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lelaki mudah give up dgn hubungan ke?

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Post time 18-8-2015 02:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts |Read mode
salam, sy dah menjalinkan hubungan dgn kekasih sy 6 tahun, segalanya ok dan bahagia..tetapi segalanya berubah bila tiba2 dia mendiamkan diri selama 3-4 hari.. sy memujuk dia call dan sms,tanya kenapa ,apa yg terjadi.dia ckp dia dah tak tahan dgn perangai sy, kongkong, selalu marah, dan tidak paham kerja dia. pd  




mulanya dia ok dan mahu kami bina hubungan baru tapi ikot cara dia. kemudian kami msg dlm keadaan diingin smpai 1 masa sy yg minta putus dan sy mendiamkan diri seminggu. sy berharap dia akan mncari sy balik.


keadaan makin worst bila sy dtg kembali dan meminta maaf. dia katakan hatinya kosong.dia tak menjanjikan apa2 tentang hati lagi .ade jugak dia ckp ade jodoh ade lah. hampir 3minggu dia diingin, sy tetap memujuk,dia ckp jgn kacau dia bekerja , sy turutkan, sy kol dia angkat tp kdg2 xdilayan. msg dia endah x endah kdg2 ckp xde duit nak top4. sy buntu.. sy berlembut dgn dia,, dia ade ckp kalau nak baiki hubungan .. ambik balik hati dia elok2..berubah ikot apa yg dia nak..  itu petanda baik atau sekadar kata2 xnk sakitkan hati sy?

mcm2 sy buat utk selamatkan hubungan nie. sy nk pergi berjumpa dgn dia di johor, dia x bagi ..mcm2 ditanya, knp nak dtg? nak tidor mane? bnyak duit ke? sy kol sms mcm xjalan..  


buntu.. adakah sy patut give up juga? sy sygkan hbgn sy sbb kami pnh merancang utk bertunang 2 thn lagi. sy pon dia dah bawak jumpa family nya ..
apa patut sy buat sekarang? dia seolah2 melarikan diri dr sy.. adkah sbb tindakan xmatang sy sebelom ni buatkan dia merajuk atau mmg betul sy patut lepaskan dia? sy btol2 mnyesal sy baru tersedar dia betul2 sygkan sy selama ni.. dia lebihkan sy dr segala bnde sblom ni..
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Post time 18-8-2015 02:49 PM | Show all posts
keknis (hanis zalikha) baru kawin dah ada masalah rumah tangge ke?
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Post time 18-8-2015 03:04 PM | Show all posts
ayat ni "adkah sbb tindakan xmatang sy sebelom ni buatkan dia merajuk atau mmg betul sy patut lepaskan dia" dah jawab soalan TT sendiri dah

sorry tapi hati bf u memang dah kosong dah... the more u want him back, the more he will hate u for what u have done and wants to do....

give it a rest, occupy ur time, find other guys....then u will know if ur ex is worth keeping or someone out there is more deserving

Sign,
Otai lama muncul

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 Author| Post time 18-8-2015 03:19 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
bellaa replied at 18-8-2015 02:49 PM
keknis (hanis zalikha) baru kawin dah ada masalah rumah tangge ke?

balik honeymoon trus gaduh laa.. hehe
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 Author| Post time 18-8-2015 03:24 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 18-8-2015 03:04 PM
ayat ni "adkah sbb tindakan xmatang sy sebelom ni buatkan dia merajuk atau mmg betul sy patut lepask ...

xtahu.. kenape rasa still ada harapan n nak mencuba pujuk secara face to face.. sbb xlogik sbb sy x matang la ape la. dia blame sy for everything.. klo xde harapan dah.. kenapa ye dia maafkan sy n bagi sy pluang.. n suruh sy ambik hati dia balik?
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Post time 18-8-2015 03:29 PM | Show all posts
keknis replied at 18-8-2015 03:24 PM
xtahu.. kenape rasa still ada harapan n nak mencuba pujuk secara face to face.. sbb xlogik sbb sy  ...

like i said...give it some more time...when he needs u he will look for u.

dia pun pandai, dia tak nak trus dump u sbb dia belum ade calon lagi...so thats why he says fine, i will still give u a chance, but play by my rules...whats my rule, dont call me, i will call u, dont disturb me, dont force me, dont pester me...when im ready and have the time, i will look for u

thats his meaning...paham? sila lah menafsirkan ayat di atas

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 Author| Post time 18-8-2015 03:38 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 18-8-2015 03:29 PM
like i said...give it some more time...when he needs u he will look for u.

dia pun pandai, dia  ...

paham.. means skrg sy kena bagi masa untuk diri dia... jgn paksa dia.. bg kebebasan..
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Post time 18-8-2015 03:47 PM | Show all posts
keknis replied at 18-8-2015 03:38 PM
paham.. means skrg sy kena bagi masa untuk diri dia... jgn paksa dia.. bg kebebasan..

yes...my dear...pandai
apa dia nak buat bagi lah
as for u, continue ur life, go find new guys as friends..know more...and who know...u might be lucky again
as for him, he may do the same, so dont wory or feel quilty...sbb berkawan aje mah...kan?
kalau nak whatsapp group Cari yg ade ramai kawan2 baru yg u boleh borak2 sama, let me know

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Post time 18-8-2015 03:49 PM | Show all posts
Dia dah ade yg lain tu

get away je lar
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 Author| Post time 18-8-2015 03:52 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
tagas replied at 18-8-2015 03:49 PM
Dia dah ade yg lain tu

get away je lar

xtahu lah nak cakap ade ke xde.. xmudah nk lepaskan.. sbb selagi mampu nk baiki hubungan..sy nak baiki..biarpon kdg2 dtg dr salah dia sendiri ..
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 Author| Post time 18-8-2015 04:02 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 18-8-2015 03:47 PM
yes...my dear...pandai
apa dia nak buat bagi lah
as for u, continue ur life, go find new guys a ...

susahnye nak move on..
susah nye nak percaya ..
benda tiba2..n im not ready for this situation..

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Post time 18-8-2015 04:06 PM | Show all posts
keknis replied at 18-8-2015 04:02 PM
susahnye nak move on..
susah nye nak percaya ..
benda tiba2..n im not ready for this situation. ...

yes i know....this is the suffering time...cant be alone...atau u akan gila....
masuk je lah whatsapp group tu...boleh sembang2 dgn kawan2 baru
PM me

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Post time 18-8-2015 04:14 PM | Show all posts
tagas replied at 18-8-2015 03:49 PM
Dia dah ade yg lain tu

get away je lar

Yang ni aku rasa betol..Dari penglaman aku sblom ni ngn this guy selama 5 tahun..alasan dah la sebijik ngn bf TT ni...nk berbaik kena ikut cara dia kunun..sekali ada orang lain rupanya...
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Post time 18-8-2015 04:26 PM | Show all posts
Edited by bellaa at 18-8-2015 04:28 PM
sy sygkan hbgn sy sbb kami pnh merancang utk bertunang 2 thn lagi. sy pon dia dah bawak jumpa family nya ..
apa patut sy buat sekarang? dia seolah2 melarikan diri dr sy

masih nak teroskan perhubungan yg terkontang-kanting sampai 8 tahun?
xperlu lah keknis..

terang2 dia nak larikan diri.. langsung x nak ada komitmen dgn awk..

disebabkan selama 6 tahun uols berkenalan, keknis bersikap CHILDISH.



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 Author| Post time 18-8-2015 04:53 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
bellaa replied at 18-8-2015 04:26 PM
masih nak teroskan perhubungan yg terkontang-kanting sampai 8 tahun?
xperlu lah keknis..
...

itulah yg buat terfikir.. klo sblom kawen pon dia punya dera emosi mcm ni rupa.. xtaulah ..


yg sy tau la sblom nie dye sgt penyabar.. xpnh buat mcm nie bila bergaduh.. yela mungkin sabar org dah smpai hadnya.ini la jadinya..
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 Author| Post time 18-8-2015 04:56 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Gadis_sarawak replied at 18-8-2015 04:14 PM
Yang ni aku rasa betol..Dari penglaman aku sblom ni ngn this guy selama 5 tahun..alasan dah la seb ...

nasib kita sama... mudahnya brubah hati..dia siap ckp xtau lah klo ade org lain yg bole lembutkan hati dia.. sesenang tu je ckp..
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Post time 18-8-2015 05:01 PM | Show all posts
lelakk tu x nak ko... Jika dia nak, dh lama dia ajak kawen

Bercinta 6tahun nie lama sangat, smpai luar dalam dah tahu

Lelaki tu pun dah jemu
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 Author| Post time 18-8-2015 05:53 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
vespa_oren replied at 18-8-2015 05:01 PM
lelakk tu x nak ko... Jika dia nak, dh lama dia ajak kawen

Bercinta 6tahun nie lama sangat, smpai ...

dulu dye ajak kawen, tp sibok nk smbg belajar.. now dah brubah hati ler die kot.. apo bole buek..redha jela...Allah nak tunjuk sesuatu la tu..
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Post time 19-8-2015 09:09 AM | Show all posts
keknis replied at 18-8-2015 04:56 PM
nasib kita sama... mudahnya brubah hati..dia siap ckp xtau lah klo ade org lain yg bole lembutkan  ...

move on je la keknis...aku dah lama move on dah selamat berumahtangga pun.Tapi baru2 ni ex aku tu nak rujuk balik siap pm aku awal ogos lalu kat FB aku, tp aku xbalas ape pun pm dia..Selamba je aku letak pic kahwin aku jd profile pic nak bg dia faham yg aku dah khwin dan xnak diganggu. Yela dulu senang2 nak mainkan perasaan aku...Sekarang rasa bertuah jumpa en.suami..
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Post time 19-8-2015 09:23 AM | Show all posts
Hati manusia ni sifatnya berbolak balik. Harini suka, esok tak suka. Harini tak suka, esok mungkin suka pulak.

Tanya diri sendiri, u lebih kenal dia mcm mana dari kami pembaca ni
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