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Maybe.
Tapi i rasa in my case mungkin Tuhan tak bagi jodoh awal sbb Dia nak suruh i dekatkan diri pada Dia.
Baiki apa yang mampu.
Cuz lately bila i rasa terkenang-kenang nak cari jodoh i akan buka video kat Zon Kuliah dan mengaji la apa-apa topik kat situ.
Bersihkan hati.
N maybe juga, Allah tahu I masih tak cukup kuat tahan dugaan dan bila kena dugaan I akan jauh dari Dia.
Macam tu lah i fikir kalau nak pujuk hati ^^
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Tafaddhal |
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Boleh je tapi I bukan jadi organizer kot.
Dulu I penah buat gath di forum carigold dulu.
Gath group-group single juga (dari dulu sampai sekarang tak abis-abis dengan group single ahahah).
But kalau u guys nak buat, buat lah. I join je 
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hani85 replied at 19-1-2016 12:19 PM
So dah ada jawapan ?
Belum lagi. Kadang2 Allah tak bagi on the spot. Dia bagi dgn cara Dia. So far hati berat ke dia. Wallahu'alam. |
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Last year ade juga sorang kakak tempat i kerja dia nak kenen dengan sorang lelaki.
Single, pensyarah. Dah mid 30's.
I rasa dia ok je sebenarnya tapi i pula tak bagi peluang cukup kat dia.
Macam u juga lah, tak dak mood nak layan.
Hehehe.
But now kalau ada I layan je kot 
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I tak rasa ianya trend yang disengajakan.
Cuma kepercayaan itu semakin berkurang especially from women towards men.
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Thanks. I baru like
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For me, personally, people who take looks as their main consideration when seeking partner, is nothing more than a lame and empty people. Be it women, or men. If u are Muslim, and you truly hold on to Islamic teachings, than you would never consider looks as something so important, because u really believe at the end when u enter jannah ur wife/ husband would be the most beautiful human u ever seen. Orang yang betul-betul berpegang pada Islam percaya semua keindahan dunia ni hanya sementara. If you are that kind of person, then you would never ever consider someone with look less desirable by many, and you would miss the chance to actually getting to know a person who has no looks but beautiful heart. Benda ni tak ramai orang mengerti especially lelaki. Tak tahu nak conclude macam mana but until now, i tak pernah jumpa lagi lelaki yang boleh faham benda ni. Mostly go for looks which is so annoying and it's pissing me off, seriously.
Sebab tu, bagi i, jika seseorang masih lagi consider rupa sebagai kriteria memilih pasangan, she/ he doesnt is not a good life partner in Islam. Kerana kecintaan nya pada keindahan dunia itu masih ada. I am very strict regarding this sebab I percaya dalam memilih pasangan Islam itu yang terutama. Sorry jika ada yang terasa, but this is how i believe. U may, or may not disagree.
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Tak kuat mana pun sis, cuba menjadi kuat.
Lagipun pengalaman kenal dengan macam-macam lelaki buat kita jadi lebih berhati-hati.
Itu lah, memang pun kita sebagai perempuan ni mahukan lelaki yang boleh bimbing kita, bukan kita yang bimbing dia.
Kan?
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Kan?
Nampak sangat sebab nafsu.
Yang dah kawen pun sama.
Geram kekadang.
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Kadang-kadang gerak hati itulah jawapannya sis.
Dulu masa I study my room mate ade kenal one guy.
Budak baik, solat semua cukup etc.
Then entah kenapa dia rasa tak sedap ati nak teruskan hubungan dgn this guy.
So dia pun buat istikharah, Allah bagi gerak hati untuk tinggalkan laki tu.
End up, lelaki tu kecewa layan arak masuk club etc.
Jadi benarlah jawapan Allah tu.
Kalau sis rasa gerak hati kuat pada dia, teruskan, teruskan minta petunjuk Allah.
Good luck.
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I'm just saying THAT IS THE REALITY, whether you like it or not. It is a biological FACT that the male species will in majority look at your looks first for the reasons I mentioned, you want to be naive it is up to you, i believe even you have your "looks" criteria whether you try to deny it or not, everyone has their own standards.
As i said, you have your criterias and beliefs, others have theirs too, but don't get pissed off for something which is human nature. Besides, Allah made all of us in various shapes, sizes, and personalities.
You're getting pissed off at guys dissing your ONLINE profile because of looks, yet you diss guys that don't share your sentiment without actually getting to know them well enough to make a more informed judgement.
And yes, looks only go so far, this is why looks is usually the first criteria to be fulfilled before one decides getting to know the person further. Even Islam advises one to be more presentable, why? it is because of looks again, when it pleases your eyes, it opens your heart to accept.
Again, whether you like it or not, looks DOES make a difference when it comes to selecting your life partner. I really hope this mentality of yours will not be the reason you'll be alone.
Also let's agree to disagree, and good luck in finding your soul mate.
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No worries, go on with ur belief and I ll hold on to mine.
(:
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ooo. hehehe
i tak pernah join jugak..
just gather info situ dan gerak sendiri..
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hi... 31 and still single...hukhuk...
parents x heran pon x kawen lg.. dh byk bg hint tp still mcm tu.. igt nk suh depa cari...tapi... waaaaaa |
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hi...new member here 
30 this year & still single...kadang2 rasa sunyi tp kadang2 happy je sbb tak terikat...30 thn hidup tak pernah bercinta & tak pernah ade mana2 lelaki yg cuba approach secara serius...penah masuk beberapa web cr jodoh tp semua hampeh...pernah rasa down & loser sgt2 sbb semua kwn2 dh kawin..tp skrg berserah pada Allah moga dipertemukan dgn jodoh yg terbaik suatu hari nnt... |
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Memandai aje 40 and above dah jadi andartu forever. Ada je andartu 4 series tup tup kahwin dengan lelaki bujang umur 20an.
Btw, gue bukan andartu okay!
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Edited by CheAnANN at 19-1-2016 05:24 PM
sangat setuju... dengan apa yg cik mawar kata...
(melompat dari thread sendiri ke sini..)
Apa pun sekarang ni, saya serahkan pada takdir. Usaha-usaha juga, tapi lagi baik kalau fokus pada benda yang lebih penting
Lagipun rasa macam mengada sangat kalau sekarang nak menggelabah pasal jodoh ni (lagipun saya pun baru lagi kerja. heeee)
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I rasa macam nak pi krabi dalam masa terdekat ni huhu.
Tapi ikut pakej dulu la.
Nanti dah pandai start pergi sendiri.
Mulakan dekat-dekat kemudian pi jauh-jauh lak.
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