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mohon buat plan B dan/atau plan C...
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Aku paham perasaan kau TT.
Kisah aku, aku berhenti keje dari enviroment yg tak menggembirakan dan muka ak stress 7 days a week. 4 tahun jugak aku bertahan keje situ. Sama macam kau. Dan akhirnya aku dapat keje lain n cecepat aku berhenti. Ak keje gomen dan berhenti keje kt swasta. Huhu.
Lelagi kau da nak kahwin, sume benda perlukan duit.Tp bg aku selagi tak dpt keje lain, kau bertahan je la. Smpai bila? Smpai kau mampu. Smpai kau rasa enough is enough. Haha
Tp as advise, aku rasa tak perlu kau berhenti. Apa yg perlu kau buat, kau pikir apa yg buat kau stress? Kerja yg banyak? Bos yg cerewet atau rakan kerja?
Kalau kerja kau stress, kau bole jump head bos n explain kat dia. Kau kena berani la drpd kau amek keputusan nak berhenti di saat ekonomi negara tak menentu nie.
Kau ada masalah dgn bos n kawan kerja? So kau duduk diam2 je la buat keje. Bercakap bila perlu je. Pedulikan mereka. Just it. |
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ambil cuti tanpa gaji jer.....
jangan berhenti dulu
tengok macam mana lepas habis belajar....kekadang rasa macam lebih ok...sb dah refresh
cth mcm komputer....tetibe dia slow...reformat or restart je...start new....
kalo lepas habis belajar rasa dah nekad nak berhenti...berhenti jela
cume kekadang lepas dah bertahun belajar kite akan rasa excited balik nak keje
n time belajar timba pengalaman lain
untuk tackle masalah kesihatan mental, untk jadi lebih kuat gitu |
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Post time 30-7-2018 04:26 AM
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robinmosby replied at 29-7-2018 05:42 PM
If you want to leave your job, you must have a back up plan. Secure another job and leave the curren ...
Hopefully. The thing is I don’t totally hate my job. The environment pun isn’t that toxic. Heck, I pun baru je sebulan kat tempat baru ni. It’s just - I suddenly feel that it’s the same thing I have to deal with in my previous workplace. Negativity, forcing me to do stuff that I’m not capable of - those things. |
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Post time 30-7-2018 04:27 AM
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robinmosby replied at 29-7-2018 05:43 PM
One more thing if you are unhappy with your current job, you will do your work half heartedly. Which ...
I’ve been applying in JobStreet. I hope I get at least interviews. |
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Post time 30-7-2018 04:29 AM
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becir replied at 29-7-2018 11:14 PM
Boleh ambik cuti Tanpa gaji?
Boleh. But it’ll take away my seniority. |
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Foxey replied at 29-7-2018 10:35 PM
Agree with Ms Nana_Man.
If you have enough savings to pay for all your bills and expenses to last ...
That’s what I thought too. I rasa cm dh takde future in my line of work ni. Rasa cm hamster everyday. Doing the same routine, but very little room for progress. |
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Post time 30-7-2018 04:31 AM
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hyie replied at 30-7-2018 12:18 AM
mohon buat plan B dan/atau plan C...
I’ve been drawing out the plans. I think my biggest obstacle would be my parents. And I do not want them to worry; at this age kan. |
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Post time 30-7-2018 04:33 AM
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ati2027 replied at 30-7-2018 02:05 AM
Aku paham perasaan kau TT.
Kisah aku, aku berhenti keje dari enviroment yg tak menggembirakan da ...
Memang I jenis buat hal sendiri pun. Bos cerewet pun I dh biasa. Tp entahla. Rasa cm dh hilang that fighting spirit. Dulu I’m not easily defeated cmni tau. Skrg ni. I nk drag myself to work every morning pun seksa. |
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Post time 30-7-2018 04:34 AM
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merrissa replied at 30-7-2018 02:29 AM
ambil cuti tanpa gaji jer.....
jangan berhenti dulu
Tula. I’m weighing that option too. My plan is to give myself until the end of this year. If the situation persists, I kena slow talk dgn my parents too. |
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U know what, I am a government officer too, and I work with people who are ridiculous. At one time, I feel like giving up, but I keep looking for the motivation. I keep praying to Allah every day. I know, it is easier said than done. But maybe you can PM me to share your real situation. We can share our situation. |
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And one thing, I know that rezeki itu Allah yg beri. But you need to have a backup plan if you want to quit the service. PhD is good, but I have many friends who still don't have permanent jobs after pursuing PhD. I didn't say that you shouldn't pursue the PhD, fo ahead if you feel that is right for you. But I suggest you to list out all the pros and cons of every decision you wanna make. Plus, Istikharah does help. It is a strong prayer. Allah will guide you. I pray that you can achieve your dreams soon or later. |
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Edited by ekselen at 30-7-2018 07:20 AM
2 options:
First, Quit but make sure have backup plan like having another job to enable you to survive. Lg pun dah nk kawin shd be no prob at the moment.
Second, Dont quit... Pls, dont cry or givap becoz of work.. Ada org kerja yg lg teruk lg...setiap hari kena kutuk maki hamun..but sooner or later they still ok. Patience. I've gone through many things, hard work, hard life...but my principle is simple dont care of other than your things... I dont care ppl talking at my back or Ppl mess with my life coz my principle is Allah is always there to help. For me, i'm just being ignorance and just prove to them that i am much precious enough than theirs... So far so good coz i believe everything they did to me they will get back...that's how circle in life..just chill. |
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QIsmail replied at 30-7-2018 04:33 AM
Memang I jenis buat hal sendiri pun. Bos cerewet pun I dh biasa. Tp entahla. Rasa cm dh hilang tha ...
Then, listen to what your heart says. If your heart tells you that u will be happy to leave the job, just leave.
Kalau berat hati then dont, just be patience.sooner or later u will be fine, take a break n go outing somewhere else. Make ur mind free from hazards. |
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u da penat mentally & physically ni..
take a rest for a while tp jgn quit..u're still young and jauh lg masa dpn u..
buat solat untuk tenangkan hati okay, Allah sentiasa ada utk kita mengadu..
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Dah diagnosed ke depression tu?better seek treatment utk tlg kurgkan depression..tp kalau setakat stress,you can do things y you happy..chill out,take leave for a while,cikcur,whatsoever y bley kembalikn semangat you y hilang..but resign,kalau you orka,bley ler,tp kalau baru nk btapak,better not..
Also,your choice kan nak tkr tmpt,so,you mmg kena take that as a challenge..sy pn company tukar tmpt keje,so kena take over keje org lain,without proper documentation,filing etc..evrrything sy kena bt from scratch sbb nti ada audit..yes,keje2 tu must be settled b4 the end of this month...a bit stress tp sy cube utk xnk fikirknn stress tu,dgn sv y spesis emo,many things ler..satu je,i'll revert to my guilty pleasure..like eating my fav food,watching my fav shows..
Thats how i released my stress laaa..you can just go and see ur fiance ke,time dating tu xyah ckp psl keje..njoy ur moment together...goodluck bro! |
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kalau mana-mana tempat u pergi u rasa tak happy or toxic, then i think its not the workplace or people or the job..
but its u yang bermasalah.. |
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tiap2 jabatan ada pegawai psikologi. ce try consult diorang dulu mana tau u akan ada option lain yang u x terfikir sebelum ni selain dari quit atau cuti tanpa gaji. |
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doesnt matter if it affect your seniority in service
Rasa dulu how its like then you can consider to just quit or hadap the shit at work
Tapikan.... if you concern about your seniority i dont think you really mean to quit your job
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QIsmail replied at 30-7-2018 04:33 AM
Memang I jenis buat hal sendiri pun. Bos cerewet pun I dh biasa. Tp entahla. Rasa cm dh hilang tha ...
So, kalau u rasa cmtue baik u berhenti je la. U mmg da tak sesuai keje situ. U mcm i dulu. Lepas i berhenti, bukan my family je tegur, kwn2 i pun ckp i look happy n less stress. |
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Post time 30-7-2018 12:18 AM
