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kenkawan mesti ada terima forwarded mail yg pasal lovey dovey ni kan. kalau ada letak la kat sini bleh gak share...
p.s:kalau da ada thread ni sila merge yer,,, tam tak kisah |
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tips to all
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye. sorry dew honey
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have anything to look forward to.
NINE. Love ! deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a GREAT FRIENDSHIP.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. |
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lawak jer... tapi ada betulnyer gak..
How to Make a Woman Happy
It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be most of the below.
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynaecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Show up naked
2. Bring food |
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Reply #1 hitamputih's post
Salam ...
Takde thread tentang nie boleh teruskan ...  |
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How To Be A Better Couple
10 steps to enjoying each other better...
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials ! or treat ments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy. There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.< /P>
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finally killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? æ Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probabl! y isn't worth it!
GOOD LUCK to you. |
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besh thread nih..hopfuli leh byk lagi la nnti |
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eh jgn la tunggu sy jer letak...lain lain pun letak la..plz.......
setuju dan suka sgt ngan ayat ni....
NINE. Love ! deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. |
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Originally posted by hitamputih at 18-9-2006 19:16
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Show up naked
2. Bring food
blackwhite,
yg ni pernah saya terima cuma yg last part to pasal "How to make a man happy" ada satu je...
LEAVE HIM ALONE.... :cool: |
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Originally posted by Blues_guy at 2-10-2006 11:56 PM
blackwhite,
yg ni pernah saya terima cuma yg last part to pasal "How to make a man happy" ada satu je...
LEAVE HIM ALONE.... :cool:
:bodek::bodek: |
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Bahagie nye dapat pakwe macam die...
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Bahagie nye dapat pakwe macam die... |
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Lebih kurang cm kat atas td..
Cintailah seseorang dengan sepenuh hati dan kasih sayang
sungguh pun anda akan berasa seolah-olah terseksa
percayalah itulah satu-satunya cara untuk lengkapkan hidup ini..
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I recently read that love is entirely a matter of chemistry. That must be why my wife treats me like toxic waste. - David Bissonette
When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her. - Sacha Guitry
After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just can't face each other, but still they stay togethr.
By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. - Socrates
A happy marriage is a matter of giving and taking; the husband gives and the wife takes.
Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them - Dumas
The great question... which I have not been able to answer....is, "What does a woman want?'' - Frued
I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me.
"Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to a restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music and dancing.
She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays." - Henny Youngman
"I don't worry about terrorism. I was married for two years." - Sam Kinison
"There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking. It's called marriage." - James Holt McGavran
"I've had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me and the second one didn't." - Patrick Murray
It's true that all men are born free and equal, but some of them get married!
Marriage is the process of finding out what kind of man your wife would have preferred.
Marry not a tennis player. For love means nothing to them.
Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming
1. Whenever you're wrong, admit it,
2. Whenever you're right, shut up.
- Nash
My wife only has 2 complaints. Nothing to wear and not enough Closet space.
You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to - Henny Youngman
My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met - Rodney Dangerfield
A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong - Milton Berle
Marriage is the only war where one sleeps with the enemy - Anonymous
"I haven't spoken to my wife in years. I didn't want to interrupt her." - Rodney Dangerfield |
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niha_sutera This user has been deleted
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Sekiranya kamu dapati diri mu menyintai seseorg
yg tak membalas cinta mu,jgnlah merasa tersisih.
Tiada salahnya menyintai seseorg kerana cinta tak
memilih utk singgah di hati seseorg.
Sekiranya kamu di cintai oleh seseorg yg tak
kamu cintai, anggaplah ia satu penghormatan buat
diri mu tapi kembali kan penghormatan tu dgn cara
yg ikhlas & jujur.Jgn amik kesempatan & jgnlah
melukakan.
Bagaimana kamu mengurus cinta, begitulah jua
kamu mengurusi diri mu. Setiap hati & prasaan
mengalami kepedihan & kebahgiaan yg serupa
sekalipun cara kita mengendalikannya berbeza.
Sekiranya ! kita bercinta dgn seseorg yg begitu
menyintai diri kita & tiba2 cinta memilih utk pergi,
tiada siapa yg harus di persalahkan... relakanlah
cinta itu pergi.
Kerana setiap yg berlaku ade maksud yg
tersembunyi & kita akan menyedari apabila masa
silih berganti.
Ingatlah bahawa jgn terlalu memilih cinta.
Kerana cinta sendiri akan memilih utk singgah di
hati sesiapa. Kamu hanya perlu menerima
kehadiran cinta dgn segala misteri di dlmnya
apabila ia dtg mengetuk pintu hati mu. Nikmatinya
sebagaimana ia membuat hidup mu bahagia...
Cinta sentiasa & selamanya akan menjadi misteri.
Bersyukurlah kerana ianya ! pernah singgah di hati
mu.. "
--
"wahai tuhan ku tak layak kesyurgamu ...namun tak pula aku sanggup
keNerakamu....kami lah hamba yang mengharap belas darimu ..."ya allah
jadikan lah kami hamba2 mu yang bertaqwa..ampunkan dosa2 kami .kedua
ibubapa kami .dosa semua umat2 islam yang masih hidup mahupun yang telah meninggal
dunia" |
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niha_sutera This user has been deleted
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Kisah CInta Suami ISTERI
yg ni buleh deehh..
Seorang wanita dan kekasihnya bernikah dan
acara pernikahannya sungguh
megah. Semua kawan-kawan dan keluarga
mereka
hadir menyaksikan dan
menikmati hari yang berbahagia tersebut. Suatu
acara yang luar biasa
dan
sungguh mengesankan. Mempelai wanita begitu
cantik dan anggun dalam
gaun
putihnya dan pengantin lelaki dengan tuxedo hitam
yang gagah. Setiap
pasang mata yang memandang setuju
mengatakan
bahawa mereka
sungguh-sungguh saling menyintai dan sepadan.
Beberapa bulan kemudian, si suami berkata
kepada isterinya:
"Sayang, abang baru membaca sebuah artikel
dalam majalah tentang
bagaimana memperkuatkan hubungan dan tali
pernikahan kita", katanya
sambil menunjukkan majalah tersebut. "Masing-
masing kita akan
mencatatkan hal-hal yang kurang kita sukai dari
pasangan kita.
Kemudian,
kita akan membahas bagaimana kita mengubah
hal-hal tersebut dan
membuatkan perkahwinan kita bersama lebih
bahagia ...".
Isterinya setuju dan mereka mula memikirkan hal-
hal dari pasangannya
yang tidak mereka sukai dan berjanji tidak akan
tersinggung ketika
pasangannya mencatat hal-hal yang kurang baik
kerana ia adalah untuk
kebaikan mereka bersama. Malam itu mereka
sepakat untuk berpisah tidur
dan mencatat apa yang terlintas dalam benak
mereka masing-masing.
Esok pagi ketika sarapan, mereka sedia
membincangkannya. "Abang akan
mulai dulu ya", kata suami. Ia lalu mengeluarkan
senarainya. Banyak
sekali yang ditulisnya, sekitar 2 muka surat ...
Ketika ia mulai
membacakan satu persatu hal yang tidak dia
sukai
mengenai diri
isterinya, ia memperhatikan bahawa airmata
isterinya mulai mengalir...
"Maaf, apakah abang harus berhenti ?" tanyanya.
"Oh tidak, teruskan ..." jawab isterinya.
Lalu si suami melanjutkan membacakan semua
yang tersenarai, lalu
kembali melipat kertasnya dengan manis di atas
meja dan berkata dengan
bahagia, "Sekarang giliran sayang pula
membacakan senaraimu".
Dengan suara perlahan isterinya berkata, "Sayang
tidak mencatat
sesuatupun di atas kertas sayang. Sayang berfikir
bahawa abang sudah
sempurna, dan sayang tidak ingin mengubah akan
diri abang. Abang adalah
diri abang sendiri. Abang kacak dan baik di sisi
sayang. Tiada satupun
daripada peribadi abang yang sayang dapati
kurang ..."
Si suami tersentak dan tersentuh hatinya oleh
pernyataan dan ungkapan
cinta serta isi hati isterinya... bahawa isterinya
menerima dirinya
seadanya. Dia kemudian tertunduk dan menangis...
P/s: Sebelum kita mencari kekurangan orang lain,
carilah kekurangan
diri sendiri. Adakah kita cukup SEMPURNA untuk
dibandingkan dengan
orang
lain?... Kalau jawapan nya YA, maka kita
berbohong atau kita PERASAN.
Kerana tiada manusia yang SEMPURNA dalam
dunia ini dan sentiasa ada
yang perlu diperbaiki.. . wallahua'lam. ..
"Hakikatnya orang-orang yang menyayangi diri kita
kerana kelebihan kita
dan menerima segala kelemahan kita, sudah
pastilah orang ini adalah
sangat ikhlas menyayangi diri kita... INSYA
ALLAH." |
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niha_sutera This user has been deleted
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manisnya bicara itu..
aku tahu,
engkau memahami,mungkin..
rasa yang mendesir
mengukir wajah kerinduan
meluahkan getar sepi yang tak tertahan..
..dan aku tahu
mungkin..
engkaupun mengerti,
bahawasanya
gerimis memilukan
sedangkan
laut dan pantai
saling berahsia..
ungkapanmu menjadi puisi
menghimpun madah menjadi lagu
manisnya bicara itu.. |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 18-9-2006 07:13 PM
变色卡
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