Orang Yang Suka Play Victim

black-shirt

Korang penah ada kwn or relatives yg suka play victim? Apakah yg dikatakan play victim ni?

Playing the victim is a role a person plays. When a person plays being a victim, he is looking for attention and often times use it as a tool to manipulate situations and people. It's always another's fault why things go badly for him. He won't take responsibility for his part. He will get people's attention and play people's feelings, seeking sympathy.

A person that does this usually has emotional issues. It could be an even deeper issue like a personality disorder. You will find that the more time you spend with them, the more emotionally drained you become. It's exhausting because there is never a dull moment. It's constant drama. And it's always about them.

Aku ter recalled blk kisah lama.. dulu aku ada kwn laki yg expert gila dlm play victim ni. Dia dh kawen.. wife cantik tp childless. Antara benda yg dia penah buat then dia.mtk simpati dr.aku and kwn2 lain like:-

1- dia addictes to MIRC. Suka chatting dgn pompuan and ajak pompuan dating. Nak jd kan citer 1 of the girl yg dating dgn dia tu kenalan aku juga. 1st date lg dia dh kutuk bini dia tak matang.. suka enjoy.. tak pandai jaga makan minum dia... few years later bini dia blah tinggalkan dia and cari laki lain. Then dia dok jaja apa salah dia.. dia dh buat yg terbaik.. bla bla bla.. fuck sgt


2- few years back dia gi main cinta dgn bini org. Siap loving2 dlm instagram. Dia dok bg harapan kt bini org tu bila kami tegur dia ckp apa yg patut aku buat... pompuan tu yg over, dia x bole buat apa..


And few pompuan yg dia bg harapan then bila kantoi dia play victim. And org2 yg tak tau pal perangai dia ni akan simpati and.bg support and perhatian yg tak tiada batasan pd dia.

Korang penah jumpa MANIPULATOR mcm ni? Meh share story

Kahla

Ada. Org mcm ni bahaya

onexox97

erm kena bawak g klinik pakat psikiatri
cek otak
mungkin ada masalah sakit jiwa
atau khusus nama skit jiwa tu bipolar

doubleA

Ada jumpa juga. Serik dah. Dia punya play victim macam psychotic. Merbahaya jadi baik lah cut off all connections jalani hidup masing2

salmon-suki

Not sure bley kategorikan as play victim ke x tp die mmg jenis manipulator and attention seeker....kalau boleh,die nak kd centre of attraction and pretend that she's the nicest person you've eva met in the world..tapi at the same time,kalau ada someone y lebih drpd die,die akan cuba jatuhkan org tu senyap2 by being the sweetest girl depan her target and backstab the target...sy kenal org gtu and "thanks" to her,hubungan sy ngn sorg guy ni retak...now sy stay away from her...

suka2

Org gini aku doa kena gilis keretapi je.

nipskacang

yesss,  ade sorg dlm life aku smpai skrg merempan play victim. easiest way out, cut any connections dgn org tersebut bersame2 dgn org yg percaye kan die.

black-shirt

Masa kawen dgn ex wife.. dia ckp aku terpaksa kawen sbb mak dia suka sgt aku jd menantu walhal sebelum tu dh tinggal serumah 3 4 thn dh

wafeloren

bahaya org cmni n buat kite xselesa untuk jangka masa panjang. org2 camni wa akan elakkan atau ckp yg necessary jer.

CardiGans85

Ade n dlm keluarga sendiri. Org mcm ni klu org luar,ptt x pyh bkwn. Tp klu da dlm family sendiri,just play safe. Org mcm ni x bole d buat baik sbb dlm 100 benda yg kita buat utk dia,dia xkn igt n blk2 kita juga yg salah. Lg parah,jual nama kita utk ttp kslhn dia. Org mcm ni bg sy sama je seperti menghalalkan benda yg haram.dasar manipulator n lidah bcabang.

cahaya_almas

Heee org mcm ni jenis suka berpura2...depan kita nmpk baik...tp blkg kita mengutuk kita je.....jahat.....tk suka...tk payah hadir lah org mcm ni dlm hidup i.....

Innrukia

lorrr dejavu sgt issue yg hang utarakan dik..
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kat forum ni pun ada spesis "jejan" yg play victim & u can see majority pompuan akan pakat2 sua bahu bagi "jejan" ni kasih syg  sebab  "ex wife jejan" tu perangai durjana katanya
x silap salah satunya ada tred yg dpt sambutan hangat & berjujuran  air mata forumer  baca  "detail kedurjanaan ex wife jejan" tu..... seolah takde sekelumit silap di pihak jejan tu....

come on la, even though ex wife teruk sgt perangai pun tak perlu pun jaja sana sini... benda tu patah balik kat diri hangpa la... fail big time! and utk sang gadis  "naive" kena ingat, kalo jejan tu bila duk jaja & kutuk ex wife depa, jgn ingat kat hangpa dia xleh buat mcm tu

black-shirt

Kt setiap org dia citer psl buruknya ex wife dia.. walhal even pompuan tu blah ada laki.lain.. ex dia relek je x buruk2 kn dia pun.

Sebelum cerai kemain lg chat sana sini love love dgn pompuan lain.. lps cerai baik gila play victim. Ramai org simpati lak tu

ninja boy

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sue_0684

Innrukia replied at 29-4-2017 02:58 PM
lorrr dejavu sgt issue yg hang utarakan dik..
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kat forum ni pun ada spesis "jejan" yg play victim ...

haha..gotchaa....spesis bipolar.

noraidil_06

salmon-suki replied at 28-4-2017 01:05 AM
Not sure bley kategorikan as play victim ke x tp die mmg jenis manipulator and attention seeker....k ...

Urmmmm.mcm best girl win je

Levespa

org mcm ni dia tak pernah salah.. apa2 jadi mesti dia cari orang lain utk dipersalahkan.. ramai je org mcm ni.. avoid em like the plague

Levespa

org mcm ni dia tak pernah salah.. apa2 jadi mesti dia cari orang lain utk dipersalahkan.. ramai je org mcm ni.. avoid em like the plague

Farnor

Adoii bencinya sikap macam ini manusia..paling pantang jumpa org play victim..jenis munafik. Sudah pernah jumpa orang yg ada sikap begini.haha last2 kantoi sebab ada simpan bukti hihi..itulah bahagia di dunia..akhirat terbuka semua kebenaran..better jauhkan diri dari org mcm ini.

cikrosienona

omg... some of the forumer's stories here are really familiar. kita ni cross dgn lelaki yang sama ke?

buruk2 kan ex wife.. xde satu pun bende yg bagus psl ex wife.. chatting and ajak perempuan dating sana sini sebelum bercerai.. bg harapan palsu..

tapi semua nye bukan salah dia.. ade je alasan utk nampak diri tu angel.

manipulative tahap psikotik. silalah cut off terus. sgt2 letih emotionally. sucks your soul out.