th, but u only called back on the 10th, and you send him that nasty SMS...for him these were all signs that u DIDNT CARE about him! BUT, he didnt know that u were suffering from hurt urself... but u were the one who is hurting him and urself..not him.. all that he wanted was just some understanding...
because of the wrong signs he read, and ur ego is blocking him to believe that u love him, his wound deepend and he deleted all those entries in his friendsters and ur friendster because it hurt him... when u called him, u sound casual, u were not even hurt, he is thinking that he has lost u forever and have moved on with ur life, so what does he do? move on with his life... correct?
So, for u to win him back, i suggest u copy the template email somebody had nicely composed for you, send it to him... and see how he responds... explain what happened, bulldoze ur ego flat... this, if u really want him back and want to work things out. If not, u can just forget it...
i do not really know things for sure, but assuming positively.. i think what happened was situational... due to misunderstanding and lack or maturity to handle situations... u have got to learn to be more patient in the future.. dont always demand attention... give and take... sometimes when u think he doesnt love u, it helps if u think of all the nice things he had done for you. |
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p/s:- I lost my marriage because i did stupid things like u did... testing on a man's patience...became too selfish and self-centered. I have lost him forever. No amount of tears will bring us both back together. He hasnt got anyone else... he does not plan on getting a replacement.. but he said, coming back together? Once bitten twice shy! What do i say? Regret means nothing... all because i have ego as high as the everest.. We are now best friends, and the strange thing is, the ego just vanished but it's just tooo late!  |
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hmm pengajaran jg utk kami sumer..dun ever test on man'spatience..yup...v need our own space aite?same goes to them..i do understand wht u need is attention, bt seeking for his attention while he was in d middle of d exam is absolotuley not right..
pe pn berry, awk jgn la sedih sgt...maybe he seeks for rebound relationship to forget u,maybe dia xska sgt pn da gal...bt for his action i m scared he dun provide any space for u anymore in his heart |
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Originally posted by ^MsBlueberry^ at 28-3-2007 05:36 AM
oh my God!!!!this is soooo sad...sorry to hear that...but yeah...back to the topic...the criteria that u mentioned on ur last reply was exactly me!!! arghhh....sedey!!!!juz woke up in the mor ...
take my experience as a lesson then.. that there are other ppl who went / is going thru worse conditions then you are... thus, pull your strength and move on with your life... love hurts!  |
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rotibakar2006 This user has been deleted
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Originally posted by Ser3ndIpIty at 28-3-2007 03:01 AM
akak sampok bleh?
korang nih... sumer muder belia lagik... ada choices...nak kenal orang lain atau nak stick to the one u have now..
for ms blueberry...
ok.. akak rasa i can relate to ur stories... kejadian hawa nih lebih kurang jek... so.. nko nih macam akak jugak kot... ur personality: manja, happy go lucky, hi self confidence (when facing public), lo self esteem (when with loved ones), ego tinggi, kurang kesabaran, kalau sayang tuh sayang sangat macam dunia nih tader orang lain dah... kalau marah tuh... marah sangat macam dunia nih dat tader orang lain dah...betul ker? kalau tak betul.. akak jek lah kot yang macam tuh... but ok... back to ur problem..
akak sebenarnya rasa... BF awak tuh masih sayang pada awak.. dia cuma tak sanggup nak layan awak nyer 'tantrum' yang always demand him to pujuk u whenever u have a fight, ego tinggi sangat... akak cadangkan, if u think he is the man worth pursuing, he cares about u, he accepts you as you are, he has done many nice things to you, he has been unconditional, then, by all means, pls lower down ur ego... dun be a queen control freak, dia pun ada maruah jugak... takkan everytime he has to call u and when he didnt, u called him and wallup him on the fon for not calling u... unfair isnt it?
kerana ego awak... awak marah dia sebab tak call, awak demand dia to pay attention to u when he was in the middle of his exam, he specifically told u to call back on the 7th, but u only called back on the 10th, and you send him that nasty SMS...for him these were all signs that u DIDNT CARE about him! BUT, he didnt know that u were suffering from hurt urself... but u were the one who is hurting him and urself..not him.. all that he wanted was just some understanding...
because of the wrong signs he read, and ur ego is blocking him to believe that u love him, his wound deepend and he deleted all those entries in his friendsters and ur friendster because it hurt him... when u called him, u sound casual, u were not even hurt, he is thinking that he has lost u forever and have moved on with ur life, so what does he do? move on with his life... correct?
So, for u to win him back, i suggest u copy the template email somebody had nicely composed for you, send it to him... and see how he responds... explain what happened, bulldoze ur ego flat... this, if u really want him back and want to work things out. If not, u can just forget it...
i do not really know things for sure, but assuming positively.. i think what happened was situational... due to misunderstanding and lack or maturity to handle situations... u have got to learn to be more patient in the future.. dont always demand attention... give and take... sometimes when u think he doesnt love u, it helps if u think of all the nice things he had done for you.
good one....boleh jadik pakar phsycology cinta dan human relation |
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rotibakar2006 This user has been deleted
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Originally posted by ^MsBlueberry^ at 27-3-2007 08:27 PM
mmg lama gile pon bulan december...so far aku sgup tunggu..xtaula nanti pe jadi...tp takut jugak die bwk gf baru...harap2 aku lagi cun dr gf baru die... ....
anyway...aku sedey gile ...
ms blueberry jgn sedih sedih...cinta mmg menyakitkan...apa address freindster x-bf kau tu? bukan apa, aku nak menilai sejauh mana hubungan dia dgn that girl tu... |
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Originally posted by ^MsBlueberry^ at 27-3-2007 08:27 PM
aku xtau apa nk ckp...ber "baby" ber "busuk"...nak tercabut hati aku tgk...n lagi satu yg aku sgt xduduk diam skg...gurl tu anta msg kat aku said "sori"...pelik..aku xkenal die pon..pesal say sori kat aku..sbb dah kene dumped ngn laki tu ke..n now die dpt laki tu ke...aku mmg pelik sgt...plus sakit hati actually...
kemungkinan gak mamat tuh mmg dah ada affair dgn that girl masa korang blum break lagi tu..sebab tu masa tu korang mcm dingin je kan...mamat tuh tunggu the right time je utk putuskan hubungan korang....once kau ckp nak break, dia apa lagi, melompat2 ler...hehehe...sekadar satu andaian jer...
kau rasa fair tak skrg kau tgh bersedih sedih hidup tonggang terbalik, tapi mamat tu sedang happy je dgn someone else....? kau tak rasa mcm memperbodoh2kan diri kau ke? |
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ha ah berry nk tau gak frenster xbf awk tu..ngan frenster awk skali ..leh ek cik berry |
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Reply #171 ^MsBlueberry^'s post
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ek biar je la cik berry oi..wat pe awk yg susah2 hati ni smpi xtenang plak..klu btl dia yg pnca mg dh habis pn dh kan...delete jek ...kot tk puas ati lg ckp kat gal tu xyah hntr msg kat u.. |
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Reply #162 Ser3ndIpIty's post
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so far, the best advice i ever read utk thread nih. gile panjang la gak thread nih. dah sampai tujuh muka surat. org kawin pon dah buleh ade anak dua..hahah.. neway pasal citer frenster tuh, psl budak pompuan balas msg dgn your ex tuh cam betul je kot. haha.. kalau tak masa kan die sanggup dump kau. jadik, move on je la.. tak yah tunggu reply sesape.. sedar hakikat die dah hilang dari tgn kau..haha..negatif la plak. |
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Reply #171 ^MsBlueberry^'s post
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da check da frenster mamat tue.. takde pape la.. stakat msj camtu jer tak bermaksud pape pun.. stakat maen2 jer tue.. delete jer frenster mamat tue.. kalau taknak delete biar aku jer delete.. password pun tolong r tukar.. kalau malas tukar biar aku jer tukar.. |
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Reply #173 True-X's post
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hmmm nt to say diorg xigt awek...tp ntah la..diorg nk focus kot..awk antar msg tnya khabar dh la.jgn provoke dia plak.. |
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Reply #177 ^MsBlueberry^'s post
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maybe ko kene mule usher org lain... nak ilangkan rase rindu kat dia.. leh tak camtu?..... |
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Reply #179 ^MsBlueberry^'s post
mak aaii...jiwang gila ex-kekasih ko dulu....
siap main jnji2..tu....
biar lidah x m'ungkap syg....tp biar perbuatan yg membuktikannya..... |
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Reply #179 ^MsBlueberry^'s post
OMG..... kl aku dah cair gilerr babinggg dah tuhhh.......
... BF aku nak wat gitu, jgn harap laa... aku kata sayang kat dia... dia jawab,.... errmmm... ok.... |
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Reply #179 ^MsBlueberry^'s post
ko share jer lah aper2 ayat2 jiwang dia tuh... meh sini luah perasaan.... at least ko kuarkan sumer,......
aku pon nak blajor ayat2 jiwang dari ex-bf ko nieh.... nak kasi hint kat BF aku nieh....
... aku nak cairkan ati aku.. hohoho |
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hmm awk kena keraskan hati la skit cik berry..adiehh ni 1st bf ke??klu 1st bf fhm la jg naper awk jd gini..klu bkn 1st bf maybe awk ptt tgk hw u overcome d sadness ms relationship yg fail dulu... |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 27-3-2007 09:14 AM
