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The Despair that is Love...
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ok.....I just want to ask people here...i'm sure most of you people here are very experienced in a relationship....It's just that I'm not....and I do very much, feel sorry for my housemate here...
Im just gonna speak English here if you guys don't mind...coz i'm used to it
k, here's the story....
my housemate is a lovely guy....kinda shy, respectable, handsome, well educated....basically a package well-packed lah......
now, i've known him for many years...he is indeed a shy guy....never had any gf until now....
To cut to the chase, he met his current gf at a library...the girl is beautiful, good mannered...
they've been friends for a long time....and my mate here knows that his girl still has a bf, some other guy we'll call him 'X'.....now, this was last year....
and then one day, this girl told my mate that her relationship was over with X...so, my mate is sooo happy...happy like i've never seen him before....
2 months down the road, my mate and his girl declared that they are in a relationship.....
the trouble is....his gf kept getting calls from X.....and that poor girl is so nice, always 'layan borak' mamat X tu.....because somehow she feels bad about dumping this X guy...
one day, X called her and wanted to meet her face-to-face, so that they can break up as 'formal' as possible....X was saying if he didnt get to see this girl...he will keep calling no matter what....
desperate to end this....this girl informed my mate that she had to see X....to end it once and for all....despite my mate's warning, she went to see X anyway....
I got an info that they went to sit by the beach at dusk and talked things....one thing led to another......................
I got home one day and I say my mate sat in the corner of his room in the dark......he's got tears running down his cheeks.....he said "that basted X kissed my girl and bragged about it...i got an email from him"...
apparently this girl admit to it...but only said that she kissed X's cheek....that's about it....as a 'goodbye'....because X keep threatening her to intrude her life if he didn't get a kiss....
but the problem is....this basted X emailed my mate and said that they had locked 'lips'......and X was saying that they never broke up...and blamed my mate for ruining their relationship...
my mate....poor man that he is don't know which one he should trust.....and that girl looks like a good girl....she's calling my mate everyday....only to speak for a few minutes before getting into the same arguments!!!
what do you guys think?? should my mate give the girl a second chance?? |
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Reply #1 ghettoVet's post
ok, dear concern housemate:p
trust, is something we build. by knowing her, by believing her.
in this story(from ur side of course), clearly, the X is the villain here...(supervillain?) and u know wat villain do? they create trouble, they spread rumours, poison, they kill hearts!
so must u trust the villain or the heroin?
simple story, ask the girl, if she really luv ur roomate, then change phone num, delete the X num, and start a new life.... |
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Balas #1 ghettoVet\ catat
kawan ko yg perlu bg dirinya sndiri peluang kedua.................... |
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Reply #4 matryoshka7's post
this is a very good insight....and i've told him that
but it proves that it's a harder that he thinks to forget her.....
he said to me....if his gf cheated on him this early in their relationship, how can he trust his gf for the years to come....trust is gone here.... |
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Reply #6 ghettoVet's post
yes...tell him the damage has been done...
forget about her n move on....
he has to be very2 strong to lift himself up when he's down now....
doa kt Tuhan byk2 n kuatkan semangat....
mmg bukan senang nk lupa, nk kuatkan semangat tp still we have to work for it....
kalo kte tak tolong diri kte sendiri takde sape bole tolong kte.... |
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Reply #6 ghettoVet's post
btw, kwn2 bole nasihatkan tp dia sendiri kena usaha utk dirinya sendiri.... |
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the problem is my mate is a very considerate man....
his gf is begging for his forgiveness everyday....crying etc....
aku pun kesian tgk that girl....that girl really loves him....
i dunno what to say when my mate ask me...'should i give a her a second chance?'
apparently, info from this girl's friends....that kiss was very brief....like instant on the cheek...because she was so afraid that X would ruin her life....and wanted everything to be over ....she was troubled with this X's threats......apparently that was the first time she kissed a guy....
but problem is who do we believe?? the girl or X???.... |
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Reply #9 ghettoVet's post
mm....i believe that karma makes a part of the world goes round too, so i'd say (which is not me at all) that to give the girl another chance.
to quote from famous movies, if no chances is given we will yet to know our fate if we do it otherwise. mcm sleepless in seattle lah. what does heart feels, the head had to think too. kalo hati dah suke, tapi mcm impossible to think n process about it mentally, i think your fren found himself an answer.
X is just another character that tries to be the protagonist, n will never be important in the future. if everything else fails, change her number so that X couldnt call anymore. aku penah kena mcm nih. aku threaten ex aku, kalo ko kaco aku lagi aku kasi nmber ko kat polis. he never call me again.
anyway, good luck to ur housemate! |
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mls nak baca coz penat nk pk translate... (b.i failed) |
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Originally posted by boti at 16-5-2009 20:44
dah break tu break le...watpa layan borak lagi...tukar phone no dan teruskan kehidupan...
jika tak layan borak X tak boleh ke...napa rindu ke dia kat lelaki tu..? pastu dah dilarang jumpa, jumpa ...
This is the BOMB! a very good post...moderator should give credits to boti's post....
if only i could convey this message to my mate.....i've tried, believe me...but he is in 'denial'.....he likes to be alone now, sleeps early....eats in his room...he don't hang out with us anymore....
I hate what this problem is doing to him.... |
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Reply #1 ghettoVet's post
do nothing is better. Let them settled their own affairs. Be an observer, i think is better.
hmm the housemate - i'd say some poor judgement done on his part.... |
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Reply #14 mbhcsf's post
yeah, let he decide by his own. afterall, it is his life.
credit given. NOTE: for any recomendation of credit, just press REPORT
txs |
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Originally posted by boti at 16-5-2009 20:44
dah break tu break le...watpa layan borak lagi...tukar phone no dan teruskan kehidupan...
jika tak layan borak X tak boleh ke...napa rindu ke dia kat lelaki tu..? pastu dah dilarang jumpa, jumpa ... betol ckp boti tuh...
dah tade pape jgn la layan...tah ape2 tah...
dah jumpe lain...get ready and just love one and only je la... |
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