Surat Menyentuh Perasaan Suami Yang Isteri Terbunuh Dalam Tragedi Paris

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Oleh Fyruz Hanna


Selain meragut ratusan nyawa yang tidak bersalah, tragedi Paris juga meninggalkan duka yang mendalam terhadap ahli keluarga mangsa yang terkorban.


Ada yang tak mampu mengawal emosi dan perasaan setelah kehilangan insan yang tersayang dengan sekelip mata.




Sewaktu si isteri Helen Muyal terkorban di Bataclan (tempat paling ramai mangsa korban), 3 hari selepas kejadian, suaminya Antoine Leiris menulis sebuah surat kepada si isteri di laman Facebook dengan tajuk “You Will Not Have My Hatred” (Kamu Tidak Akan Mendapat Kebencianku)

Dalam suratnya, Leiris menegaskan walaupun nyawa isteri yang telah dikahwini selama 12 tahun telah menjadi mangsa mereka yang tak bertanggungjawab, dia bertekad untuk tidak berdendam, rasa takut dan juga rasa benci untuk bersama kehidupannya dengan anak yang baru sahaja berusia 17 bulan.


Antara tulisannya yang telah dialih dalam bahasa Inggeris:


Friday night, you took an exceptional life - the love of my life, the mother of my son - but you will not have my hatred. I don't know who you are and I don't want to know, you are dead souls. If this God, for whom you kill blindly, made us in his image, every bullet in the body of my wife would have been one more wound in his heart.

So, no, I will not grant you the gift of my hatred. You're asking for it, but responding to hatred with anger is falling victim to the same ignorance that has made you what you are. You want me to be scared, to view my countrymen with mistrust, to sacrifice my liberty for my security. You lost.

I saw her this morning. Finally, after nights and days of waiting. She was just as beautiful as when she left on Friday night, just as beautiful as when I fell hopelessly in love over 12 years ago. Of course I am devastated by this pain, I give you this little victory, but the pain will be short-lived. I know that she will be with us every day and that we will find ourselves again in this paradise of free love to which you have no access.

We are just two, my son and me, but we are stronger than all the armies in the world. I don't have any more time to devote to you, I have to join Melvil who is waking up from his nap. He is barely 17-months-old. He will eat his meals as usual, and then we are going to play as usual, and for his whole life this little boy will threaten you by being happy and free. Because no, you will not have his hatred either.




Sesungguhnya, kehilangan orang yang dikasihi sememangnya sangat sakit dan tragis. Keberanian dan keteguhan hati Leiris harus dipuji. -CARI Infonet.

HannahMontana

uhmmmmmmmmmm bukan aku nak keji ko kecut

bukan kerana saudara seagama aku juga dibunuh dan dizalimi maka aku nafikan ko bersedih hanya kerana ko kafeer

tp mcm aku katalah.......xkan wife ko ada wifi dlm kubur sana

jgn dramatic sgt....

sayawifenikmie

HannahMontana replied at 20-11-2015 08:50 PM
uhmmmmmmmmmm bukan aku nak keji ko kecut

bukan kerana saudara seagama aku juga dibunuh dan dizali ...

.............. ooo...  i thought surat tu ditujukan kepada pembunuh isterinya (pengganas).

HannahMontana

sayawifenikmie replied at 21-11-2015 02:34 PM
.............. ooo...  i thought surat tu ditujukan kepada pembunuh isterinya (pengganas).

ye  ye surat utk pengebom

wife dia tetap xde wifi utk membacanya


whatever

hope u get well soon

anees~nuhara

aah...ye lah...jgn dramatic sgt

mollipop

as salam

i'm so sad to read the respond in this thread. forgive me if i'm wrong, people have their own way to deal with grief. as for me, he is not being dramatic. lucky u, u are not in his shoes. not this very moment. he was right. hatred is what lead us to this kind of world today. hatred is a personality. muslim or non-muslim is not an issue.  its humanity folks! just and only my 2 cents~

outcast

surat yg sangat ikhlas ..
he is a great man  & i am sure his son will as well as his wife..
i got sands in eyes

irwansuhadi

mollipop replied at 23-11-2015 04:10 PM
as salam

i'm so sad to read the respond in this thread. forgive me if i'm wrong, people have thei ...

waalaikumussalam,

Thankyou for a good opinion. There are no bad religions, only bad people. This is not about kafeer or Muslim. Tell you what, do they really know that they are kafeer? The tragedy was really devastated not to the victim's family but also to the world, as same as the tragedy in Palestine, Syria. Now, instead of blaming and cursing others' grief, why not we just keep holding on and never let our hope to peace fade away? We, as Muslim should show the examplary action towards our behaviour and words in order to reflect what our Prophet tought us.