ex-gf dah cheat, tapi my bf still contact dia gak lg...pls help

xhitorix

saya ada masalah skrg ni...pening pening.
my bf still contact dia nyer ex lg...padahal diaorang break dulu sebab dia nyer ex tu cheated on him. my bf selalu gak sms and call his ex. aritu, saya tengok dalam dia nyer fone, dalam sent folder...dia ada tulis a few sms..camni
"hi love. miss to hear your wonderful voice"
"hi. i have a crazy idea. apa kata kita tengok hindi movie sesamer? u kan suka tengok hindi movie"
my bf ni slalu gak panggil ex dia dear lah...etc. bila cakap on the phone, mak aih, punyalah friendly. dia dah lupa ker apa pompuan tu dulu buat kat dia?
depan saya cakap lain. belakang cakap lain. bila saya sajer2 tanya my bf whether dia suka tgk citer hindi tak. dia cakap dia tak suka sgt2. tapi sanggup plak dia bg idea nak tgk citer hindi ngan his ex?

saya pun tak paham kenapa dia still contact dia nyer ex tu lagi, sedangkan pompuan dah cheat on him 2 tahun dulu. bila saya sebut pasal hal ni jer, dia terus nak marah.
saya nak confront pasal sms tu, tapi saya takut dia marah balik pasal saya dah curik2 masuk tgk dlm phone dia.
kitaorang in a long distance relationship, and sekarang dia tgh cuti kat msia.
dia dah promise yang dia takkan jumpa ex dia masa dia kat msia..tapi tulah...saya dah susah nak caya kat dia.
seriously, saya dah tak tahan. buat sakit ati jer...
tapi saya tunggu jer dia balik ke france, pastu nak confront dia pasal benda ni. tak sampai ati plak nak confront masa dia kat msia, cause dia tgh ngan family.

apsal dia buat camni? dia slalu puji2 saya, cakap saya ni so much better than dia nyer ex lah. that he loves me so much lah..blah blah. tapi kenapa perlu contact ex dia lagi? kenapa terhegeh2 sgt ngan pompuan tu?
what do you all think?
any advice would be helpful. thank you.

dragon_tears

better u carefull...
dr gaya dia, nampak sgt dia masih ada perasaan syg kat ex dia...

pelik lelaki ni, xgf dah cheat pun nak syg lagi kat die.:@
dh jumpa gf lain, lupakan lah ex gf tu...

bubpallo

cian lu.da kawen ngan u nnti dia stop la tu..................

cikgutuition

Straight to the point..

You must communicate to him frankly cakap you are not comfortable with what he is doing at the moment with her ex..If you x cakap then he wouldn't know..

Then tgk reaction dia camne lak..Kalau dia insist gak nak teruskan then up to you lah..Is he worth the trouble and heartache?

fide

akak rasa baik tinggalkan aje dia tu
jangan2 kat france pun dia ada pompuan lain
tapi sebelum tu confron je dia
baik frust sekarang.. jgn dah kahwin semua tembelang dia baru adik nampak...

siti_nur

ini bermakna 'aura' ex-gf dia tu lg kuat dari u...huhuhuhu....
org mcm ni biase nye dia mase ade simpan perasaan lg eventho dah break...
mcm la kite gak,kalau kte syg kat someone, x kira ape dia dah wat still kite leh maafkan...better u confront dgn bf u dulu...

my 2cents:victory: :victory:

maneez_leo

maneez rs.. better tglkan dia... mzt rs sayang dia kan ex dia msh ada...
pk la.. xpyh la kita nk mkan ati pasal perangai laki yg xpnh nk phm dri kita...
FIKIR-FIKIRKAN.. SELAMAT BERAMAL....

realmatrix

aku tak pelik psl bf ko tu... tp aku pelik psl ko...
apsal ko tak putus je ngan bf ko tu...

thorgard

bf ko tu btl ke tgk crta hindi??   ko konfront bf ko 2..bg ultimatum..nak ke tak nak.. klau nak, lupakan la ex-gf dia tu, tp klau tak nak ko tinggalkan dia je..

artilaa

hmm..baik tinggalkan je la laki mcm tu..ramai lagi yg lg baik dr dia kat luar sana..
nmpak sgt dia tak boleh dipercayai..
jgn mudah terpedaya la ngan kata2 manis dia...biasanya yg manis di bibir ni, susah nak percaya..

xhitorix

Originally posted by realmatrix at 6-2-2008 11:18 AM
aku tak pelik psl bf ko tu... tp aku pelik psl ko...
apsal ko tak putus je ngan bf ko tu...

other than problem ni, kitaorang mmg takda problem langsung.
saya memang sayang2 sgt kat dia....kitaorang very compatible...tapi bila dia buat hal camni, tulah yang jadi susah.
tapi honestly speaking, saya memang kuat nak break ngan dia. tunggu the right moment jer....

parersk_gurl

aduh siannye mesti makan ati ni
betul ckp akak fide 4 sure dier ada gf laen
jauh tue bukan kite tau ape dier buat...biar frust skrg dr frust time dh ade ikatan
dpn awk pun dier bole call bukan maen lemah lembut cakap...ni kan jauh   
gurl rasa awk confront je jgn nk tgu dlm fone leceh kita tak bole nmpk keikhlasan dier time admit tue
rasanye dier pun tak tau yg awk makan ati dlm hal ex-gf dier tue

mawarputih2612

teruknya lelaki gitu:@:@

servis ex dia bagus kot:eek::eek::eek::eek:
sori yer

Santeira

Leave him. Tq.

True-X

sumthing yg ex gf dia ader tp ko tak der...

u better work hard gurls... the best gurl win

edralynna

bf ko 2 org mane sbnrnye??...
clash jer la..
nanti kalu ko kawin x bahagie tau..
coz die still syg kt ex die lg..
ape punye jantan laaaa

wi_haryati

Originally posted by xhitorix at 6-2-2008 11:08 AM
saya ada masalah skrg ni...pening pening.
my bf still contact dia nyer ex lg...padahal diaorang break dulu sebab dia nyer ex tu cheated on him. my bf selalu gak sms and call his ex. aritu, saya  ...

kene betegas sket .. dia main tarik tali tu.. coz dia tau, he got yr heart and u wont say anything if he still in touch with the ex.. pas experience mestila susah nak lupe.. but if he do not even bother to try, memang dia tak leh lupe la...

AhmadNasa

hik hik

xhitorix

Originally posted by edralynna at 6-2-2008 11:27 AM
bf ko 2 org mane sbnrnye??...
clash jer la..
nanti kalu ko kawin x bahagie tau..
coz die still syg kt ex die lg..
ape punye jantan laaaa

dia duk kat selangor...ex gf dia kat penang

kekekek

Originally posted by xhitorix at 6-2-2008 11:08 AM
saya ada masalah skrg ni...pening pening.
my bf still contact dia nyer ex lg...padahal diaorang break dulu sebab dia nyer ex tu cheated on him. my bf selalu gak sms and call his ex. aritu, saya  ...

Rasanya elok you bagi ruang kat your bofren tu.
Dia contact pompuan tu tak bermakna dia tak sayang kat u.
Saya rasa dia dlm persimpangan dilemma.
Bincang baik-baik dengan dia, just terus terang...bagi masa, tengok camner.