I hate his work.

fateinzul

My bf is a student. He was offered by his ex-lecturer( who is a lady whom he claims so selamba n cool..) to work as a part-time facilitator for a team-building workshop held for a huge famous Malaysian oil company.

The issue is: I hate his work. It's a merely a part-time weekend job, but hell no, he works as if 24/7 for the whole weekend, like he cannot even spend some little time for me! I hate it, I hate it, I hate it!!! :@ He text me but I dont give it a damn, cos I hate it, unless and until he return to his college and quit his damn job and proclaim that he wont work for his beloved lecturer again!!! and guess what! cos his job is so tiring, so i expect his pay would be much higher than a legal counsel! but that is ABSOLUTELY NOT the case!! Oh My Lord, give yourself a break, dear bf!!

He knew that I hatred his hellful-committed-but-yet-interesting job cos he got the amazing chance to meet all those big,big loaded people..but all he could do for me is telling me that he will be quitting next week as the third week he'll spend his lovely-fun time as a facee~ and upon knowing that the same thing will happen next week and i'll be like, staying aloof, I burst myself into abrupt rage!:@

Now I need your kind advice.Thank you.

[ Last edited by  fateinzul at 1-2-2009 10:54 PM ]

kambeng_masam

hey hey...chill out a bit, lil sissy girl!

First ya have to ask yerself these:
1. Are you always scolding to yer bf whenever he's not meeting your needs?
2. Do you got any chance to be with him everyday or how frequent you both hang out tgether?
3. Is he still calling yer mobile everyday without fail?

If at least 2 out of 3 questions above are true, you gotta let him loose a bit sis. To me you sounds so overprotecting (jealousy perhaps?) and very very demanding person....c'mon just give him some space.

You both still young and so many things to do. You got your things and so do him. Try to talk to yer bf would be a great idea...and please don't get mad at him as soon as you meet him..ask him nicely as you wanna seducing him...you wanna understand him more better right? Ooh..actually he'd already gave you the answer that he loves on what he's doing....just let him. What you're gonna do if he still cannot leave his hellful-committed-but-yet-interesting job? You'll hurt yerself by being like this meroyan dalam forum.

Hey..maybe he's trying his best to be 'somebody'...boys always do that!

trusnowan

from kambing masam...

Janganlah dalam usaha kita membetulkan kesilapan, kita buat kesilapan yang lebih besar

trusnowan

macam not related je...   

matryoshka7

cool babe...
maybe he needs some space or something.. i think u should discuss detail with him if u are not satisfied with him or whatever he does...
a discussion shouldn't be a one side winning over the other side..remember the best is a win-win situation..try to be tolerate with each other..
we know that nobody is perfect in this world but we can try to improve ourselves to at least achieve the perfect level..but still there will be some loop holes here n there..
but remember no one is perfect except The Almighty..
but if he still inisisted n stubborn then u might have to think some other ways to solve your problem....
this is only my 2 cents....

Gemukkkkkkk

apa lah skiping skiping london ni.  ai everyday is spik gooder more than you and you many many but ai neber show inside posting ok.

bf je kan?  
takde plan mau kahwin kan?  
dedua student kan?
apa kecoh, lu campak je itu bf dalam tong sampah la.  ada berpuluh beratus beribu laki lagi kat luar sana yang mungkin nak beratur ambik peluang dating dengan lu.

lu muda lagi, mau hari hari tukar bf pun talak hal...

bila baru berkapel, lu mesti lay out some ground rules la dulu.  kalau lu tarak buat, sampai bila itu bf tak layan apa lu mau.  forever taking you for granted even bila lu marah-marah...  dia akan assume yang lepas pujuk lu 2-3 kali, lu diam dan cair ikut apa saja dia suruh lu buat.

so, buang itu bf.  cari baru punya bf dan kasi tau itu ground rules.  ini pun boleh tapis laki mana suka habis sama lu atau suka main-main saja.

angkat itu telepon dan do the necessary, now.

pujanclay

kalu wa dapat gelfren mcm ni...wa rejek je
ntah apa2...ingat bf dia tu personal asistant dia ke

fateinzul

Euwww I dont even give a sight of someone like pujanclay, anyway.

redsinner

baru bf...dia takmo kite, kite pun takmo dia gak.
dia keje lebih sbb nak kasi u diamond ring to propose u.
who knows what the future might hold for us? if we cant see what we want, dont make the situation looked like how we wanted it.
if u feel that u are jealous with his precious ex-lecturer, just say so.
if u feel that you need more time with me, be more straight forward to tell him to his face.

kambeng_masam

haaa..tulah point aku tadik gemuk....takkan asyik nak berkepiiiiiiiiiiiit jek celah ketiak tu...

takkan nak gonggong barang jek keroje nya?

penampar_jepun

Originally posted by kambeng_masam at 3-2-2009 12:14 AM
haaa..tulah point aku tadik gemuk....takkan asyik nak berkepiiiiiiiiiiiit jek celah ketiak tu...

takkan nak gonggong barang jek keroje nya?

yep!
yg nih aku sokong
xkan nk berkepit 24?
xbusan ker?
huhuhuhu...

enchantedlurve

hurmm besala.. tgh stdnt.. mmg excited kalu dpt part time job.. cube dh kije nnt...

Lordraziel

selfish.

one word i would use to describe you. and i pity your boy friend to have you as his girlfriend.

good women will definitely support her man in his road for success. but it seem you are not a good women. You are a kind of women who will drag a man down from truly realizing his true potential.

if your boyfriend ever failed in his career, i bet its because of you.Now, even when he got the golden opportunity to gain extra work experience,a step  ahead from others when finding job later on in life, you whine like crazy. you are a horrible girl . you only think of yourself. veryshortsighted.

i hope he will have a better girlfriend. a supportive one.  and you get a new boyfriend who are lazy bum and staying with you 24/7 and  leech on you.

my 2 cent. kacinggggggggg!

pujanclay

coz u never lay ur sight on pujanclay yet...

pink_honey

agree wif u..
selfish..dats da word..
lgpon bru kapel je..student lg lak tu..kne la wat blaja byk bnde..smue yg laki tu wat tuk future yg lbeh cerah
should support him..he said he like wut he do..

adydza2

kena la terima keadaan.. give and take

komicat

mm..bagi saya kita kena bertolak ansur...

kalau u rasa dia mmg tak pedulikan u lagi..bw berbincang...
jgn marah2 k.....
pempuan mmg suka diberi perhatian..itu mmg takdapat dinafikan...tapi pempuan
jg tak suka di kongkong......suka mencari dari di cari..ada jgk suka di cari, di cari dan di cari tanpa mencari

org laki mmg pentingkan kerjaya..coz melalui kerjaya yg stabil, kehidupan yg
baik...dan masa depan yg cemerlang.....bolehla ur bf pinang u nanti......

u tak nak ke ada bf/suami yg berjaya dalam kerjaya nya.......
bagi sokongan ok......
walaupun kita sedih sakit hati ke apa.....cuba fikir positif as long as dia tak mengabaikan u..mksd sy dia tetap ada call u and sms u.........

lagipun tak elok dating salu..belum jadi suami isteri yg sah...

limauais

sesuatu hubungan tu indah bila masing2 sentiasa bertolak ansur dan memahami...

u patut bersyukur sbb dpt bf yg ade kerja dan seorg yg rajin berusaha...
ni untuk masa dpn your future gak...
cume kesibukan dia mnybbkn kkdg u rase terabai...
daripada u marah2 ape yg u dpt?
sakit hati?

better u tolak ansur memahami situasi dia
beri sokongan pada dia dlm bekerja..
so dia akan rase dihargai sgt bile buah hati dia menyokong tindakan dia..
dan u takkan 24 jam nak berkepit..
ni bukan mcm fairy tale...this is reality!

carilah hobi utk mengisi masa lapang..kuar ngan kwn2 ker...
dan berbincang dgn dia cari satu mase utk kuar ngan dia...
manfaatkan mase tu utk bersama dia

don't be selfish in relationship..

trusnowan

i love ur words...............


perempuan idaman ni.....

pressor

adoilah...

bukan dia keje utk seumur idup dia pun mcm tuh..