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Actually root cause tu senang aje...a 3rd party will be able to give something that a husband/wife cant give....be it great sex, the methods she can do, or emotional support, or being understanding, or being able to understand his work, his pressure...or even piece of mind.
Kadang2 utk lelaki atau perempuan, kalau rumahtangga ade apa2 masaalah, dan bila 3rd party muncul, dari start kawan, lambat laun akan spark the love or the affection.......and 70% its not the 3rd party fault...its solely our fault or the one that strayed
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yea aku setuju..kena cari something tu apa..
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Yeah...ni semua boleh bawa berbincang...both have to make it happen
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winsonyu replied at 21-8-2016 10:55 AM
Sila baca apa yg saya tulis berulang kali sbb jawapan u kat dalam tu
If u still want him, then ...
ya btl, jawapan utk sy mmg dlm post u tu.
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sapa tau mana ada kaunselor kt bangi?
i really need a support.
sy x kuat nk lwn sorang2.
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Edited by munchkin at 22-8-2016 02:44 AM
you have to try kalau nak beri dia peluang. dia pun kena cuba paham. ini bukan small matter. sudahlah curang nak suruh lupa begitu saja. mudahnya berkata kata. cuba kalau you pula curang. suruhlah dia lupakan jangan diungkit jangan disebut. dia maybe minta you terima jadi dia pun kena terima akibat kecurangan dia dahulu (mengungkit). keep on supporting you. keep on trying to prove that he is sorry for what he has done. lelaki yang suruh you lupakan / cakap you berdendam ni seolah tidak sesal perbuatan dia dahulu. kalau dia sesal sure dia paham takkan sesenang je suruh you forget. bila kita ingat (kecurangan), sure ada rasa malu / sesal/ tidak mahu buat lagi (reflect diri/reflect kesalahan). kalau suruh forget terus hmmm
sama samalah kamu berdua berusaha berbaik. bagi peluang buat dia. dia pun kena bagi peluang dan paham you. bukan puan sorang saja. dia pun sama.
ehhh kalau dia sudah berubah (tidak buat you curiga langsung), masakan you perlu mengungkit lagi? betul tidak?
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Well...kaunselor kat bangi tu tak tau lah
But if u need a friend to hear ur story then im here..sincerely
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Lain mcm mana pulak wei?
U tahu tak berapa org I dah kaunsel kat forum ni...dan berapa org I dah tolong dalam apa2 issue dari relationship sampai lah sex education?
Those who know me here long enough will know that I can give sound advice
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okay.. hehe.. 
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winsonyu replied at 22-8-2016 09:00 AM
Lain mcm mana pulak wei?
U tahu tak berapa org I dah kaunsel kat forum ni...dan berapa org I da ...
yes..
sy btl2 perluka seseoranv yg blh bg nasihat personally kat sy.
kli nk tau detail blh baca thread sy how to move on..
smua forumner bg nasihat mcm u,baik2 semuanya tp ntah lah smpai ke saat ini sy pn mcm TT, apa dia buat smja menimbulkn kecurigaa sy..
cmna sy nk hidup bersama camni..huhu
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Well...feel free to PM me if u need further advice
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Kalau kau mengingat dan nak mengucap kesalahan dia,kau kena ingat kesalahan dan kekurangan korang,kau xpunya kesalahan dan kekurangan ke? |
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I dulupun byk kali komen kat U psl ni sebab I pun kena sama mcm U. Memang takes time nak hilang benda ni. Mcm2 I buat even sampai skrgpun at times I ada jugak teringat2. Tapi skrg I keep to myselfla klu teringatpun. Dah takde merempan2 kat husband dah. Cuma I nak share dgn U yang memang bersungguh2 berdoa mintak Allah tolong. Macam2 doa I & I believe kalau I x doa mintak Allah tolong, I takkan boleh overcome benda ni sendiri2.
Reason : sebab I ingat I ada baca surah An-Najmi ayat 43 yang skt sebanyak maksud dia : Dan sesungguhnya Dialah yang menjadikan kamu tertawa dan Dialah yang menjadikan kamu menangis. Memang kita manusia ni tak mampupun nak buat buat apa2pun kalau Allah tak tolong.
So to TT & b_n_c, keep on praying. InsyaAllah, Allah akan tolong kita. Cuma cepat atau lambat je. Jangan putus asa utk berdoa.
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Post time 27-8-2016 07:28 AM
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assalamualaikum..
i keep read all u olls komen.still here..x g mane pon.now muhasabah diri.
alhamdulillah..ada skit perubahan in terms of perasaan..action by him.nmpk ada keikhlasan dr dia nk berubah.so..ht saya pon dh a bit cool down..tapi stil lum let go all the perasaan yg lps.
still keep on prayiing and try so hard to memaafkn to those yg prnah melukakan.
doakan yang baik2 tuk saya. |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 21-8-2016 11:09 AM
