symptom2 dalam hubungan...

daaaad

Dear all my fren...
mohon mahap jika thread ni da ade..aku just mls nk cari2 smpai blakang

aku ni xla arif sgt about the whole 'cinte2' things but i do need all u guys thinking on :

1) sign if die curang @ ade another sweetheart
2) sign if die still xle lupe previous ex
3) sign if die da berubah utk btol2 komitmen kt kite
4) sign if die is mr.Right~
5) how to make relation yg hampir doom,bersinar kembali

sile la berikan pendapat korg maybe just utk soalan no 1/2/3/4 or 5 klu korg xle answer sume soklan aku ok

kementot

i'm da 1st one....


1.kalo dia da ada owang lain...lpskan jelah..xguna nk pertahankan kalo dah sah2 dia ada owg lain.
2.soal dia xle lupa yg previous ex tu..xleh nk kate ape la kan..sbb mayb byk kngn...sbb aku sdiri still xleh lupa...tp kna ingt 1 jer..yg lps tu hnya kngn..yg skrg ni adlh ms depan..y not u create a new life yg bole buat ko ingt smpi bila2..that's mean kngn yg ko bkl create tu lg indah dr kngn smlm...
3. kalo dia da bg 100% komitmen,aku rs better u all settle down awl2..xperlu bercinta lame2...bercinta berthn2 pon belum tntu lg jodoh kite dgn dia..so,no need to bercintan cintun lelame...
4. if u xsure smada dia tu mr.rite or mr.wrong..wat solat istikharah..mayb akn dpt petunjuk..doa byk2..insyaALLAH ALLAH akn bg petunjuk dan u akn dpt wat kptsn yg sebetulnya...but u must know..smtimes kite rs dia tu adlh jodoh kite..but..at da same time..badai melanda..dan hubungn retak di tgh jalan...kna trima Qada' dan Qadar...
5. da last 1...u should discuss together...try 2 solve wat da problem is..try untuk selami hti msg2..ape yg buat u all ni mkin renggang..duduk bertntang 4 mata..cuba fikirkan dimana slp dan slhnya..fikirkan yg terbaik..kalo msh xjmpa jln penyelesaian...i think..better u all stop it..mayb u all xseswai jd psgn kekasih...lg seswai jd kawan..so,berkawan jelah... depends pd u all..kalo msh sygkan 1 sma lain..so usahakan yg terbaik..jgn sia2 kan ms anda bersama suatu waktu dahulu...

p/s: ALLAH maha pengasih lg maha penyayang...DIA tau ape yg terbaik untuk hambanya...
      lelaki yg baik hnya untuk perempuan yg baik..dan perempuan yg baik juga untuk lelaki  yg baik...begitu sebaliknya...itu jnji ALLAH...

qyaisara

1# daaaad

meh nk tulung jawab..

1) sign if die curang @ ade another sweetheart
pangai dia totally berubah.. tibe jd baran.. ckp pun x bape nk ckp..

2) sign if die still xle lupe previous ex
kalau ngan kita, kdg2 dia asyik bercerita pasal ex dia.. or apa2 saje.. kdg nak kita jd cam tu, jd cam ni.. kdg2 terperasan apa yg dia mntk tu same as his ex.. esp dari segi sikap, penampilan dll

3) sign if die da berubah utk btol2 komitmen kt kite
dh jarang contact kita.. kalau dulu hari2.. pastu seminggu skali.. pastu dua mggu skali.. pastu sebulan skali.. pastu tgk la.. kdg senyap terus.. time kita contact dia, berbagai alasan yg diberi.. bz la.. ada keje la.. mcm la selama ni x penah bz.. pastu tak de lagi amik berat psl kita.. nk jmpa apatah lagi.. at last dia bgtau sendiri yg dia nk break dgn kita.. so tak de da sign2.. dah suda terang lagi bersuluh

4) sign if die is mr.Right~
ntah la

5) how to make relation yg hampir doom,bersinar kembali
yg ni pun tak tau ar cam ne.. kalau org da x nak tu.. wat pe pun, tetap x bersinar.. kat hati dia dah tak de kita.. susah ar utk bersinar kembali.. sbb dia dah de org lain

hitamputih

bagus gak thread ni, leh wat panduan
sesapa jawab dpt tacang!

hitamputih

Soklan 4 - source http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/88959/dating-101-is-he-mr-right

Dating 101: Is He Mr. Right?

5 essential traits to look for-By dating expert Lisa Steadman

Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap without looking, take an honest inventory. See how many of the following five essential traits he possesses.

Dating Trait #1: He listens to you
The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthyof) being a candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You'll know he's listening when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you've told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend's name, etc.), and offers emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways.

Dating Trait #2: He connects with you easily
We've all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process). When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don't have to force anything, forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you communicate and collaborate with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction, you are on to something really special.

Dating Trait #3: He wants the real you
So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right relationship, there's no need. You don't have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your fabulous life. With the right partner, you're not only able to be yourself, but you're better able to be the best version of your most authentic self -- no compromises needed.

Dating Trait #4: He's trustworthy
A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over time, trust is based on the simple belief system that your partner has your best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100 percent trustworthy, you'll have no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he'll most likely give you his heart and pave the way for a lasting, loving relationship to unfold.

Dating Trait #5: He enriches your life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You'll know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally, and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!

Does your Mr. Next possess all five qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success.

If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of who you want to date. Remember, finding your life partner isn't always easy, but by being clear, honoring yourself, and acting accordingly, you'll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately make room for Mr. Right.

cik.panda

1. kalau dia curang, selalunya kau akan tau. kau perempuan kan? orang kata perempuan ni ada instinct yang kuat. berapa lama kau kenal bf kau? kalau kau dah kenal, katalah setahun, mesti kau tau perangai dia. kalau tiba2 dia berubah, adalah tuh. especially bila dia selalu carik salah kau, selalu ada benda tak kena, pendek kata ada je benda yang boleh buat korang gaduh atau break up, mungkin itu tanda2 dia curang.

2. yang ni susah sikit, kadang2 lelaki tak suka bercerita. dia taknak kau kecik hati, kalau dia cter pasal ex dia. kalau ex dia first love, kau kena terima, mungkin dia masih belum lupakan. apa2 pun satu benda kena ingat, whatever it is sekarang dia pilih kau. pegang yang itu. ex dia adalah sejarah. sesekali teringat adalah normal/

3. kalau btol2 nak ada komitmen dengan kita, dia ajak kahwin laa. itu jek. ok, kau dengan bf pernah ada planning tak? rancang untuk hidup sama ke, bercakap pasal beberapa tahun akan datang. kalau kau ajak dia cakap pasal future planning then dia macam tak minat itu one of the sign dia macam taknak ade komitmen dengan kau.

4. kalau nak ensure dia mr right, tanya hati. penilaian kau kat dia, macam mana. paling berkesan, buatlah solat istikharah, mintak petunjuk., kalau btol jodoh dengan orang tuh.

5.how to make relation yg hampir doom,bersinar kembali. tengok balik, apa punca yang buat hubungan tuh hambar. kurang komunikasi? kurang komitmen? atau selalu sangat jumpa sampai dah bosan, takde benda nak cakap? once dah dapat punca, jangan carik siapa yang salah, tapi carik solution-nya. bincang sama2, luahkan masalah, dan carik jalan penyelesaian.

redsinner

1) sign if die curang @ ade another sweetheart
- tgk mata dia. eyes is the window to someone's soul. selalunye mata yg bgtau samada org tu menipu, sedih, gembira, penat, boring etc etc. selalunye dlm period dia curang tuh dia nyer attention tak 100% pada kite. ada something else on his mind. kalo dia takleh ckp ape dia, follow your instinct.

2) sign if die still xle lupe previous ex
- sepatutnye kalo dah berkapel, one of the golden rules is not to mention our exes. mention sket2 sudah la. toksah la nak bgtau "oh, my ex n i penah pegi sini dulu", "my ex n i dulu buat mcm tuh, bukan mcm nih", "my ex n i suke makan ice cream flavour nih". sepatutnye new relationships carve new memories. so kalo dia asyik nak flashback tuh, sound2 sket.

3) sign if die da berubah utk btol2 komitmen kt kite
- he/she listens! as human, kite byk ckp, bukan mendengar. kalo seseorang tuh dengar dan patuh, dah petunjuk baik lah tuh. susah nak patuh org lain yang tak bentuk sape kite dari kecik.
- he/she wants to be there and not to miss anything. si dia akan sentiasa berada disisi utk kasi sokongan, esp sokongan moral. walaupun utk perhubungan jarak jauh (PJJ), si dia tuh akan keep up to date dgn perkembangan kite.

4) sign if die is mr.Right~
- aku believe in Chemistry. byk couple tua yang aku jumpe ckp, kalo korang byk ckp its a good sign. walaupun satu hari nanti korang akan kering idea utk topic berbual, bottomline is komunikasi. kalo komunikasi ok, insya allah perhubungan akan ok juge. sbb utk sustain perkahwinan sampai ke akhirnye, manusia perlu byk komunikasi dan spend time together.

5) how to make relation yg hampir doom,bersinar kembali
- buat balik bende2 yang korang selalu buat masa mula2 dating. yg nih mmg proved to be a success! oh, provided that korang dah agree utk buat, sbb nanti ada yg ckp "aik, kenapa buat mcm nih?", "apa awak buat nih?" mcm surprise lak kang

hmm..ini ilham aku, kalo ada yg x kena boleh tambah ok? just my 2 cents

khaieza86

1) sign if die curang @ ade another sweetheart
*erm...biasanyer die x tumpukan perhatian kat ap yg kita tgk ckp...
kepala otak die dok melayang kat tmpat lain....

2) sign if die still xle lupe previous ex
*yg nie jelas la kot....sbb die akn selalu puji2 n banding2kan kita ngan ex die....
haiiiii azab la klu jadi mcm nie....

3) sign if die da berubah utk btol2 komitmen kt kite
*die akn bsungguh2 nak jmper ngan parents....die akn nyatakan hasrat die nak ambik kita as a wife.....haiiiiiiii....so sweet klu ader yg mcm nie....

4) sign if die is mr.Right~
*yg nie jelas la .....klu kita ngan die kita rase selesa....makin ari makin syg....dlm ati ader taman...dalam taman ader bunga yg sedang bkembang...

5) how to make relation yg hampir doom,bersinar kembali
*try la wat sesuatu yg mgharukan die.....ingtkan kembali zaman2 hangat bcinta dolu2...
mesti si dia akn jadi terharu n tgaruu...

hunny_bunny

me pun xlaa bape pandai sgt..tp ni jwpn based on my experience...


1) sign if die curang @ ade another sweetheart
* susah nak dihubungi...pastu kalo call pun ada ms tertentu...then xselalu ada utk kiter...nak dating atau ajak berjumpa pun payah nak mampos....kalo ada simptom2 ni...better laa angkat kaki lambung....dr menunggu utk dikecewakan??...

2) sign if die still xle lupe previous ex
* hmm yg sebenarnyer bukan mudah utk melupakan org yg pernah kiter cinta...it takes time dear....mcm 1 pepatah tu...nak kenal dgn sesorg amek ms 1 ari...utk mencintai mungkin seminggu....dan utk melupakan mungkin mengambil masa yg sgt lama...bagi peluang pd bf/gf.....cube utk memberi 1 kelainan pada dier..insyaALLAH berkat sabar dan usaha...dier akan melupankannyaa...lagi pun..utk ape hidup dlm kenangan kan??..

3) sign if die da berubah utk btol2 komitmen kt kite
* hmm dier akan cube ajak u utk melangkah ke stage seterusnyer...maybe dier akan propose u utk jd wife dier...dier akan jd sgt angau...sgt cinta...dan xbley nak berpisah dgn u...that means dier betul2 cinta dan betul2 syg kan u...

4) sign if die is mr.Right~
* bile u makan...u still xde rs kenyang...biler u bangun tidur u terus terbayang2kan dier...biler u rs setiap denyutan nadi u terisi dier...biler u rs hidup u bertambah ceria dgn kehadiran dier...biler u rs dier selalu ade biler u perlukan dier...biler u rs dier menyintai u kerana diri u yg sebenar...biler u rs dier sentiasa berusaha utk memberikan yg terbaik utk u...biler u rs dier sanggup lakukan segalanyer utk u....biler u tgk dier menangis kerana u....biler u rs dier xbley kalo xdpt mendengar suara u.....biler u rs hidup u kosong tanpa dier..

5) how to make relation yg hampir doom,bersinar kembali
* buat sesuatu yg u dgn bf/gf u xpernah lakukan sebelum ni...pegi ketempat2 yg penuh kenangan sewaktu bahagia dulu...
cube berubah menjadi seperti bf/gf u inginkan...berubah demi kebaikkan xsalah kan??...cube memperbaiki diri masing2...jgn terlalu put high ecpectation dr pasangan....

rs nyer sume ni pernah me lalui...harap dpt membantu tuan tanah...

daaaad

tenQ guys for such benefit info u all da curah kan~