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Originally posted by thamrong at 22-8-2007 05:10 PM
Reply #28 sejuknya's post
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2nd. Kalau ikut hukum kalau tak silap ... lelaki kena taat pada ibubapanya sendiri ... then ibubapa mertuanya .... then barulah isteri. Manakala isteri pulak kena taat 1st husband dia, kedua ibubapa mertua dia then baru ibubapa dia sendiri.
This is bulshįŤ. This is a creation of the so call 'Male chauvinist Pigs".Why women always at the receiving end (kena mengalah). Kita bukan hidup dalam zaman puntung berasap lagi. I think women work harder then men. Working women still have to handle the house chores even having a living-in maid. Women still sharing the burden of paying debts and other expenses. So let her has her say. If I am a woman I will tell my husband "Fcuk off mate! I am going to see my parents and see you later".
[ Last edited by thamrong at 23-8-2007 09:55 AM ]
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hello! u dah salah quote orang ni...
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u should quote the correct posting.
[ Last edited by sejuknya at 23-8-2007 01:43 PM ] |
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Originally posted by iman311006 at 22-8-2007 12:03 PM
guyz...
masalah nya i beria nak balik JB sbb nak sambut besday abah i yg ker 57 on 31st aug ni....& kebetulan mak sedara yg paling byk berjasa for my wedding dulu nak kawin kan d only anak dia ...
apsal husband u nak marah lak u taknak kasi pinjam duit?
dah la dia nak kena hantar mak dia, pastu pakai duit u pulak
suruh la dia pinjam duit kat kakak2 dia ke adik beradik dia ke... |
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ape la korg ne...x baek taw gado2 psl rumah tangge org...
kalu nk gado psl umah tangge sndri xper...
1. g balik sabak bernam bersama habi..
2. anta hadiah kpd wedding kt JB.. |
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Reply #67 sejuknya's post
stuju bangat!
innama akmalu binniat..
alfitnatu ashaddu minal qotli...
la taqrobuz zina...:@ |
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thanks to all....
solution nyer...saya kirim duit kat makcik saya tu & stay kat umah jer...my hubby still akan amik mak dia n hntr g sabak bernam....may them happily ever after..... |
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iman, if i'm in ur shoes pun i x bagi hubby pinjam duit.geram tau..
dalam hal ni bukan soal sapa yg bersalah..tapi siapa yg lebih bertimbang rasa.
kalo ye pun nak berjasa kat mak..mak mentua pun kena la juga pikir hal org lain,x blh pentingkan diri sendiri je.tapi yela..dah mak mentua x suka,mcm2 dia akan buat..(just my opinion) |
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Reply #72 iman311006's post
Saya rasa itulah yg terbaik untuk akak...
Jangan kita ikutkan sangat kemarahan hati tu... tak puas hati dengan tindakan suami, slow talk lah dengan dia, bukannya membuat tindakan membelakangkan dia. Saya malas nak bangkitkan pasal hukum agama since semua kat sini dah pakar dalam bab ni kan
Dan pasal wedding tu, call lah makcik akak kat JB tu cakap tak boleh balik, mesti diorang faham keadaan keluarga akak, takkan diiorang nak paksa akak balik kan?:eek: |
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Reply #75 emkay's post
xla bernas sgt...sket2 jer...
4 hari 4 mlm ahkak pk care penyelesaian yg bernas utk prob inni..
1. abg, cpt aaa...kate nk balek sabak bernam...
2. smpi di sabak bernam: mak, bapak, nenek, wan etc....jom kiter g wedding kt JB...bkn jawoh mane sabak bernam-JB...dlm 4-5 jam je...
3. di JB, during wedding day: makcik, kenalkan ne famili in law saye... ne hadiah utk nani..
balek ari jumaat mlm sabtu ke sabak bernam, g je JB pg sabtu-lepak2 sane, ahad pg balek sabak bernam, ptg balek umah..
samibelu: prancangan is the key to saksess..
in case kalu: mak maleh aaa g JB...
ko counter balek: mak ne ape, nk jd kere sumbang ke?...org ajak g walimatul urus, kiter sunnat meriahkan majlis tuh..mak da lupe ke nabi muhamad ade ckp dlm 1 majlis......
en then mak mentue ko rebut: tp die x ajak mak pon...so mak x pyh g aaaa..
nonetheless ko reply: mak pnah g kubo x?..penah denga x imam mase bace talkin, kuar ayat ne: Ya Aiyatuhan nafsul mutmainnah..Irji'ie Ila Robbiki Rodhiatan Mardhiah..Fadkhuli fi I"badi Wadkhuli Jannati..
kalu mak mentue ko x tenang gak jiwa die, ahkak x leh kate paper aaa...
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Reply #70 meow_tompok's post
susahnya nk ikut kelas tusyen nih....
lg susah dr nk pk balik sabak bernam ke balik JB... |
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