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Yelah2 manak betolManak je yg paham dan menghayati konsep Islam
Insaf dah ni.
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pasal kewangan, aku rasa x akan jadi masalh... socso akn byr tiap2 bulan  |
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You value your husband's life with the amount you put into the premium of his life insurance? The more you put in ..the more you get upon his death?
Now tell me...don't you consider this as great PENGKHInaan pada ciptaan TUHAN??????
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Sorry. Dh bukak thread xreti-reti jaga.. 
Sy tak bekerja, rumah atas nama sy wpun bulan2 husband byr. Kes dulu beli rumah sy masih bekerja.
If suami xde, monthly kena maintain rm3-4k utk rumah n bill. Memandangkan dah jd h/wife dh lama umur pun dh tua xmungkin org akn ambil bekerja. Part tu yg sy pk tu. Mn nk cr income bulanan kecuali jual rumah beli rumah kecik.
Psl life insuran pnh suruh husband ambil tp husband marah. Katanya value dia bkn 300-500k. Pernah gaduh jgk psl life insuran ni.insuran yg ada cuma medical je tu pun bkn masuk saving. Medical semata-mata.
Bila bincang psl ni suami dh warning..katanya :
"mcm doa minta dia meninggal je. Xpyh kalau-kalau.. Bila jadi biar jadi. Tak perlu pikir."
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Terima kasih atas semua reply.. Really appreciated..  |
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Hello my QARIN.......
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tahun ni kawan sekerja saya 2 orng suami meninggal mengejut..
yang sorng umur 37 mati dlm tido,
semua kwsp,TH masih belum bertukar kpd isteri sbb meke baru kawin 7tahun..
xsangka begitu awal meninggal |
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mak_wa95 replied at 12-5-2016 09:56 PM
tahun ni kawan sekerja saya 2 orng suami meninggal mengejut..
yang sorng umur 37 mati dlm tido,
Innalillah sedihnya.... |
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Me pon xlama lagi bakal jd suri rumah sepenuh masa..insyaallah...mula2 fikir gtulah camner kalu jadi per2 kt hb?
Fikir2 balik...Berserah kat Allah jer sambil buat apa2 persediaan yg termampu.... |
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Satu penghijrahan jugak nie........
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sedih nye...
my hb pn tak tuka nama epf dia lg..dh byk kali pesan asik lupa sbb bz...huhuhu
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dia pun xtau..
isu borng urus bagai, tgk2 penama ibu,
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harap2 mak mertua dia konsider la..takut bg sikit je...
sian anak2...
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xtanyaa rumah yang dia duduk nama sapa..
tapi dia masih balik rumah mertua sbb ziarah kubur arwah..
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Dear wives, dear mothers
That above respactable title that is bestowed upon by the Almighty. Many lives with dignity carrying the title and many will failed to. We hope towards the end of the journey the later will realise and seek forgiveness and will be accepted and may meet their creator.
I know where you worries come from with regards to the wellbeing of your young children upon the demise of your husband.
you have loved you child the moment got the news it is growing in your womb, you loved the chiid when it was born, it didnt matter what gender it is. You love your child endlessly in taking care of them, deprived of sleep, exhausted. And you worry...
For the admiration that i have for all the mothers i would like to share a little bit of umar abdul aziz's biography |
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When death approached Umar Abd al-Aziz, Maslamah bin Abd al-Malik entered upon him and said
"O Amir al-Mu'minin! You have really denied your sons by not allowing them to take this money. You have left them helpless and nothing to depend upon, so why dont you entrust them to me or someone like me from your family to take care of them after you go?
Umar responded
"Sit me down in my bed" when he was seated he continued "I have heared what you said, O Maslamah, and as for you saying that i have denied my children by not giving them this money, by Allah, I have never denied them of a right or given to them what is not theirs. As for what you said about a will, I say:"Verily, my wali (protector, Supporter and Helper) is Allah who has revealed the book and he protects the ridgteous.(al-A'raf, 7:196) hence my sons are either of two kinds: they are righteous, in which case Allah will mwke them successful, or they are not,min which case I would be the first person to not support such a man by giving him money so that he could increase in his disobedience to Allah. Call my sons to me." |
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Hence his sonscame to him, when he saw them, his eyes begun to well upas he said to them
"I feel thant my young self is leaving behind a family with nothing to help them"
And he started to cry. He then said
"Yet by the Grace of Allah, I am leaving you with much good. O my sons! You shall never meet anyone from the Arabs ot those who pledged their covenant without knowing that you have some right over them. O sons! In bringing you up, your father had to choose between two things: that you become rich and your father would go to hell, or that you remain poor and your father would go to paradise. Hence, it was more favourable to me that you should remain poor. Now get up with Allah as your Protector, get up with Allah as your Provider!" |
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Umar bin Abd al-Aziz in the year 101 AH. At the age of 39years and 5 months old. His caliphate lasted for 2years 5 months and 4days. |
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Post time 26-2-2016 01:58 PM
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