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Casual Dating ke friendzone sebenarnya?
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Hello all..
I nak minta opinion you all please.
ok here goes my concern.
I am in my early 30's tapi dah lama not in dating game. Dated my ex husband for a long time dah lupa macam mana to be back in the game.
So recently i decided ok maybe it's time to try again..
Sekarang ni i ada jumpa this guy, duda dah belas tahun in his mid 40's. So we went out few times, things are pretty well i suppose. we talk about life, family, past and what not.
So we established that we both like each other. we meet about once or twice a week.
I jadi confuse if we are seeing each other ke, casual ke, friend je ke sebab when we are not spending time together, the texting pun very minimal and very boring, but bila jumpa he's very chatty.
i'm not sure if he's always in the game since dah 15 tahun menduda. i wanted to ask but i feel like it's not my place to do so.
So at this point i tak tahu where we are. nak tanya pun tak tahu macam mana nak tanya. dilema sebab he's a lot older. ke memang ni biasa for older men?
so, yeah please help. Thank you
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Tanyalah untuk kepastian
Hint bunga cinta ada x |
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memang selalu nak tanya what are we tapi tak terluah sebab rasa macam budak budak pulak 
hint bunga cinta macam mana maksud you? |
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sure ke that duda suka you? u sangkut dah dgn dia? klu i jadi u i terus je tanya..relationship ni atas dasar apa.. dari buang masa gitu jer..tunggu punya tunggu menopos suda..
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aku rasa dengan umur TT dan pasangan TT, elok kiranya korang berterus terang. takkanla nak bercinta lama-lama pulak ye.
kalau masing-masing hati dah berkenan okay la. |
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Try utk diamkan diri and tgk dia cari u tak? Try jugak ckp xmo kua pretending u busy.. Tgk reaction dia.. If he's fine and xkisah.. Then u r just his buddy utk hilang kebosanan and nothing more.. If he insists tny kenapa mcm menjauhkan diri ke apa.. Then itu positif sign la utk u tny 'what are we' question tu.. Else, dont bother to ask and move on..
On timeframe ni try dlm 2-3mggu...mostly pon sebulan. Pastu baru boleh nilai..
The fact the guy dh 15tahun menduda pon mungkin menyebabkan dia dh xrasa nak cari penganti or xjumpa lagi yg ok.. Kadang2 sekadar nak test market pon ade jugak.. Tu je la opinion duopoloh sen i.. Harap membantu..  |
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ramaramu replied at 21-5-2019 11:52 AM
memang selalu nak tanya what are we tapi tak terluah sebab rasa macam budak budak pulak
hint ...
Tanye jelah. Jgn buang masa |
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Hmm.. dulu i selalu mcm ni.. keep asking opinion but not ask that person directly.. sebab deep down inside you sendiri tak sure.. you meluah sebab you nakkan validation..
I’m pretty sure dia menyenangi you.. tp belum stage bercinta kot.. sebab kalau dah bercinta, you akan tau sebab dia akan luahkan perasaan to secure the relationship.. lelaki ni, mcm mana malu or pendiam pun, bila dia sukakan sorang perempuan, he’ll make a move..
I setuju cadangan kat atas.. cuba jual mahal sikit.. kalau dia ajak keluar ckp you bz.. biarkan dia tertanya2.. text pun tunggu dia text dulu.. kalau dia kisah & rasa kehilangan mesti dia cari u balik.. |
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Rasanya kawan sahaja tu, umur dah 40 plus takkanlah tak tau nak ajak wanita bercinta..atau dia masih menunggu masa yang sesuai? |
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tanya direct je tt
tapi tt kena bersedia jugak la dari sudut emosi, mana tau kot jawapan yg diterima nanti tak spt yg diharapkan |
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Check dulu betul ke tak duda... kdg ade yg mengaku je duda padahal 
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i decided to ikut your advice. so far he thinks im busy bila i x reply but he send few texts suruh text balik when you have time
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tangkap cintan tu tidak la.. suka boleh la.. if friends je then boleh la i keep my options open
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kann.. mungkin jugak lah..
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belum ada keberanian nak tanya direct..
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yang ni i berani confirm dia duda
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Tanya je. "You nak kahwin dengan I tak?". Kalau dia gelak2, cakap je yang you nak an open relationship. Kalau dia kata nak, then discuss to proceed on next level. Tq. |
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Selamat hari raya.. i tak tanya u, tp raya tu dia bawak i jumpa anak and mak paknya. so positif je la
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cerrrr citerrrr 
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 21-5-2019 11:12 AM
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