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Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)
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Originally posted by leftrani_kel at 4-10-2006 11:55 AM
dah nak wat camner...dah terjadi perkara mcm tu..LDR..
si die ade turun la..seminggu sekali..kepercayaan tu mmg ade antara satu sama lain tetapi kengkadang curiga gak..so mcm maner nak determi ...
something or someone that we don't pay attention or nurture sometime might go astray whether we like it or not,
to determine loyalty from someone needs a lot of your own attention to that particular someone, talk to him about
your feelings or future plan, maybe u can get a hint whether he/she is loyal to you from the way they express
their thoughts and feelings... |
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Originally posted by ifanonline at 6-10-2006 08:55 AM
something or someone that we don't pay attention or nurture sometime might go astray whether we like it or not,
to determine loyalty from someone needs a lot of your own attention to that part ...
mcm maner naik tau die loyal ke x dari feeling die? |
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Originally posted by leftrani_kel at 6-10-2006 08:58 AM
mcm maner naik tau die loyal ke x dari feeling die?
dier akan menyentuh ke mana arah tuju perhubungan awak dgn dia, masa depan bersama dll...
kalau dier bercakap pasal diri dier sahaja dan tidak mention langsung pada diri u, itu dapat menunjukkan
yg dier kurang setia dengan awak.. |
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Originally posted by ifanonline at 6-10-2006 09:03 AM
dier akan menyentuh ke mana arah tuju perhubungan awak dgn dia, masa depan bersama dll...
kalau dier bercakap pasal diri dier sahaja dan tidak mention langsung pada diri u, itu dapat menunjukk ...
kalu die ade mention pasal masa depan...pasal diri pasangan die..tu kire die setia la..abis nape die x melamar pasangan dia...nak tunggu brape lama baru die nak melamar? |
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Originally posted by leftrani_kel at 6-10-2006 03:08 PM
kalu die ade mention pasal masa depan...pasal diri pasangan die..tu kire die setia la..abis nape die x melamar pasangan dia...nak tunggu brape lama baru die nak melamar?
mungkin dia memerlukan sedikit masa untuk membuat preparation sebelum melamar anda, perkahwinan bukan perkara
yang boleh diambil mudah kerana perkahwinan adalah untuk selamanya...persediaan seperti kewangan, mental, spiritual dan sebagainya... |
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My Heart
Disini kau dan aku
Terbiasa bersama
Menjalani kasih sayang
Bahagia ku denganmu
Pernahkah kau menguntai
Hari paling indah
Ku ukir nama kita berdua
Disini surga kita
Bila kita mencintai yang lain
Mungkin kah hati ini akan tegar
Sebisa mungkin tak akan pernah
Sayang ku akan hilang
If u love somebody
Could we be this strong
I will fight to win
Our love will conquer all
Wouldn抰 reach my love
Even just one night
Our love will stay in my heart
My heart |
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ok i got this prob...
im malay he's chinese...
kitorg 1 sek dlu for 5 years...after spm kitorg x jmp lagi smpai la 4 thn skrg ni..
rite now he work at spore...
we cont our frenship through chat...so many prob n stories we share together
one day he said wan to b my special bf...
but i still in doubt either xcept him or not...
i asked him to giv a time to me...
but i wonder what kind of answer should i give...its should b +ve or -ve |
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Originally posted by casper541 at 13-10-2006 09:09 AM
ok i got this prob...
im malay he's chinese...
kitorg 1 sek dlu for 5 years...after spm kitorg x jmp lagi smpai la 4 thn skrg ni..
rite now he work at spore...
we cont our frenship through chat ...
LDR (Long Distance Relationship)? Hmm, do u meet him one in awhile? is pretty hard to determine someone's intention
just thru chatting...why don't u meet up and befriend him? get to know him first before declaring anything... |
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Sikap Malas Dalam Perhubungan
Manusia secara semulajadinya memang bersifat pemalas. Tidak kira lelaki ataupun wanita, seseorang individu itu lebih gemar melihat orang lain melakukan sesuatu kerja daripada dirinya melakukan kerja tersebut. Dalam perhubungan percintaan, sikap 'malas' dan 'sambil lewa' perlu dibuang disebabkan perhubungan antara lelaki dan wanita harus dipupuk antara kedua-dua belah pihak. Sebelah pihak tidak boleh mengharapkan sebelah pihak yang satu lagi melakukan segala-galanya dalam perhubungan sedangkan dirinya duduk sahaja 'bergoyang kaki'. Pepatah 'it takes two to tango' adalah paling tempat digambarkan dalam perhubungan.
Apabila aku melihat sesetengah wanita mengadu tentang jodohnya tidak ada ataupun belum mempunyai pasangan lagi, aku pasti wanita ini adalah seorang wanita yang dikategorikan 'pemalas'. Walaupun pelbagai alasan yang diberikan seperti perlu memilih pasangan, tidak mempunyai masa, sibuk dengan kerjaya dan sebagainya.
Lelaki dan wanita dijadikan didunia ini secara berpasangan dan kepada lelaki dan wanita yang 'ingkar' dengan naluri alam ini akan berasa jiwanya kosong dan kesunyian disebabkan matlamat hidup didunia tidak tercapai. Jadi, sikap malas didalam diri kita harus dibuang supaya dalam sesuatu perhubungan itu mempunyai 'give and take'. |
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Intellectual Versus Non-Intellectual Partners
Sometime in life, what we hope for doesn't come true. A partner who is perfect in every way is hard to come by, especially intellectual partners. In a relationship, to determine whether the journey of love will forever remain happy everafter depends heavily on your partners educational well-being. For example, you are a university graduate and your partner is a non-academic type of person, would he/she understand the things you wanted to talk about or discuss? Maybe in the long run you do not want to offend your partner by putting down yourself at his/her level by talking and discussing simple things but, someday you would like to talk about serious matters such as future plans, education, etc...
It is much more better to find someone who has the academic level as same as you do or higher rather than looking for someone just to fulfil your love life.... |
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Reply #190 ifanonline's post
yeap..agreed with u...
bila dpt partner sama level education... lebih senang berkomunikasi dgn dia... mudah dibawa berbincang dalam pelbagai topik....... |
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saya ada masalh...
sy dah putus dgn BF sya....
tp keadaan sy mcm org Gila talak...huh
apa sy nak buat? |
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lelaki takle terima ker kalau perempuan approached dulu?
i've done before..but it seem like...fail! |
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Originally posted by polaris_girlz at 2-11-2006 03:52 PM
saya ada masalh...
sy dah putus dgn BF sya....
tp keadaan sy mcm org Gila talak...huh
apa sy nak buat?
cuba citer detail skit kenapa awak jadi seorang 'gila talak'? |
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Originally posted by badreena at 3-11-2006 08:37 AM
lelaki takle terima ker kalau perempuan approached dulu?
i've done before..but it seem like...fail!
siapa kata tak boleh? boleh, even sesetengah lelaki suka kalau girls approach dulu...:nerd: |
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Originally posted by ifanonline at 3-11-2006 08:50 AM
siapa kata tak boleh? boleh, even sesetengah lelaki suka kalau girls approach dulu...:nerd:
dah cuba...thats why i said fail... |
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Originally posted by badreena at 3-11-2006 08:58 AM
dah cuba...thats why i said fail...
mungkin cara u approach kot? cuba citer skit mcm mana u approach... |
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Originally posted by ifanonline at 3-11-2006 09:22 AM
mungkin cara u approach kot? cuba citer skit mcm mana u approach...
i pm u.tq. |
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Originally posted by ifanonline at 4-10-2006 10:18 AM
sebenarnya, from my experience, i dont' like Long Distance Relationship (LDR), susah nak determine kesetiaan seseorang
apabila mereka berada berjauhan dari kita, it takes a lot of sacrifice an ...
mmg betul laa kata ifan kalau LDR nie mmg susah nak determine kesetiaan seseorg..mcm aku nie mmg bercinta jarak jauh laa, tapi beza jarak hanya 3 jam sahaja..anyway aku mmg trust kat dia tapi kdg2 any sikit perasaan curiga tapi aku tak sepatutnya pk mcm tue sbb dia mmg trust aku sgt2..walaupun jumpa hanya sebulan sekali tapi masing2 gembira dgn cara mcm nie sbb kalau hari2 jumpa mesti rasa boring dan mcm dah takde privacy pula pastu mesti selalu nak gaduh..lagipun aku dgn dia selalu call dan mmg kerap sms..so, kalau nak gie mana2 mesti report dulu..dari situ aku blh tau apa yg dia buat, dan dia blh tau apa yg aku buat..so, far alhamdulillah aku dgn dia takde masalah yg complicated sgt..so, aku harap sgt aku dgn dia blh get along smp bila2..dulu aku pernah bercinta dgn bdk satu U..tapi tak bertahan hanya 3 bulan jer sbb selalu berjumpa pastu bila jumpa mesti ada jer yg tak kena dan takde privacy lgsg..kdg2 aku pk gak mesti ada hikmah bila aku bercinta dgn cara mcm nie (LDR)..apa2pun semua nie bergantung pada individu, ada yg blh terima dgn cara mcm nie ada yg tak blh..so, depends on that person in life.. |
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Originally posted by ifanonline at 3-11-2006 08:49 AM
cuba citer detail skit kenapa awak jadi seorang 'gila talak'?
kat sini
3minggu dia myepi kan diri.....sejak kami clash...Tp mlm td dgn tak di sangka2 dia hantar msg kat sy...
Dia ckp "Abg minta maaf, wat ms skng abg xleh nak tumpu bcinta, kt leh bkawan...abg xnak kt jadi musuh......"
Sampai Hati dia.... |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 6-10-2006 08:58 AM
